Hello June!

Wow, how is it June already? It seems like the year is flying by!

June is the month of the Strawberry Moon, and I am so excited to begin this month! This month I think we want to really soak up the month, as I am not sure where April and May went to so fast!

Summer begins in June, and it always brings to mind that freedom and joy felt when you are a child, and the whole summer is stretched out before you like a blank canvas. Mornings of sleeping in, lazy days reading under a tree, chasing fireflies and playing tag, trips to the cool library on those really hot days, visits to the zoo and beaches and walks through shady woods. Peeking under rocks for bugs and just laying back in the grass, staring up at the clouds. Playing with friends and cousins and backyard cookouts and pool play dates. Summertime feels like freedom, and we lose that feeling so much as an adult, with all of our responsibilities of work, whether it is a work out of the home job or stay at home. But if there is one thing I have learned in the past few months, it is that time is short. We all only have so many summers and while we do have to take care of lives, and can’t live with the utter carefreeness of a child all of the time, we can incorporate some of that spirit into our everyday. Stop and take half an hour or an hour on a busy day to just be. To enjoy and savor your life. Make days just for playtime and family and fun days out. Try and make the most of these days. The other day my husband came home from work and although it was dinner time and we had lots of things we could have and should have been doing, instead we hopped in the car, stopped at a bakery for pizza rolls, and headed off to the marsh for a sunset. A spur of the moment dinner picnic. It was good for the soul.

This summer, we are planning on many trips to the library, little morning hikes, and lots of evening front porch sitting. We are enjoying gardening and the farmer’s markets that are popping up, and we are looking forward to many backyard bbqs and fires, chilled white wine, iced lavendar coffee, and of course, lots and lots of ice cream! Mint chocolate chip for Wyatt and Billy, chocolate for me. Wyatt also started adaptive swimming lessons which are fun, he loves being in the water. He also really loves to splash! I think the two of us are going to the zoo, and to a few farms around here together, and we are planning on going strawberry picking with my brother and his family, including Wyatt’s cousin L. But we are also seeking out just those quiet moments too, sitting in the grass on a blanket surrounded by books and cookies and lemonade. Iced tea parties and poetry. Lounging about in our pajamas on a lazy morning, eating pancakes and listening to music. (My son loves Down by the Bay and will sing along, quite loudly…) Dancing around the house to Prince and Van Morrison and Tom Petty and Eric Church. Spontaneous trips for ice cream for dinner.

We had our first outdoor evening, soaking up the beautiful weather, warm and breezy, at my brother’s house the other night and it was perfect. Birds singing their evening song, burger and hot dogs, chips, cold beers, and bubbles for the kids to play with. I am looking forward to many more this summer!

What do you love about summer? Do you have any favorite memories from when you were a kid?

My Sunday-Monday Post!

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As my family tried to ease back into routine, it was still a difficult week with much to do. We had a pretty good weekend though, starting with a bbq at my brother’s on Friday night. He has a new puppy and a great yard, and it was a lovely evening. Summer is here, finally, I think. (fingers crossed) The boyo has three days left of school, and I am looking forward to having him home again. I hope to do lots of cool stuff this summer!

Read Last Week:

Last week I read and reviewed and gave away a copy of Montauk, which was excellent! I really enjoyed it. I also tried to read The Summoning but couldn’t get into it so it became a DNF, sadly.

Reading This Week:

I think I am in need of a little summer reading and I ran across this book in a Facebook group that I belong to called The Romance of Reading. It sounded perfect so I am giving it a whirl!

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Book Review: Montauk by Nicola Harrison

Watching:

I’m afraid our television watching is not that thrilling right now – still Criminal Minds on Netflix. Lol.

How about you all? What is going on in your neighborhood?

Review and Giveaway! Montauk by Nicola Harrison

Publisher Summary:

Montauk, Long Island, 1938. 

For three months, this humble fishing village will serve as the playground for New York City’s wealthy elite. Beatrice Bordeaux was looking forward to a summer of reigniting the passion between her and her husband, Harry. Instead, tasked with furthering his investment interest in Montauk as a resort destination, she learns she’ll be spending twelve weeks sequestered with the high society wives at The MontaukManor—a two-hundred room seaside hotel—while Harry pursues other interests in the city. 
College educated, but raised a modest country girl in Pennsylvania, Bea has never felt fully comfortable among these privileged women, whose days are devoted not to their children but to leisure activities and charities that seemingly benefit no one but themselves. She longs to be a mother herself, as well as a loving wife, but after five years of marriage she remains childless while Harry is increasingly remote and distracted. Despite lavish parties at the Manor and the Yacht Club, Bea is lost and lonely and befriends the manor’s laundress whose work ethic and family life stir memories of who she once was. 
As she drifts further from the society women and their preoccupations and closer toward Montauk’s natural beauty and community spirit, Bea finds herself drawn to a man nothing like her husband –stoic, plain spoken and enigmatic. Inspiring a strength and courage she had almost forgotten, his presence forces her to face a haunting tragedy of her past and question her future. 
Desperate to embrace moments of happiness, no matter how fleeting, she soon discovers that such moments may be all she has, when fates conspire to tear her world apart…

My Thoughts:

Beatrice Boudreaux is a woman of privilege and class, status, a member of Society with that capital S. However, she married into that world of wealth and privilege and sprung from more humble beginnings in rural Pennsylvania. She struggles to find her place in a society that she is not entirely comfortable with, and would prefer curling up somewhere quiet with a book than big parties most of the time. When her husband gets wind of an investment opportunity in Montauk, he relocates Bea there for the summer season, joining her only on the weekends. Beatrice hopes that their summer will bring them closer together, as they have been drifting apart, partly because of the fact that they still remained childless after five years of marriage.

Bea is alone and lonely, with only the other society wives to be with during the week. She has a hard time connecting with their lifestyle and values and beliefs, and prefers time on her own at first, hiking off trail through the woods and reading in her room. But her husband expects her to befriend these women and fit in, so she does her best at forming connections. Her quick and curious mind though often separates her from her peers, as does her naivete, which I assume can be chalked up to her age and background. She slowly forges a friendship with Elizabeth, the laundress from the town, and becomes more and more involved with the lives of the locals, whose lives are not as glittering and shiny and filled with luxury, but are happy and simple, despite the hard work they do everyday. Beatrice begins to reexamine her own life, her own priorities, and has to choose what exactly it really is that she wants.

What I really loved about this book was the side by side comparisons of the lives of the people who share the same spot of land for a summer. The privilege set against those who are paid to do the things like their laundry, or transport a weeks worth of dirty diapers from Montauk all the way back to the city to be cleaned then sent back – that’s a 117 mile journey, one way. That reeks of entitlement – plus, gross all the way around. These society women at the Manor loved a cause, as long as the cause ultimately helped them too – like the woman who fundraised for animal welfare but also to get publicity for herself, and for the business she was starting of a dog hotel so that city people could bring their animals with them but then not have to do anything with them, like walk them, feed them, or even keep them in their own rooms. Beatrice’s husband is also a real piece of work, and a man of means and a man of those times as well. This reader didn’t care for him right off the bat!

I loved thinking of this wild island, with its hardworking village and natural beauty, slowly changing Beatrice’s perceptions of life. The rhythms of a life well lived, an authentic life, opened Beatrice’s eyes to the real world around her. She makes some mistakes and blunders, but we all do when we are first learning. Overall I really enjoyed this book, although the ending was a bit of a surprise.

Beautiful and enchanting, this is a definite must read for the summer, whether you are on the beach or in the woods or just on your own couch. I was enthralled in Bea’s journey and just the setting of Montauk itself. and definitely recommend this one!

The Giveaway!

It’s super easy! Just leave a comment below and your email address! I’ll pick a winner and send you the book. You don’t need a blog to enter, but you do need to live in the United States for this one. I’ll do another giveaway this summer that includes everyone! This giveaway ends June 8th, so it’s a quick one! Be sure to use the rafflecopter link too, that is how the winner will be chosen! The winner has been chosen – Linda E. you are the winner! I’ll be contacting you via email. (winner is also displayed on the rafflecopter link widget)

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Thank you to St. Martin’s Press for the chance to read and review this book and for providing the giveaway copy! I received an advance copy of this book in exchange an honest review.

My Sunday-Monday Post

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It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Sunday Salon is hosted by Deb at Readerbuzz 

Nine days ago, our world changed when my stepfather suddenly passed away. He had been fighting lymphoma when a chemo session hit him too hard to battle, and we lost him. He was one of the best men I have ever met, full of art and music and kindnessh and a bit of mischief too. This has been a rough week for all of us, particularly my mother.

In times like these, I crave routine and schedules and lists. This is how I function. I am a creature of habit. For me, it is easier to cope with things when I have a plan. So, today we start easing our way back to sort of normal. Things will be different and changed and there is so much to do, but today we slowly try to find our rhythms again, making space for all the differences and grief we are feeling in our hearts.

Reading This Week:

Lake of the Ozarks: I am all about the tourist kitsch and summertime attractions, so I am really interested in reading this book!

Watching:

Not anything new. Just old Criminal Minds and Monty Don.

My Sunday-Monday Post

My Sunday Post is hosted by Kimba the Caffeinated Book Reviewer

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Sunday Salon is hosted by Deb at Readerbuzz 

Hi all! I hope you have had a great weekend! We have spent ours outside working on our front garden. We let Wyatt choose our color scheme, and honestly he didn’t do a bad job! We have lots of reds and purples and pinks happening out there. Wyatt and I also hung out with my dad on Friday, visiting Greenfield Village and walking around. It was a nice day, and we hope to go back soon. So many schools were there on end of the school year field trips that we couldn’t get on the train ride, so we are definitely going back for that.

We have got a lot on our agenda for this week, but lots of fun stuff! Stuff with flowers and bees and turtles – should be a lot of fun!

Read Last Week:

I finished The Familiars and I really loved it. Review soon hopefully! I also started Common Ground, and I am enjoying it as well.

Reading This Week:

My husband just started Caraval, so I am looking forward to entering this world again so we can talk about it!

Watching:

Criminal Minds on Netflix, Monty Don’s Big Dreams Small Spaces, Game of Thrones, and American Gods. That last episode of GoT!!!! Wow. And American Gods is so good! I am a fan of Mad Sweeney. Anyone else watch this?

Posted Last Week:

In addition to my Sunday-Monday Post, I posted a book review of Bonavere Howl, which was really good.

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading?

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Happy Mother’s Day (belated!) I hope you had a wonderful day.

We took a mini-break vacation over the weekend and we had such a great time! We went to the tulip festival in Holland, MI and then spent some time in Saugatuck as well, which is a cute artsy community on a waterfront. I had a fantastic time, and just in time for Mother’s Day!

Read Last Week:

Watership Down is my favorite book and I read it every year. I don’t think I will ever get tired of Hazel-rah and his rabbit friends! I also read The View from Alameda Island, which was the perfect book for last week. I really enjoyed it! Review soon!

Reading This Week:

I worked on some of my review books, now I want to read these before I have to give them back to the library! I am looking forward to them both. Common Ground will be a slow read for me. I love to read a nonfiction book slowly over time, so it will be here for a little bit. 🙂

Watching:

Not a ton right now – just Game of Thrones and the old Criminal Minds on Netflix. I was thinking about watching the Ted Bundy movie too, to see how Zac Efron handled the role.

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What Wyatt Read – April

How about you guys? What’s happening in your neighborhood?

What Wyatt Read – April

We read a lot in April! We read some books specifically for Earth Day, and we also read a lot of spring and pink themed books as well. Pink for the Pink Moon last month, of course. Lol.

There were so many great books in this bunch!! Wyatt’s favorites by far were A Big Mooncake for Little Star, which he looked at and we read a million times, Plant the Tiny Seed, which is interactive with instructions in the book for kids to tap, and wiggle their fingers and all sorts of things, to help plant the seed and make it grow. He also really loved Todd Parr’s The Earth Book. I of course had my own favorites. I loved loved loved The Pink Umbrella, and read it out loud to Billy and Wyatt one rainy night after dinner. I loved the art and everything about it. I also loved Blackout, Pink is for Boys, which was about how all colors are for everyone, and A Boy and a Jaguar, which was an amazing true story of a boy who stuttered and ended up establishing a protected sanctuary in Belize for jaguars. He fell in love with them at the zoo, and talking to them was the only time he didn’t stutter. He promised the jaguars that if he could beat his stutter, he would fight for them and be there voice. Such a powerful picture book. I loved it.

All of our combined favorites will eventually be bought and added to our home library, since these were all checked out from our local library.

Flora and the Flamingo was fabulous to look at – the artwork is so pretty and retro. The books itself is wordless, with interactive flaps. And the book inspired Wyatt and I to try dancing like flamingos around the house! All of these books really were great in their own ways, the Jane Goodall book, Planting the Wild Garden, all of them, honestly. Not a bad one in the bunch!

My Sunday-Monday Post

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It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Sunday Salon is hosted by Deb at Readerbuzz 

Hi everybody! I hope you had a great week! I didn’t get a ton of reading done, as I was healing up from a wee accident, but I did get some good time with my son! I had a lot of time to make plans for the rest of the month, and I am super excited about some of our ideas! I also caught up on Game of Thrones, holy cow!! That last episode….wow!! I can’t wait until tonight!

Read Last Week:

This was a NetGalley read that I picked because..well..New Orleans! I will almost always pick up a book set there. And Caitlin Galway killed it when creating an atmosphere – she can set a mood and a feeling, that is for sure! Review soon.

Reading This Week:

I forgot I had The View from Alameda Island to read! I am happy I forgot honestly, I think it is the perfect week to read it. I am also still rereading Watership Down, my favorite. Love those plucky clever tough rabbits.

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Tin Can Tourists

Closing the Door on April

Watched:

Springwatch on our Britbox, Game of Thrones, Criminal Minds, lots of Winnie the Pooh, Buzzfeed Unsolved

What about all of you? What’s been going on in your world?

Closing the door on April

April was for the most part, a cold and rainy month. But it is a new month, and a new moon, so here is to hoping that April Showers do bring May flowers, because I am so ready for those lovely colors to be popping up everywhere!

Last weekend was the last weekend in April, and we spent the majority of it outside. The first nice weather really this spring and we were making the most of it. Saturday we spent messing about in our small garden, trying to get things ready for planting, and admiring our new blueberry bushes and cherry tree that we planted. Midway through the day we took a break to drive into the city for a bike garage sale at Back Alley Bikes, which is a non-profit that works on bikes with kids and volunteers fix up bikes that people donate which they then sell cheaply to raise money for their mission. They also will give a free bike to any kid over the age of 5! The last Saturday of the month they have a garage sale where they sell off some of their fixed up bikes and my husband who is a bike nut wanted to go take a look at the bikes. So we did, although I was not really super interested as I am not a great bicyclist. So, it was to my surprise that I fell totally in love with an old bike from the 70s, a Sears and Roebuck Free Spirit, red. My husband had attached our bike rack just in case, so we paid our $50 and headed home. It was getting a little cold and dark by this time so I didn’t get a chance to try it out, but I am looking forward to giving it a whirl. Although, that might be a while…

Sunday we got up early and decided to visit Belle Isle. The sun was shining, and everything was almost technicolor in it’s beauty. We drove around, then got out to look at the conservatory, the gardens, and the koi pond (which freaked me out- did I mention I am weirdly afraid of fish?) I took a billion photos, one of which the Belle Isle Conservatory actually shared on their own Instagram page, which was pretty cool!

These were all taken around the koi pond. In all the times we have visited, we have never walked around in here!

After we had explored to our heart’s content, enjoying the beautiful tulips everywhere, we got back into our car to visit my mom for her birthday. We had a lovely visit complete with ice cream cake, and then as we were getting in the car to go home, I had a bit of an accident. I was putting stuff in the back of the Jeep, and when I shut the back hatch door, which swings up, I forgot the bike rack was still attached. And slammed it down on top of my head. It was instant searing pain, and an instant enormous goose egg on my forehead that my husband wouldn’t even let me look at. We went to the ER where they decided I was ok, but told me as I left that it was going to get really ugly…and they were so so so right. Even as I sit here now typing this 6 days later, I still have two black eyes, a bump on my head, and bruising down my cheeks to my mouth. I spent most of my week laying as low as I could, taking care of Wyatt but not doing much else. For a few days I couldn’t even really read due to swelling, although ice packs every twenty minutes one day took care of most of that. (thank goodness for moms who will take care of your kiddo so you can put ice on your eyes) I’m feeling and looking a lot better, but it was not an experience I ever want to repeat again! So a little PSA for you all: when you take the bike off the bike rack of your car, take the bike rack off too, if you are not someone who uses it a lot!

How about you all? How did you spend your last days in April?

My Sunday-Monday Post!

My Sunday Post is hosted by Kimba the Caffeinated Book Reviewer

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Sunday Salon is hosted by Deb at Readerbuzz 

We had such a fun filled week last week! We took a midweek break, and headed out for a walk in the marsh, which we followed up with bakery fresh pepperoni rolls as big as Wyatt’s head. Seriously. Lol. We also planted a cherry tree for Arbor Day, and while walking around the garden center, impulsively bought two blueberry bushes! An impulse buy I can totally live with. I can’t wait for this stuff to grow up and begin to bear fruit. I am not sure how long for the blueberry bushes but I am sure our tree will take a year or two, if it is anything like our apple tree. We also did a few other really cool things, including checking out the Tin Can Tourists that rolled into town with their vintage campers. I took so many photos that I am turning it into a blog post! Anyone else in love with old vintage campers?

Read Last Week:

I stuck to my plan! I finished my book club book Bohemian, which I loved although it’s been a long while since I read a romance novel like this one. Lol. I am a total setting junkie and this book, set in Big Sur at an old bookstore named The Mad Ones for all the Beat poets and authors that used to hang out there was like a setting dream come true. Plus all the literary name dropping! And I am part way through Bonavere Howl, another book I chose for the setting – if a book says New Orleans, I usually at least pick it up and give it a whirl.

Reading This Week:

It’s time for my annual reread of my favorite book Watership Down!! I am also finishing up Bonavere Howl, and reading Bohemian reminded me of how much I love Mary Oliver, so I am paging through some of her poetry again this week.

Posted Last Week:

Book review: Only Ever Her

How about you all? What is going on in your world?