Book Review: Raising Hare by Chloe Dalton

I had been sleeping on reading Raising Hare for a while now. Well, since it came out! I just love rabbits and hares a whole heck of a lot, and I didn’t think my heart could take it if something terrible happened. It is one of my biggest book triggers, throw the book down and never look back things, if an animal dies or is there is animal violence. So, I was tiptoeing around reading this one.

Finally, this spring I went for it. I was about to start my annual reread of Watership Down, and I felt like it was finally the right time. And I am so very glad that I did. I loved it. And I have to admit, I was a bit jealous of Chloe Dalton while reading it! I want my own hare to live with me and just come and go freely from my home! My killers (Max and Mouse) wouldn’t allow something like that but a girl can dream.

So, the summary:

“Imagine you could hold a baby hare and bottle-feed it. Imagine that it lived under your roof and lolloped around your bedroom at night, drumming on the duvet cover when it wanted your attention. Imagine that, over two years later, it still ran in from the fields when you called it and slept in your house for hours on end and gave birth to leverets in your study. For political advisor and speechwriter Chloe Dalton, who spent lockdown deep in the English countryside, far away from her usual busy London life, this became her unexpected reality.

In February 2021, Dalton stumbles upon a newborn hare—a leveret—that had been chased by a dog. Fearing for its life, she brings it home, only to discover how impossible it is to rear a wild hare, most of whom perish in captivity from either shock or starvation. Through trial and error, she learns to feed and care for the leveret with every intention of returning it to the wilderness. Instead, it becomes her constant companion, wandering the fields and woods at night and returning to Dalton’s house by day. Though Dalton feared that the hare would be preyed upon by foxes, stoats, feral cats, raptors, and even people, she never tried to restrict it to the house. Each time the hare leaves, Chloe knows she may never see it again. Yet she also understands that to confine it would be its own kind of death.

Raising Hare chronicles their journey together, while also taking a deep dive into the lives and nature of hares, and the way they have been viewed historically in art, literature, and folklore. We witness first-hand the joy at this extraordinary relationship between human and animal, which serves as a reminder that the best things, and most beautiful experiences, arise when we least expect them.”

My Thoughts:

I have to give Dalton credit. Her career and adult life was not one that left room for pets or children, and she knew that and never had any. Until lockdown, and until the hare. Her lifestyle needed to be flexible, free, able to pack up and fly out to any country at any time. It didn’t have room for anyone or anything that relied on her for their existence. Until lockdown, when the whole world took a break. And Dalton found a tiny baby leveret on her walk and then saw it still there four hours later. And in a move foreign to her, she brought it home. She did her research, consulted friends and vets and books and journals, and learned how to care for it. She knew that she wanted to keep it wild, which would make everything harder.

So in the weirdness that was the pandemic, she was able to shift her schedule to that of her new charge. And slowly, but surely, they forged a relationship that worked.

Her heart was not prepared to fall in love, but of course, she did. And here I give her credit as well, allowing the hare to come and go, to jump the wall and explore and be a hare, knowing that each time she did she risked not ever seeing it again.

This book was a beautiful story, an explanation of a woman learning to slow down and see the world around her. The natural word. To pay attention to the smaller things, to appreciate a sunrise or a certain flower in a garden. To notice habits of small animals. Raising Hare changed her outlook on the world, on how she lived. She kept her job and when she had to go back to work, she did. But she changed things in her home so that the hare could keep its routing, by installing a special rabbit door in her own door. She had cameras set up so that she could see what was happening at home no matter where she was in the world. All because of hare, she planted a hedgerow.

And noticed the callousness of humans. We are all aware of what happens to wildlife who share this planet with us. We destroy habitats, create barriers, pollute, kill. It was interesting to read this book alongside Watership Down, where Richard Adams also discusses this:

” Men will never rest till they’ve spoiled the earth and destroyed the animals.”

“That wasn’t why they destroyed the warren. It was just because we were in their way. They killed us to suit themselves.”

Dalton also discusses this. She mentions that Britain has lost 80% of its hare population in a hundred years, a statistic that saddens me enormously, and names agriculture as the superfactor that has led to the decline of this population.

“More risk came when in the late summer the fields of stubble were ploughed; transformed within minutes to brown wastelands, churned up battledfields of Somme-like proportions from the persepective of the a hare. The earth was cut, broken up and turned over by a tractor dragging a plough, and then drilled and sowed with new seed. I pictured the hares fleeing the steel tractors, their hearts pounding in fear, only to return and find their forms – or their leverets – crushed beneath the vast oblivious treads, or later licking their back paws, unknowingly coating their tongues with chemicals, once the new crops were sprayed.”

“The competing imperative of feeding the nation and protecting our environment are still unreconciled.”

And how do we do that? I wish I knew. Maybe our next generation will find the answer for us.

This book just touches on that a bit, but it would be a natural evolution to thinking about it as Dalton, living so closely with a wild thing. This story was more focused on her relationship with the hare, and how the hare changed her. And it was the most beautiful beautiful story.

I encourage anyone who likes nature nonfiction or rabbits or hares (as they are two different lagomorphs) to grab a copy of this book and read it. It is amazing and beautiful and gentle. Quiet. It is the pause we all need to happen in our lives.

As for triggers, if you are sensitive to animal content there is one very small incident but it is brief and I didn’t find it traumatizing, just a little bit sad. It is worth the read.

And with that all, I wish you a good day, and I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile!

I can also add this to my total for the Nonfiction Book Challenge hosted by Book’d Out!

Traveling Through Books – Heidi

Hello everyone! I already posted a review of my buddy read of Heidi, that I did with Lisa at Boondock Ramblings, but I wanted to share a bit more about it.

Heidi is one of those books that transport you to another place and time. Spyri’s descriptions of the fir trees, the mountains and their sunsets, the goats, the wind through the firs, the wildflowers, made me feel homesick for a place I have never been. I would love to visit the Alps one day, and maybe I will, maybe I won’t, but I will always have Heidi to fall back on when the urge hits me.

In honor of my newfound love for this beloved classic, my family and I visited a Detroit restaurant named Alpino that specializes in Alpine fare, with dishes representing different areas of the Alps. It was a splurge, as it is a bit pricey, but it was definitely worth it. Plus, it serves fondue which I thought Wyatt would love, and I felt the experience would be a neat one for him.

I always include in the comments box of the online reservations system that we are arriving with a child who uses a wheelchair. I feel like this gives us the best outcome, as they are ready for us and have an appropriate table space reserved. The staff at Alpino were definitely ready, and the hostess even came out to hold the doors open for Wyatt, which never happens. They had a table on the end all saved for us, and were extremely accommodating.

We had three courses, and did a lot of splitting of food. We knew it would be a lot, if we wanted fondue and appetizers (they sounded the best to us), plus dinner, and a dessert. That is quite a bit of food for us, and we are not used to eating out in the first place. We started with of course, the fondue – I ordered the fondue for two for Wyatt and I, and Billy tried the raclette, which also sounded amazing. The fondue came with potatoes, olives, gherkins, apples, and sourdough bread, and the cheese was so creamy and delicious, a mix of emmentaler and gruyere. The raclette was French raclette cheese, speck ham, apricot mostarda on einback brioche. We probably could have left it at that, and just had dessert, but I felt we needed to try an entree. So Billy and I split the arctic char, which was mustard and rye crusted Alpine lake trout. It was good, very light and tasty, and I was glad that Billy and I split it. I would not have been able to eat our huge dessert, and who wants to skip dessert for trout? Not me.

The dessert choices all sounded amazing. I couldn’t decide which to choose! We ended up asking the server which of our two finalists she preferred and she said 100%, hands down, the rosette.

I am so glad we went with her recommendation. It was delicious! The rosette is a vanilla fritter, with caramelized pear butter, vanilla ice cream, pear relish, and toasted wildflower honey. It even sounds decadent doesn’t it?

I am already planning a return trip with my bestie and her daughter, maybe for a lunch, so Wyatt and I can split the fondue again. He liked the bread and cheese combo the best, while I was all about the potatoes and olives. Billy of course ate some as well, and he agreed the potatoes were the best.

We didn’t end our Heidi Experience Weekend here though! On Sunday, we watched the movie Heidi as a family. We tried the 2015 version first, but it was subtitled, which doesn’t bother me, but it did Wyatt and Billy. Billy is dyslexic and he says it pulls him out of the movie too much, and I understand that. So we picked another version, this one from 2005 and starring Max von Sydow, Dame Diana Riggs, and Geraldine Chaplin. Emma Bolger played Heidi and she was so cute. She had the sweetest little Irish accent lol, which was fine, she played the character so well. It took a few liberties from the story but overall it was not a bad version. I think Geraldine Chaplin was amazing as Mrs. Rottenmeier, and of course Riggs and Von Sydow were amazing as well. The setting was beautiful, the color amazing, but not as amazing as the way it all looking in the few minutes of the first we started, from 2015. I am going to end up watching that one by myself sometime soon just for the cinematography alone.

Oh! So there is an English version of the 2015 movie! We must have chosen the wrong one! I don’t know if I can get the guys to watch another version, but I will.

Then Cat from Cat’s Wire Jewelry also recommended a version that is a Japanese animation version, and I am guessing we will watch that as well.

I really tried to make this an immersive type experience! Lol. I think it is something I am going to do more often.

And with that, I will say goodbye for now, and I hope that whatever you do today, that you do something that makes you smile!

Books with Disability Representation

Hello! In honor of Disability Book Week, I wanted to share a small list of titles that promote disability representation in books. I know how thrilled Wyatt gets when he sees someone in a wheelchair in a book or in a movie, and I look for books for him that have wheelchair users or characters with cerebral palsy, that are represented in positive ways. We all like to see ourselves in books, or recognize small bits of us at least, and I am glad that writers these days are being inclusive of all or are at least working on it. This is especially important these days, when so many books are being banned, especially books that contain characters from marginalized communities.

This list is mainly comprised of books for elementary up to YA age groups, but that doesn’t mean that adults can’t read them!

*The longer I work on this list, the longer the list gets. I am going to put a few representative books on here, then make a dedicated page with a list of just titles and authors that is more comprehensive

Clicking links takes you to the Goodreads page

Wheelchair Users

Emori Wears Green || Logan’s Greenhouse || Seal Surfer || Amazing

Zac’s Mighty Wheels || The Chance to Fly || Roll With It || Where You See Yourself || The Lumbering Giants of Windy Pines || Please Pay Attention || Out of My Mind

Cerebral Palsy

Shiny Misfits || Sam’s Super Seats || Truly Wildly Deeply || The Secret Summer Promise || You, Me, and Our Heartstrings || Wild and Crooked || A Curse So Dark and Lonely

Chronic Illness

No Matter the Distance || One for All || Joined at the Joints || All the Right Reasons || A Fragile Enchantment || Ghosts || Hummingbird

Hearing/Vision/Speech

Anybody Here Seen Frenchie? || Opal Watson Private Eye || El Deafo || Wildoak || When Stars are Scattered || Song for a Whale || Give Me a Sign

ASD/ADHD

A Boy Called Bat || All the Noise at Once || Each Tiny Spark || The Many Mysteries of the Finkel Family || Harriet Hound || Izzy at the End of the World

Limb Differences/Hip Dysplasia

Aven Green Sleuthing Machine || When Charley Met Emma || Insignificant Events in the Life of a Cactus || Breathe and Count Back from Ten

Mental Health/OCD/Anxiety

My Life in the Fish Tank || Turtles All the Way Down || Popcorn || Highly Suspicious and Unfairly Cute || The Compulsion Cloud

If you have any titles to recommend, let me know in the comments below!

Books, Screens, and In-Betweens

I am linking up with Deb at Readerbuzz,  Kathryn at Book Date, and  Kimba the Caffeinated Book Reviewer.

Hello everyone!! It’s been a crazy week, weatherwise, around here. We had a middle of the night, 2 am tornado warning on Tuesday (or sometime mid-week), where we stumbled down the basement to take cover. A tornado was confirmed to have touched down a few miles away in our neighbor city, so that was fun. Michigan had 9 tornados confirmed that night. I don’t know who moved tornado alley up but I am not enjoying it. It also rained all week, with our only nice day being Friday. Now we have a freeze warning and possibly snow in the forecast for tomorrow! It’s crazy around here!

Books:

Last week I read two bunny books! Well, I have not finished my umpteenth reread of Watership Down yet, but I did finish Raising Hare. It was really interesting reading them at the same time, even though the lagomorphs in Watership Down are rabbits not hares. I have a few book reviews coming up, but I will say I loved Raising Hare and it should not be triggering for those who are sensitive to animals and animal death, like I am. Feel free to ask me about it if you want. I hate when people gatekeep that info!

This week I will finish up Watership Down, and I plan on starting a cozy mystery and a middle grade.

I love the idea of goat yoga, or any yoga with some animal. Lol. I am going to be looking for one around here to try once. I couldn’t get this book at my library, so I bought it on Pango for $3! I love Pango, it is a platform for people to sell their used books. I have a link in the sidebar where you can get $5.00 off your first purchase if you use the code CRACKERCRUMBLIFE at checkout. My process for finding books is library first, then Pango, then I have to decide how badly I want a book. Lol. Anyway I didn’t mean to turn this into a Pango ad. Sorry about that! I just wanted to share that.

I am also reading Roll With It, a middle grade book about a girl with Cerebral Palsy.

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Billy and I are still watching Young Sherlock. I think we have two episodes left? On nights that we are tired we watch episodes of Brokenwood that we have already watched. We’ve been on the go a lot lately, and later than I want to be on the go, and our routine has been off so it’s been more Brokenwood than Young Sherlock lately!

In-Betweens:

I have started going to yoga! I used to go all the time before I was a mom, and I have finally finally prioritized it in my life again. And of course, now that I have been going and enjoying it, wouldn’t you know that Wyatt’s Little League schedule has games on yoga night? Arrgh! Lol. His season is only 6 weeks though, and my friend Kelly and I are going to switch to a different class somewhere else during that time. My plan is to go back to the original class though, because it is held in a very old building, on the top floor, and I love the feel of the room. It has a good vibe and sometimes while I am in savasana I think about all the people who have been in that room over the decades and their purposes.

I also want to mention that it is Disability Book Week this week. I didn’t realize this was a thing until a few days ago when I saw it on Instagram and I am very excited about it! I will be more prepared next year but this year I am going to participate how I can. I am including a video from the website that explains more about it. You can also find a list of suggested books for different ages here.

And just a reminder:

Lisa of Boondock Ramblings and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

And that is it from my corner of the world! I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile!

Heidi: Discussion Questions Between Me and My Buddy

Lisa at Boondock Ramblings and I read Heidi together this month, and it was the most perfect book to read to usher in spring. I didn’t read it as a child, and I am so very glad that I took the time to read it now. We chatted back and forth to each other about how engrossing it is, what a quick, good read, one that made the book hard to put down, and just about some of the things Heidi had to go through, especially in the beginning.

For those unfamiliar, Heidi is the story of a young girl, 7 years old at the start I believe, who was being raised by her aunt after her family passed. Her aunt however, took a job somewhere that she didn’t feel it was appropriate to take Heidi, so she packed her tiny niece up and dropped her off at Heidi’s grandfather’s hut on the mountain. Heidi had never met the man, and he was not reported to be the nicest person, but he and Heidi hit it off right away and had the most precious relationship. Unfortunately for Heidi though, her aunt decided that Heidi could ripped away from her home, again, and sent this time to the city to be a companion child to a little girl named Clara.

Clara was wealthy, and in a wheelchair. I think she had epilepsy but at the time of course they didn’t have medication to help control seizures, so everyone kept Clara’s life quiet as to not trigger any seizures. Her father was away a lot, and she was lonely in her house with just the staff, and the rotten Mrs. Rottenmeier, her governess. Heidi and Mrs. Rottenmeier did not mesh right from the beginning, and Rottenmeier viewed Heidi as some sort of less than heathen from the country. Heidi enjoyed being friends with Clara but desperately missed her home. After a friend of Clara’s father, a doctor, noticed how pale and thin Heidi had gotten, he told Mr. Sesemann, Clara’s dad, that Heidi needed to return to her simple life on the mountain with her grandfather and the fir trees, the wind, the goats, Grannie, and her friend Peter, the goatherder and Grannie’s grandson.

Heidi returned and was returned to her normal happy, robust self. Heidi and her grandpa also had some visitors from the city! And I am not going to tell you the end. If you haven’t read it, I hope that you do.

Lisa and I did come up with a few questions to ask each other, and I wanted to share the questions and answers with you.

1. Quick, the first five words that pop into your head about Heidi.

Joyful, wholesome, a blessing, thoughtful, and kind.

2. Would you slam two big mugs of goat milk back to back, and why is the answer no? What about one mug? 

I don’t think I could slam two big mugs of anything, but milk? The thought makes me sort of sick. Lol. I know that Heidi and her grandfather set a lot of store by that milk and its healing properties, and maybe there is. I do know it is more caloric and has more fat, so maybe it would be good to make someone a bit sturdier if that was needed. But I could never just drink down two big mugs quickly, or even one. I could probably drink one at a normal pace.

3. Was Uncle Alp making goat cheese, like chevre?

I know this is a dumb question – it is mine. Lol. The book talked about how Uncle Alp, or Heidi’s grandfather, would make cheese and I am sure it was delicious goat cheese but in my head I kept picturing those wheels of cheese or a wedge. And while I couldn’t gulp down goats milk, goat cheese is a whole other story.

4.  Write a beautiful description of a natural place you’ve been to, a sunset, a plant or animal you’ve seen.

This was a suggested activity from the back of the edition of Heidi I bought. Good thing I am going to write something and have it compared to Johanna Spyri and another published author, Lisa.

Ok. Here is the best I can do this morning, with Peppa Pig laughing in the background.

The lake shone like blue glass under the early morning light. All around, birds sang out to each other from evergreens and birch trees, while near the shoreline mysterious underwater creatures created small ripples in the sleeping lake, waking it up gently. A light breeze helped to cool the piping hot cup of coffee that I held between my hands, and I wrapped myself up in the gentle peace of the morning.

5. Heidi, like Anne of Green Gables, loves her home and has favorite aspects, like the fir trees, the wind, the fire sunset on the mountain. Is there anything in nature you cherish about your home, the way that she does? 

I saw this question somewhere as well. I am a Michigander, and while we don’t have mountains here, we have water. Lots of water. I love heading down to the river and having lunch or just sitting and looking out across the water. We have even gone for sunrises and sunsets, to see the huge moon above it; it is just a part of our life here and I can’t imagine living somewhere that I was not surrounded by so many lakes and rivers.

6. In the same vein, what are some small things you are grateful for?

Cups of tea, books, walking barefoot in the grass, fireflies. Definitely fireflies. Rabbits in the dewy grass, or congregating in our yard during the winter.

7. Which character, besides Heidi, is your favorite and why?

Clara’s grandmother, or Grandmamma. She was not snobby as I was afraid she would be. She took special time for Heidi, to encourage her and to try to make her happy. As Heidi said, she came and she made everything good and ok.

8.  What character did you like the least and why?

Mrs. Rottenmeier, of course. She was a mean curmudgeon. How could she be such a jerk to a small girl, who has been stolen away from her home and family? I also didn’t like Heidi’s aunt, she was so careless and thoughtless about Heidi and treated her like a suitcase.

9. There is a part in the book where Heidi longs for home. Has there ever been a time in your life where you have longed for home?

Yes. When I went away to college I was absolutely miserable. I missed my house, my friends, my family, Billy. I moped around even though I made some really good lifelong friends there. I took every ride share to my area that showed up on the ride board. I was a sad sack for a little while. I got over that level of homesickness but I did transfer to a university closer to my home and commuted instead after my freshman year. I honestly do think some of it was that I felt very landlocked! I was attending Central Michigan, in the middle of the state, and I was just nowhere near a river or a lake and it was weird. I know that in Michigan we are never more than 6 miles from a lake or water, but those were small rivers, maybe creeks, instead of the watery shores I was used to.

10.  Do you think you would like to live in a small hut in the Swiss mountains, miles away from a town?

Hm. Like in this day and age, as me now? I probably would not want to live there full time, but would love to visit for a month or so at a time, like Clara and the doctor did. Or if I lived close enough, on weekends or as a getaway whenever I needed one.

Have you read this one? I know a few of you told me that you had beautifully illustrated versions as kids, which must have made it even more special.

For Lisa’s version of this post, pop on over here!

Lisa of Boondock Ramblings and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

Today it is my goal to visit the posts there and also go blog visiting!

And with that, I am going to say goodbye until later! Whatever you do today, I hope you do something that makes you smile!

And yay, this book is one I can count for the Book in Translation Challenge hosted by Introverted Reader.

Top Ten Tuesday: Book Titles That Describe Me/My Life

Top Ten Tuesday is hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

Today’s Prompt: Book Titles That Describe Me/My Life

This topic is so fun!

My Life … as a parent.

We’ve Got This || We Survived the Night || All You Knead is Love

My Life… how my house feels sometimes.

My Life… how I try to live it, and how I view myself.

The Keeper of Magical Things || Let the Light Pour In

My Life…as some people might see it.

The Woman in the Library

My Life…. and my family.

Listen to Your Sister || Family Lore || Close Knit

And that is that! This was a lot of fun! I can’t wait to see what everyone else chose!

Whatever you do today, I hope you do something that makes you smile!

Books, Screens, and In-Betweens

I am linking up with Deb at Readerbuzz,  Kathryn at Book Date, and  Kimba the Caffeinated Book Reviewer.

Hello everyone! It’s so cold and dreary here today, at least right now. It is supposed to warm up though this afternoon, to 76, but we will see. I am having a hard time believing it!

Books:

Over the last two weeks I read three books.

Heidi is a buddy read with Lisa at Boondock Ramblings. We were going to stretch it out over the month but I accidentally read it all the other day. I think Lisa is pretty close to finishing it as well. I am so glad that we read it; I absolutely adored it!

Marigolds for Malice is part of the Enchanted Garden mystery series, and is book 3 of 3 according to Amazon. It was pretty good and I am bummed the author stopped writing this series. I feel like there was more to tell about Ellie and her garden and the town of Poppyville!

Finally, I finished up Stillmeadow Daybook by Gladys Taber. It is funny that Lisa and I both were reading this at the same time, and didn’t realize it! I loved this one even more than Stillmeadow and Sugarbridge which I read at the beginning of the year. I loved Taber’s voice, and perspective, and so many of her thoughts are valid still today. (although there were some outdated references and signs of this book being of its time) I had so many book tags sticking out of the library copy that I ended up buying my own. That is a sign to me I need to own it! I was lucky enough to find a copy it and also Amber: A Very Personal Cat being sold together for seven dollars on Ebay. They are paperback which is my preference, so even better!

This week, I am visiting my old friends, the rabbits of Watership Down. If I finish, I feel like it will be a good time to also start Raising Hare!

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Billy and I have been watching Young Sherlock. It took me an episode or two to get into it, but I am really enjoying it now.

I also subjected my family to the original cartoon movie of Watership Down the other day. It wasn’t as bad as I remembered? Wyatt was not traumatized either so I was relieved. Wyatt hasn’t watched much with violence in it, just How to Train Your Dragon and The Mummy, so I was nervous but he did good. He seemed more excited that he was watching a movie version of my favorite book.

In-Betweens:

Do you ever have weird coincidences happen, that are not algorithm related because we know that those are not actual coincidences, but where something pops up where you are not expecting it? This happened to me this week. I had just finished Stillmeadow Daybook, and started Marigolds for Malice, when I encountered a reference to Gladys Taber in the cozy mystery! It was so weird!

I have to agree, reading Taber always relaxes me with tales of her life.

My cousin’s daughter also got her first job! And I was excited to hear that it was at one of my favorite local shops. So of course I had to go and visit, and of course I had to buy something..

I found this distinguished gentleman for half off, and had to bring him home. He is actually a vase, so I need to buy a few flowers to pop into his little ears. Lol. I have named him Hazel. Of course.

Other random photos from the week:

And just a reminder:

Lisa of Boondock Ramblings and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

And that is it from my corner of the world! I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile!

Wednesday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Hello everyone! It is a sunny day with predicted temps in the 50s today. I have a cup of coffee, a kitten on my lap, and a little boy next to me. I am trying to stay centered and present right now these days. It’s been a heavy week, hasn’t it? It’s easy to feel lost and overwhelmed, and we need to do what we can in order to keep ourselves as sane as possible. Right now, I know I have responsibilities and the biggest one is Wyatt. I keep one eye and prayers on current events, and focus on Wyatt who needs me to keep things together here.

That being said, yesterday I just did just that, I kept my ear to the ground and went about my day. I prayed, I lamented, and I also took Wyatt to therapy, where he absolutely blew his therapist and I away. She put him in a gait trainer, which is like a walker but with more support, and he took off cruising, practically running. I couldn’t even get a video because I was so shocked honestly. Neither of us have ever seen him move quite like that! We have watched him use this gait trainer for a few weeks, building back up to it after his surgery last July, with some struggles, determination, and some drama as only Wyatt can provide. Yesterday though, he did it so easily. It all clicked and came together in one boy yesterday.

I also went to yoga for the first time in forever and ever. My friend Kelly and I went to a local class held in an building downtown in our city. It was her first time ever and I was proud of her too! I had to laugh though – we have been friends over thirty years and I have never once seen her sweats and a t-shirt. She is always meticulously dressed. It was so cathartic and restful, and my body and soul needed that. As we sat there, in the old auditorium with it’s wooden floors and antique lighting along the high ceiling, I just felt such peace for a moment. It felt good to be moving my body with such purpose again, feel its strengths (and weaknesses – ugh my core!), and then the final relaxing pose on the mat at the end. I left feeling very refreshed and so did Kelly. When I asked her how she felt she told me that she felt like she really needed that, and I understood exactly what she meant. I am hoping to go every Tuesday night now.

I popped by to see my mom afterwards and she was doing so well. They changed her meds last Friday, and they told us to expect her to be very sleepy over the weekend, which she was. So I was happy to see last night a bright eyed, happy mother. She was chatty and awake, and I saw some real improvement in her. For those who don’t know, my mom had a stroke last month, and she also has moderate dementia. She has some mobility issues as well, but I am hoping with the meds change, we can get her up and out more, at least out of bed. They were really making her very weak and not doing much to help her at all. I went home feeling pretty good about my corner of the world, for at least one day. And that is where I am at these days, one day at a time.

Last week Wyatt and I took some time off for a spring break. We didn’t do too much, mostly just hung out at home and read and played and things like that, lots of art happened, but we had one day out with Mermaid Girl. All three of us are book people, so I took Mermaid Girl with us on one of our bookstore and dessert days! I picked an awesome bookstore too, Coreanders in Grosse Pointe Park. It is designed for kids and is filled with storybook murals and a tall stalk with a sun at the top in the center of the store, shelves of books and cozy reading spots. It even has an ice cream shop and a secret garden. We kicked things off with McDonalds, and then once we were at the store, we spent two hours wandering around, choosing books, chatting, having ice cream. It was so fun.

One of the coolest things about Coreanders is that it is two floors and the elevator is even a mural, all the way up. The door has a glass window and on the wall of the elevator shaft is a mural that follows the path of the elevator, so you are treated to scenes from The Hobbit as you make your up and down. It is really cool.

I didn’t get many photos this time, the weather was gray and gross and the garden has not grown yet, plus I was too busy with two kids and being in the moment, so I will share some photos from the first time I visited.

It is very cool, and it was the perfect little day off. We all left happy and with books (or for me, a journal and some bookmarks) in our hands. The kids also enjoyed ice cream, which was only 3 dollars for two giant scoops! A deal!

Afterwards Mermaid Girl came over and played with Wyatt and Mouse and Max before her dad came to get her. It was a nice time!

We also finally finished up the Gold Rush in history! We celebrated with a “Gold Rush” dinner of beans, bacon, and homemade biscuits, and we sat on the floor in our den on a buffalo plaid blanket. We all decided while the dinner itself was not bad, we certainly wouldn’t want it too often, much less for every meal! Something fun I learned about the gold rush – I mean, Wyatt learned- a bath cost $10 dollars which would have been about $419 dollars today!! Then I read randomly in the Gladys Taber book I just read, Stillmeadow Daybook, that the boomtowns had a rodent issue, so a shipload of I think 3000 cats was sent to California, where they sold to those argonauts for $10- $20 a cat! They were also often stolen from their owners, as they were in high demand!

And with that little tidbit, I will say goodbye. I hope whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile!

Top Ten Tuesday: Books About/Set In Places on My Bucket List

Top Ten Tuesday is hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

Today’s Prompt: Books About/Set In Places on My Bucket List

Oo I love this one! Now, how to narrow this down? *thinkthinkthink*

Iceland (Secret Nights and Northern Lights) has been a bucket list country for me for a long time. Knowing it is just a six hour flight from me, which doesn’t seem to bad, especially with no layovers, makes it seem slightly within reach? I would love to see the Northern Lights there. One reason I liked this book so much is that I feel like I learned along with the main character about places to see within the country.

The Giraffe Manor Hotel in Nairobi (Tea with Elephants): Talk about a dream!!! Ever since I learned this place existed I have wanted to go, but it is very expensive so I will have to just keep dreaming. While this book isn’t quite the same thing, it makes me think of a trip like that. And this series sounds really fun! I have this book on my potential Summer TBR.

Chincoteague: Technically, I have been here, but so briefly and I was so young that I don’t remember. So I want to “go back” and see it, and I want Wyatt to see it too. I have been saying it for years now, we just need to do it!

Peru (Secret of the Andes): I have never read this book, but I think about reading it all the time, especially with Wyatt. Lol. Maybe this summer. I feel like Peru is magical, with deserts, mountains, and a rainforest, and would just be so beautiful and diverse to visit, with so much to see and do.

Italy (Every Time I Go on Vacation Someone Dies): I would love to go to Italy. Anywhere in Italy, just send me there!

Loch Ness (Nessie Quest): I love cryptids, and the Loch Ness Monster is my favorite! I don’t believe in them (or do I?) but I would love to visit Scotland, and while it would be neat to see my family who lives there and see where my grandma and her family came from, I would really like to visit Loch Ness. And Edinburgh, just throwing that in there too.

Cornwall (Rebecca): I have no idea why I want to go to Cornwall so badly. I just do. I think I love the whole seaside of it, the history of the smugglers and the coves, and I find myself drawn to books set there.

California/Sequoia National Park (Kildee House): Ok, this is a place I have been but it is a bucket list for me to take Wyatt there to see the giant redwoods. They are so awe inspiring and amazing to see, I know he would love it too! I loved Kildee House, even though it made me cry a few times!!!

Japan (The Curious Kitten at the Chibineko Kitchen): I chose this book in particular because while Tokyo seems like it would be neat, I would not want to be there long. I would rather visit quieter, more rural areas.

The Shire (The Hobbit): I would like to visit the Shire. Or live there. I could very easily be a hobbit..

And that is it from me today! I hope that whatever you do, you do something that makes you smile!

Mini Book Reviews: Trixie Belden, Nightshade for Warning, Agnes Aubert’s Mystical Cat Shelter, and When Wanderers Cease to Roam

It’s time for mini book reviews again! I like to do them in groups of three, sometimes four.

Let’s start with Trixie!

Trixie Belden The Secret of the Mansion: I loved Trixie Belden growing up and when I picked this up at the used book store I had to take it home with me. I am cracking up reading it now as an adult – these kids either have the best luck or worst luck, I can’t tell! So far, a small boy was bit by a copperhead, Honey almost got run over by a truck, Trixie dove into a shallow part of the lake, hit her head and knocked herself unconscious (with no follow up care), Trixie was thrown from a horse, Jim fell off a ladder, and a stray dog charged them and then died suddenly at their feet, a small aircraft crashed on their land, and a house burned down. It was a crazy ride, but I loved it. I loved the fact that Trixie had chores on her farm but also lots of freedom to be a kid, I loved that balance of responsibility and then just being a kid. It was nice to revisit Trixie and her friends, and I will probably keep reading this series, all over again.

Next up, another mystery, Nightshade for Warning, part of the Enchanted Garden series.

Nightshade for Warning: This series is so fun! I am bummed that it appears there are only three in the series, and I am picking up number three today from the library. Don’t authors know we want to keep reading a series forever when we like it? Lol. Anyway, this was another light read, full of flowers and intrigue, and aromatherapy. Ellie gets embroiled in another murder mystery, this time not to save herself but to save her brother’s fiancee, who is the top suspect. And of course Dash and Nabokov make appearances as well! You can see Nabby the cat in the window, hiding there on the shelf.

Speaking of cats..

Agnes Aubert’s Mystical Cat Shelter: I absolutely loved this book. It had cats, magic, cat welfare awareness, and it was set in 1920s Montreal. It was fantastic. In this world, average everyday people who are magicless don’t really care for those who are magical, believing them to be reckless. Agnes definitely is not a fan of magical wizards, so when she finds out that the Dark Lord himself is her landlord she is not thrilled. But she needs the space for her cats so she makes it work.

I loved Agnes’ character. She was a take charge, Type A personality, yet still quirky. Agnes likes things organized, loves a list (much like me lol), and loves her cats, all forty some of them, and worries about the ones still on the streets. Does she enter into a working relationship with the dreaded Dark Lord to help her cats? You will have to read to find out!

I was very involved in animal rescue for years before Wyatt was born, I helped start an organization, fostered, served on the board, volunteered at the shelter multiple nights a week, and I would like to add that from the perspective an animal rescuer, this book was spot on. The TNR efforts, all the little details involved, were perfect. Fawcett either has to be in animal rescue herself or did some thorough research!

I loved this book, and it is a definite five star for me!

When Wanderers Cease to Roam: I had been slowly savoring this book for a few months, diving in here and there when I needed a pick me up. I loved reading Swift’s memories, her snippets about cats and weather and nature and being cozy, the names she picked for each month. I loved her illustrations as well. This book is a treat for the soul. Thank you Jeanie at Marmalade Gypsy for sharing about it on your blog!

And that is it from me today!! I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile!