In Pursuit of the Perfect Shampoo Bar

Last summer, our family made the decision to reduce our plastic use. It has been a slow transition, but one we work at and think about every time we make a purchase. The one change that has been the hardest for me is finding that perfect shampoo bar! I made the switch to bar soap for the rest of me fairly easily – I have found a few companies that I really like. But the shampoo bar is elusive. There are some I have liked, but none have been quite perfect.

I have thick, wavy hair, that has a tendency to frizz big time in humidity (yay for Michigan summers!) I am looking for something that will not leave my hair feeling like I haven’t rinsed it well enough, and that helps control my hair’s tendency to become a giant poufball. I am also pretty much a wash and go woman – I don’t spend a lot of time styling my hair (I’m not very good at it), and I don’t wear makeup unless it’s a special occasion. So, the shampoo I use has to do a good job because I really rely on it to help control my mane. So, hence my search.

The first one I tried was Terra Mia Organics Raw Goat Milk Lime and Coconut bar. One thing I really love about shampoo bars is their longevity! This bar lasted me three months, two of them summer months. We also went on vacation after I started using shampoo bars, and it was so much easier to pack my toiletries! This particular shampoo bar was pretty good – it smelled nice, controlled my frizz nicely during summer, but it never felt like I rinsed it out well enough to me. It always felt like there was a bit of a film left even after I rinsed my hair thoroughly. My husband thought this one was ok – he missed the thick lather you get from regular shampoo. I learned recently though that the lather is from sulfates, which are actually not good for you, as they disrupt your personal biome. (This switch has been a whole new journey for me, learning all new things!)

Which brings me to my next bar – the Lush Copperhead shampoo bar. I slipped this bar from the brown, recyclable packaging, and was overcome by the smell of marijuana, weirdly. It wasn’t of course, but yeah, it was weird smell at first. It had a weird smell on arrival, but it soon dissipated and smelled wonderful. For a while, I thought this was my clear winner. Thick lather, rinsed easily, left my hair soft, controlled the frizz, and smelled divine. But then to my sadness, I learned that the lather we loved was from the sulfates. And I figured I am all in now, might as well be all natural too, right? So I moved on – although I am reserving the right to go back to this bar if I can’t find another that works as well.

Yesterday I just received my third attempt. It is the Starry Night bar from Skipping Stones, and so far, I am in love. It is absolutely beautiful, smells amazing, and came in all recyclable packaging. However, I haven’t used it yet. I don’t wash my hair everyday, but tonight is the night. I will update here once I have used it. I have high hopes though, from the reviews!

To recap:

Terra Mia – Smelled great, controlled the frizz, but didn’t leave my hair feeling like it was totally rinsed out, was sulfate free though however

Lush Copperhead – Smelled great, left my hair soft, controlled the frizz – but had sulfates.

Starry Night – Smells great, no sulfates, and TBD tonight!

If you are considering the switch, I say go for it! Keep those plastic bottles out of our landfills and oceans! You also end up saving money, as these bars last a long time if you treat them right, by storing them on a soap dish that allows for drainage, or out of the spray of water. I made the switch and have been happy despite my search for “the one”.

My Sunday-Monday Post!

Check out the The Caffeinated Book Review for the Sunday Post

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

I spent the week getting us caught up and put back to normal. I’ve almost gotten us back into our normal groove! I did catch a cold after dodging bullets for months, but I think that is typical after the holidays – we are all so run down and then being around so many people celebrating, it is bound to happen. I’ve also had a few nice brunches with family the past few days – it has been nice to catch up and actually talk! This week ahead is a busy one – a doctor’s appointment for the boy ( a check up with one of his specialists), a belated gift exchange with family, and then hopefully going to the zoo’s Wild Winter on Saturday. I’m not sure what that is but it sounds fun!

Read Last Week:

The Best of Us by Robyn Carr – I love the books in this series, and this one was perfect for dreaming of springtime and forgetting about the gray winter skies. Plus – I have a Giveaway happening right now for this book! Check out my review for details!

Snow in Love – If The Best of Us made me dream of springtime, then this one made me feel all winter cozy. A quick little read for the weekend.

Reading This Week:

This was another gift from my husband for Christmas! I love this author so much. His nature writing is phenomenal and I can’t wait to dive into this one. I love that this one is written in diary format, like his book Meadowlands, that I absolutely adored.

I’m also waiting on a billion books from the library! I am sure one or two or all will show up soon. Lol.

Posted Last Week:

A New Year, New Possibilities

The Best of Us Book Review and Giveaway

Watching:

We binged on A Series of Unfortunate Events, so sad it is all over!! We also started You, which is so creepy good! And then last night we started watching the new season of The Ranch, which I love because Sam Elliot and his mustache are in it. Love that actor. It’s also a pretty good show! We finished up Agatha Raisin for the moment, we are all caught up and have to wait for the next episode. We’ve been watching a lot of tv lately!

What about you all? What is going on in your world?

Book Review and Giveaway: The Best of Us by Robyn Carr

Goodreads Summary:

Dr. Leigh Culver loves practicing medicine in Timberlake, Colorado. It is a much-needed change of pace from her stressful life in Chicago. The only drawback is she misses her aunt Helen, the woman who raised her. But it’s time that Leigh has her independence, and she hopes the beauty of the Colorado wilderness will entice her aunt to visit often.

Helen Culver is an independent woman who lovingly raised her sister’s orphaned child. Now, with Leigh grown, it’s time for her to live life for herself. The retired teacher has become a successful mystery writer who loves to travel and intends to never experience winter again.

When Helen visits Leigh, she is surprised to find her niece still needs her, especially when it comes to sorting out her love life. But the biggest surprise comes when Leigh takes Helen out to Sullivan’s Crossing and Helen finds herself falling for the place and one special person. Helen and Leigh will each have to decide if they can open themselves up to love neither expected to find and seize the opportunity to live their best lives.

My Thoughts:

I always love when my reading takes me to the world of Sullivan’s Crossing, in Timberlake, Colorado. There is just something so real about these characters, and I have enjoyed reading about their challenges and triumphs in the previous novels. This installment was no different, I finished it in one day, a record for me these days!

Leigh Culver has settled into the community of Timberlake comfortably, healing their hurts in her clinic, sharing stories and hellos in the pubs and restaurants, slowly making friends and inroads into this friendly community. Her life seems to be just how she wants it, with the exception of missing her beloved aunt, who raised her. When a white-faced Rob Shandon, owner of the town pub, comes in one evening with his injured son, little does she know that her world is about to change in a big way. After stitching up Rob’s son’s hand, she finds she has a new patient, Rob himself, who almost faints at the sight of the blood. Leigh capably calms him down by massaging his head, something she does for patients who need some help slowing down, and boom – fireworks for Rob, immediately. Their quick friendship turns into a relationship even quicker. Spring has definitely sprung in Colorado, and love is in the air for everyone.

With spring in full bloom, Leigh’s aunt Helen comes for a visit. Helen is a popular mystery writer, and spends her time visiting different friends spread out through the U.S., avoiding midwestern winters like the plague. Helen is planning on spending much of her time with Leigh, but finds herself drawn to the front porch and kitchen table and eventually bedroom, of someone special herself.

But like Shakespeare said, the course of true love never did run smooth, as many of the couples in this book go through their share of hurdles. From Finn’s story with his girlfriend Maia, to Leigh and Rob, to Helen and her new love, all must find their way and their path to that true happiness.

I loved Leigh’s story with Rob, although, I do have to say I have to give it to Rob in this book. Leigh was a little difficult at times, and a little selfish, and I felt Rob’s character remained strong and steadfast and loyal, qualities that are also reflected in his son Finn. I loved the Shandon family, I have to say, in this book.

All in all, this was a great read from start to finish, and one to shake off those winter blues!

Giveaway! For a chance to win a brand new hardcover The Best of Us, just leave a comment below! I’ll do a drawing next Wednesday, Jan. 16th. Open to U.S. residents only, sorry!

Thank you to Little Bird Publicity for the chance to read and review this book! I was given a review copy in exchange for an honest review.

A New Year, New Possibilities

I’m never one for New Years Eve. I sort of dread it, to be honest. I get a little moody and melancholy and am content to have quiet little gatherings with my loved ones. Which is good, since that is what we have been doing for the last three years, since Wyatt has joined our family.

This year we had an early dinner with my brother, his wife, and my little niece. We went out for pizza and beer, had some nice conversation while our kids miraculously entertained themselves and ate their french fries (yeah fries at a pizza place, crazy kids). Then we all went home to our own homes, three blocks away from each other, and watched movies. We watched Jurassic World, while they watched Godzilla. Incidentally, Jurassic Park was the very first movie Billy and I ever watched together, and we are still huge fans of the franchise. I love dinosaurs! Then, we watched some television and when we started hearing fireworks in the neighborhood, realized it was a brand new year. For me, not a bad way to celebrate.

Every year, I pick some resolutions. This year, I guess I am still doing that, but I want them to be more lifestyle changes. To do more, and buy less. To spend more time outside. To be on my phone less, to bake bread more, eat more foods that are soulful and hearty and fresh. Slow down, stargaze, play in the snow (if we ever get any!) I’m still trying to stay away from plastic as much as I can, although I do make exceptions for my three year old, who will be four before I know it! I want to make the days count, and not just be whittled away by chores and errands – although, that stuff needs to be done or else we will have nothing to eat and live in a mess. But I don’t want it to be the focus. And I am sure there will be days that I spend entirely on the phone making appointments, or running here and there and everywhere, like this week has been full of. But I hope to build a framework this month, one that makes it easier for us to enjoy life more. To look at things with the wonder of a child again. To plant a garden full of flowers and good things to eat, to sit in the sun. To learn new things.

We started a project too, that should help my son. He gets his walker pretty soon, and we are so excited! He is on his way! We however, have a small little home. Cozy and warm and snug, but small. So the other day, I had a thought. A crazy thought, it seemed at the time, but we rolled with it for Wyatt’s sake. I decided to flip our rooms, and turned our dining room into our new living room (den, we call it), and our living room, which was bigger, into a “family room” that holds our dining room table and all his play stuff. We had to buy some new furniture, as our couches would not squish into the newly christened den. So now we have two little blue loveseats, one set right into our bay window. There is now so much space for our kiddo to explore with his walker, and it is easier for him to move around. It was a quick decision, but it was a great one. It feels so much more functional, and we love it. I still need to get some new plants and replace some things to make it work a little better, but for the most part, it is done and feels just right in here now.

This a new year, full of new possibilities. Sometimes we have to stop and take notice. Sometimes we need to be unafraid to make changes.
And if it feels right, drink champagne and dance on the table…

How about you? Any new plans for the new year?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Hi everyone! Happy Monday! I took a bit of an unplanned social media break over the holidays – the boyo was home, and it was pretty much madness around here. We got involved in some home projects that took up a lot of our time, Wyatt was sick (again!), but it seems like we are getting back on track finally. I have so much catching up to do now, in every other area of my life!! Lol.

Reading This Week:

I am almost done! I haven’t had too much time to read, but this time around I am really enjoying this book and character. Third time’s a charm!

When I finish Anne, I have a few review books I need to get to ASAP, starting with The Best of Us by Robyn Carr. I hope to finish and review it in the next few days.

Watching:

We have been watching A Series of Unfortunate Events, Agatha Raisin, and Watership Down. Watership Down is my all time favorite book. I read it once a year, I love it to pieces. However, I am not super keen on this new animated show on Netflix. It’s hard when you know a story backwards and forwards and then it is changed for the screen. I think if I wasn’t a super fan I would like it more. 🙂

How about all of you? What’s going on in your world?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Hey everyone! I hope you are all having a great end of December~ post holiday everything. I have been having a rough time to find time to blog, with kiddo being home on break and all the merrymaking that has been happening. We have been having such a great time, spending time with family and also taking some down time to just chill with each other. I had book club last week, which was fun as always to see my friends and touch base about what has been going on in their lives. Today we got together with my entire family, cousins and their kids, and just played and ate and laughed all day. It was just kids and toys everywhere honestly, and it was so fun. Tomorrow for New Years we are planning a pretty slow night – dinner with my brother and his family, maybe a drink, then home to our house for a quiet night in. New Years Day we are hoping to go out for breakfast then take a walk in the woods, depending on the weather.

What I’ve Been Reading:

Over Christmas I reread Farmer Boy – something about Christmas makes me think of Little House. And I also read Christmas at Little Beach Street Bakery – it was a treat to check back in with these characters!

Reading This Week:

I’m trying to hurry and finish A Court of Frost and Starlight before the year changes – we shall see how I do! And here I am, back at Anne of Green Gables. I have tried to read this twice and failed. Then I watched the tv show and loved it, and felt terrible I never read it. My husband gave me this beautiful copy for Christmas, knowing that I feel it is unfinished business – therefore, Anne of Green Gables is going to be my first read of 2019!

Posted Recently:

Not much! I did manage to finish my list of favorite books of 2018 though.

Watching:

We are busily watching The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, which I fought against because I knew I wouldn’t like the stand up part too much, but visually, I knew I had to watch it. And it is a gorgeous show. We are also watching Top Chef, Agatha Raisin, Midnight Texas, and Riverdale. We are going to start The Ranch soon too.

What about all of you? What is going on? How are your holidays, if you celebrate? What book are you starting the year with?