In case you missed Part 1 and Part 2 and Part 3: So, on November 22, 2024 I started a little book book, as I call it, but it is a journal of the books I have read with a few jotted thoughts, quotes I like, and stickers. I am an archivist and chronicler at heart, and I have been having so much fun journaling my reading experience this way. I thought it would be neat to share my favorite quotes from all the books I have read – in different parts of course.
“But mermaids- mermaids relish pain. Mermaids embrace pain. Mermaids accept the pain of discipline if far less than the pain of regret.”
“Pat loved the sound of a day to spend. It sounded so gloriously lavish to “spend” a whole day, letting its moments slip one by one through your fingers liked beads of gold.”
“It was the kind of cafe you went to for lattes on a first date, or to meet up with old friends over a pot of chai, or to read a book by the fire while sipping on a mug of hot chocolate with extra mini marshmallows.”
“Those were the sounds of his favorite people. As long as he could hear them, he was safe.”
“It was like some houses stopped breathing the moment their owners died.”
“The fire danced and twirled and then, unbelievably, it somehow grew two little flame hands , which it planted on its two little flame hips, and it waggled at me.”
“He’d whistled in the dark more than once in his life. And an imminent hurricane seemed very, very dark.”
“The world will drive a woman insane, then point and laugh at them.”
“It felt like they had been tricked into attending some Tupperware-candle-lingerie-medieval warfare – party where you technically didn’t to buy anything, but actually you kind of did.”
“But that’s life. It’s unpredictable and anything can happen at any time. Which is why you should live doing what makes you happy, what lights you up inside, what keeps that flame burning.”
” She was not the girl who admitted defeat, and she certainly never let go. She had never let go of anything.”
“Here’s the thing: Witches might eat you, but other than that, they generally respected your boundaries.”
“When I am perturbed, I like to walk. I feel slow and stupid when I sit, but walking seems to wake something up in my brain.”
And we have now made it to the end of October in my reading journey! The last and final post will be up before the New Year!
Hello everyone!! I hope that you are all having a great December so far! Ours has been good but has looked a little different than what I had planned, since we all came down with a cold. However, although we haven’t been able to do the big ticket items on our list this year so far, we have been enjoying Christmas at home with movies, shopping, and wrapping. I am hoping to be able to get to the Detroit Zoo for the holiday lights in the next few days though. I am feeling ok, it is just that cough and laryngitis that linger.
However, I wanted to tell you about all the Hallmark Christmas movies we have been watching! We spent all last weekend watching them, bless my husband’s heart. We watched three: Christmas at the Catnip Cafe, Tis the Season to be Irish, and The Christmas Cottage.
We started with Christmas at the Catnip Cafe, which is pretty much exactly what it sounds like. Olivia has a career as a marketer in California, and thinks she has finally found her dream home, a slick and shiny condo. Unfortunately, the down payment is more than she can afford. She thinks her dreams are answered when she learns that she has inherited her aunt’s cat cafe. Olivia heads across the country, planning on a quick sale and then getting back to California and her new condo. However, Ben , her aunt’s partner at the cafe and a local overworked overwhelmed vet who often does vet work for cookies rather than money, does not want to sell. So they make a deal: Olivia does all the planning and helps during the three week Christmas season at the Catnip Cafe which has multitudes of activities, and Ben will sell. And of course, as this is a Hallmark movie, we do get our HEA. I loved this one because of all the cats, of course. And because of Ben’s villainous eyebrows.
You all know I am such an interiors and set person, and this one did not disappoint. It was full of warmth and texture and color, a mix of old and new. And Olivia’s aunt’s house had the most beautiful stained glass window. Sigh.
The movie did have some parts that just didn’t make sense and gave Billy and I a little laugh , but Billy and I rarely watch a movie with a critical eye. The very reason some people don’t like these movies is exactly why I like them! And I am of an age now where I am not ashamed to admit I like things, even if they are unpopular. I like what I like and I am good with that.
You can see some of the cats here, on the Hallmark website. There was even one that reminded me of my own Miso!
You can watch this one on Hallmark via a free trial through Amazon Prime, Roku, and YouTube.
Next, we headed overseas to Ireland, with Tis the Season to be Irish.
Rose is a free spirited wanderer, who loves being on the move, being in new cities and countries and towns, and not being tied down to one spot too long. She is a house flipper and has set her sights on a cottage in Ireland, that looks absolutely adorable online. Bonus, it is located in a town that her mother (now deceased) had once visited and loved. However, when she arrives it is in complete shambles and the realtor, Sean, is also anti-house flipper and a historic preservationist. The two have a bumpy road as Rose must work with Sean in her plans to flip the cottage, keeping it in standards he approves of as the cottage is historic. Sean is also the most homebody homebody too. When the two start to have feelings for each other, they question just how such a relationship will work out. One thing I liked about this one is that both Rose and Sean are older, in their forties, and I thought that was a cool change.
I enjoyed this one, but more than the romance aspect, I loved the friendships that Rose there. She made friends with another woman who was renovating a cottage, except she wanted hers to live in, not flip, and a woman who had lost her husband and was visiting the town because it was where he was from. I loved the interactions of these women as they began their friendships together.
And there was a cute animal in this one too! Lambchop, the sheep who was devoted to Rose. When Billy and I were guessing at the reason that would suddenly shine the light on Rose that she needed to stay, I suggested that she would discover that the sheep was an ancestor of a sheep that her mother knew during her stay. Lol. I was pretty bummed too, that despite being in Ireland the interiors of these houses and buildings were a bummer. The views of the landscape however, were gorgeous.
You can watch this one on Hallmark via a free trial through Amazon Prime, Roku, and YouTube.
Ok, moving on. The Christmas Cottage.
This is the tale of Lacey and Ean. I mean, we all know they are together in the end, it’s a Hallmark movie so no spoiler there. Lacey is an interior designer, who is at the top of her game. She doesn’t design lovely living spaces though, full of warmth and whimsy, she designs work-home spaces, that are all white and designed to be perfect for, I guess, never leaving work behind? Which makes sense because Lacey is in a relationship with her design firm partner Roger, and their relationship definitely seems more business than pleasure. They have a genuine friendship I believe, and the same goals for their business, but as for a romantic relationship? That doesn’t look like something they have (and is confirmed by the end of the movie).
Lacey is the maid of honor in her best friend Ava’s wedding, which sounds magical. A Christmas wedding, followed by a night in Ava’s family cottage, which has a charming legend surrounding it. Legend says that whoever stays a Christmas night in the cottage will have a happy and lasting marriage. Ava’s brother, and Lacey’s ex, Ean, is the best man, so the two are thrown together quite a bit with their duties, and these duties include decorating the cottage for Christmas. They are there reminiscing about their past together, when they are snowed in for the night. And maybe there just is some truth to that legend, as Lacey’s outlook on what she wants begins to change. Or maybe it wasn’t the cottage that changed her mind, maybe it was just Ean.
This was a cute one! The set was so rustic lodge at Christmas and I was so there for that. I loved Ava and her bubbly personality and her love of everything, and I loved the nostalgia of this movie. After the Catnip Cafe, this was my favorite. Sorry, Tis the Season to be Irish. I enjoyed you but of the three you came in third. Still good though.
You can watch this one on Hallmark via a free trial through Amazon Prime, Roku, and YouTube.
And now I am off to find more to have Billy watch with me this weekend!
Greenglass House is one of my favorite MG reads. I just love everything about it.
The Enchanted Greenhouse may sound like it should be a spring or summer book, but it really takes place in the snowy winter. One of my favorite things during snowy season is to visit greenhouses and conservatories, and be reminded of heat and green growing things, so I think that contributed to my love of this book.
The Bear and the Nightingale by Katherine Arden is all about the winter and snow. I read it during a snowstorm and it was perfect.
Fox Crossing is just a cute little read – I loved this whole series!
A Blizzard of Polar Bears was not my favorite honestly. I wanted to love this series and I will probably give it another chance now that I have reminded myself of it, but there is no denying that this book that takes place in the Canadian Arctic is a snowy book. It wasn’t bad, from the scientific pov but the character herself is a bit too..action hero sometimes.
The Frozen River is actually on my TBR. I never got to it when everyone else was reading it! Maybe this winter.
The Shining. Seriously, there is no way I could have made this list without this book.
I was obsessed by Goolrick’s writing years ago, and A Reliable Wife is phenomenal in my opinion.
While the Earth Holds Its Breath. This book sounds absolutely lovely, and I have it on my TBR for winter. So I guess you guys got a tiny preview of my next week’s post this week! Lol.
I am excited to see everyone’s choices today!
I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile!
I am making my way through my fall TBR and I am loving it. Why do I just save these books for fall? I love them all so much. I should read them all year!
First up, In the Company of Witches by Auralee Wallace.
Ivywood Hollow has a reputation for its calm, restorative atmosphere. This time of year, one could reliably expect upon entering its doors to be greeted with a fire, gently cracking in the hearth, soothing classical music playing in the background and divine scents emanating from the kitchen.”
In the Company of Witches is a perfect read for fall. It is cozy and warm, with atmosphere and quirky characters, witches and ghosts, and that quaint small town feel. I really enjoyed this book about Brynn, her eccentric aunts, and her haiku writing uncle Gideon. Oh and I can’t forget Dog and Faustus. This book feels like the beginning of fall and would be absolutely wonderful paired with a cup of hot chocolate. Just make sure Izzy hasn’t charmed it before drinking it. And the ending was so sweet and made me a little bit teary – and the author herself commented on my Instagram post, saying that it made her a bit teary as well!
“Nora’s garden was a sanctuary. There was no better word to describe it. Even though she had tended to it daily, it had a wild feel, lush and overgrown. It was a the type of place where you wanted to dance in the moonlight, trailing your fingers over flowers, or laze away a hot summer’s day listening to the wind rustle in the trees.”
Next, Ghost Business by Jen DeLuca
“Setting the place on fire anytime was a bad idea, but during a hurricane? That seemed especially negligent.”
Ghost Business by Jen DeLuca was one of my most anticipated reads of the season and it did not disappoint!! This book was fun, funny, adorable, and at times, vulnerable. Sophie and Tristan both run rival ghost tours in the same small town in Florida; Sophie has the hometown advantage, having lived there her whole life and knowing all the stories, yet Tristan is a natural showman with flair. This is definitely going to be my Friday book buy!
This enemies to lovers story is so endearing and I just loved both characters, along with the rest of the characters from the town, including Cassie and Nick from Haunted Ever After. While it takes place in Florida and during some very hot months, the ghost vibes make it perfect for a fall read – especially for where I live, with its unseasonably hot weather right now.
I also sort of love that I finished this on October 1, a very significant date in the book. This is all small town charm, enemies to lovers, and Tristan is a bit of a cinnamon roll, my favorite. As for spice, there was some, but not super open door explicit. So maybe like a rating of red pepper flakes on pizza?
Definitely read this. Maybe have some red wine on hand, and plan on ordering a pizza!
And last but not least, Play Nice by Rachel Harrison.
“Darling, what other people think of me is none of my business.”
This was my first time reading a book by Rachel Harrison and oh my gosh did I love this book. I could not stop reading it, much like Clio could not stop reading her book, in the book. 😂 Clio is a feisty fireball, all about appearance and being seen, her image, and snarky, quick witted repartee. She is also a bit of a brat. She knows it and owns it. That is until she is up against her past and things she can’t see – or maybe unsee.
I feel like that is a big theme in this book. Appearances, how we are seen, how we are perceived, what it means. I sort of loved how the author explored this idea through Clio’s job, through her mom’s book, through her sisters. It was really well done, especially as the main plot of this book was about a haunted house.
I loved every character in this book despite all of them being flawed, the story, and the look at how women are treated as well, when they may have issues. “The world will drive a woman insane, then point and laugh at them “
This book was funny, scary, and ultimately a five star read. 😈
I have so many fall lists of books! And really, too many books to list here on the blog. I am going to have a full list available next Friday on my Ko-Fi for anyone who will want to see alllll the books I have researched and compiled. Until then, please take this humble offering.
Love’s a Witch || Uncharmed || Rewitched
Love’s a Witch: Witchy cozy romance, set in Scotland. Enemies to lovers.
Ghost Business: I can’t wait to read this one! The second in the Boneyard Key series and the main FMC runs a ghost tour business.
Crazy Spooky Love: Cozy little ghost hunting romance. Also high on my own list to read this fall!
Potions and Prejudice || The Lone Wolf Cafe || Cat Dragon
Potions and Prejudice: Cozy witchy romance, enemies to lovers. And this cover is gorgeous!
Lone Wolf Cafe: Spooky sapphic cozy, with a witch and a werewolf. Also, baked goods!
Cat Dragon: Another that is on my own list. I just don’t have enough time to read all the books that I want to! I have to admit I just want to read this because of the idea of cat dragons. How cute would that be?
I can’t wait to get started with the spooky or spooky adjacent reads!
It feels like fall here this week. I know that summer will make it’s last stand again, but for now, I am going to enjoy this preview and not think about that.
I have a bunch of suggestions for fall reading this year! So many that I broke them up into separate lists, but I wanted to start with this one. Just a cozy, happy autumn book post, that feels full of pumpkin spice, crunching through colorful crispy leaves, apple orchards, bonfires, and hayrides. This list is all romancey, Hallmark moments and it gives me all the fall vibes. I can’t wait! I have a few of these on my own TBR for fall – I wish I could read them all! This list might get long, so I will try to keep my comments short!
This list is comprised of new and older books, but errs on the side of new. This post also contains Amazon Affiliate links. If you were to make a purchase using a link, I would make a small commission at no extra cost to you.
There’s Pumpkin About You || If It Makes You Happy || Kindling
There’s Pumpkin About You: This looks adorable! Grumpy-Sunshine, small town, a pumpkin farm, and two characters with bird names. Lol. Wren Southwick and August Finch. I have no idea if that comes into play in the book but it tickled me.
If It Makes You Happy: This is the one I have been seeing everywhere lately! It’s set in Vermont in the 90s, cozy small town vibes, friends to lovers, and is described as Gilmore Girls meets When Harry Met Sally. Sign me up for this one please!!
Kindling: A fall cozy romance set in Scotland!! I love it. It is a rom-com, grumpy sunshine, a lumberjack and yes, set in Scotland. Just saying that twice for those that are as excited as I am.
Falling Like Leaves || Fall I Want || Fall Shook Up
Did I group these by title? Perhaps.
Falling Like Leaves: This is a teen/YA focused fall read, so I am imagining that the spice is very minimal. (I hope!) It looks adorable, and is autumn fests, coffeehouses, and is described as Gilmore Girls meets Jenny Han. This edition has sprayed edges.
Fall I Want: This one is said to be extra spicy, so keep that in mind depending on what level of spice you like. (If you follow my romance reviews, you will know that I measure in peppers- I wonder if I could change it for fall? Hmm.) If your vibe is billionaire romance, fake dating, and he falls first, this one is perfect, and all wrapped up in the coziness of fall! This edition also has sprayed edges.
Fall Shook Up: This one is also said to be extra spicy, but also slow burn. The characters in this are a reclusive artist and nosey journalist, with an autumnal feel. This one is free on Kindle Unlimited.
A Love Like Pumpkin Spice || Falling Hard at Pumpkin Spice Cabins || Love and Lattes at Pumpkin Hollow
A Love Like Pumpkin Spice: The black sheep of the family returns home to her small town after having sworn off relationships. This one looks so cute, with a stray cat and what sounds like a cinnamon roll of a male main character!
Falling Hard at Pumpkin Spice Cabins: This one sounds perfectly adorable, with lots of fall fun. It is set at a Halloween Singles Retreat at a campground full of cozy cabins. This one does sound like it may have a little more spookiness to it but it does sound more romance than scary.
Love and Lattes at Pumpkin Hollow: This is like a Hallmark movie in book form! A young woman is determined to to save her family and farm by turning it into a pumpkin farm – in 6 weeks – with a hotshot property developer breathing down her neck.
Are you still with me? This is the end, I promise.
The Honeycrisp Orchard Inn || The Cinnamon Spice Inn
The Honeycrisp Orchard Inn: This one is set on Long Island, and involves Harvest Festival, an orchard, and an inn. The main characters are thrown together by their parents’, respectably the owners of the orchard (him) and the Inn (her), when they are put in charge of the highly important Harvest Fest.
The Cinnamon Spice Inn: I love this cover! Another Hallmark-esque book, saving a failing family business, combined with delicious fall treats and moments. Judging by the reviews, this one is very good – and will also make you crave some fall treats, so if you read it, maybe have a pumpkin muffin or a chai coffee on standby!
And phew! Thanks for checking out the list! I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile. After making this list, I am pretty sure I am going to have to go in search of something delicious, like a pumpkin doughnut.
It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date
Hello everyone! We had a pretty busy but good week last week. Wyatt had a good EEG, he had a blast at Dream Night at the Detroit Zoo, we have seen a lot of family… it’s been fun.
Ok, so what did I read? I read the best romance book. Like, seriously, it is probably my favorite one I have ever read. I don’t read a lot of romance. There is no real reason I don’t, it is just not a genre I gravitate to much. But Wyatt and I were at the library last week and I was looking for something that would be easy to pick up and put down as needed in the hospital, and I spotted this book on the shelf, and it just sounded so me.
I guess I should have heeded the blurb that says it is impossible to put down, because I really loved it. I am planning on posting some reviews this week, and this one is on the list to review.
And now what is on the list for this week? It’s hard to say! I really enjoyed The Jewel of the Isle, and now I don’t know which way to bounce. Do I want scary? Or something classic and cool like L.M. Montgomery and Jane of Lantern Hill? Do I want nature nonfiction? I really don’t know. I will have to see which way the wind blows (hopefully blowing this smoke and dust out of the Detroit area!) this week. So, I will list all the possibles here.
I just bought Otter Country off of Pango! Does anyone else use that? I love it! Books are very reasonably priced, you can list books to sell super easily, and you can earn money to either send to your actual bank account, or you can use the money as Pangobucks and spend it on … more books!! Anyway, it is a super easy site to use and I find a lot of books on there that I have a hard time finding elsewhere.
Not much. When we get a chance we watch Yellowjackets, which we are obsessed with. It is so freaking good!
Online Things Happening:
Not much on my own end here, at least through the summer. I do plan to host an autumn fun thing with Lisa, but that won’t be until October.
We are still having our crafternoons once a month or so! My last one for a month or two is coming up June 21st but Lisa will be holding the doors open for us throughout the summer. Please email me if you are interested in joining our zoom and I will add you to the group email. I am thinking I might pop in to July and August though, even if it is just for a short time, since the crafternoons are light and easy, drop in style. Come and go as you please!
And that is that from my end today! I hope that whatever you do today you do something that makes you smile.
“I tell you this/ to break your heart, /by which I mean only/ that it break open and never close again/ to the rest of the world.” – Mary Oliver
Hello everyone! It has been beautiful here lately – finally! We had been hit by constant rain for a week or so straight, and the past few days have been sunny and not too hot. Perfection!
It’s been a few weeks since I posted one of these! We just have had a lot of life stuff that hasn’t been all that interesting, like a flurry of doctor appointments, appointments for equipment for Wyatt, school stuff, just the minutia of daily life. I also started going through areas that I rarely weed through to get rid of things and reorganize. Fun stuff here guys.
I have recently gotten into genealogy again, and have been tromping around cemeteries. There is one that Wyatt and I visited together, but I didn’t want to leave him in the car too much while I searched so that was more of a scouting expedition, that I followed up with a real exploration later that weekend with Billy and Wyatt. I found my mom’s grandparents, but for the life of me I could not find my dad’s great grandparents. My dad, Wyatt, and I went last Friday and finally found them. I told Wyatt we were standing in front of his great-great-great grandparents graves. I don’t think he was particularly enthused, but one day he might be!
If you read my post about my genealogy saga, I had a mystery about an ancestor, Marie Domaine and her mother Josephine Bernard. Well, I still haven’t solved that puzzle yet, and I ran into a new head scratcher. My great grandfather was born in Ireland, moved to Pennsylvania and was a brick layer in the Pittsburgh area. However, I found a passport application that states he was planning to go to Colombia for a month for work, which sounds sketch. Then later, he died after being struck by a car, which isn’t really that suspicious unless you are plotting some sort of criminal story in your mind, like I did. Was he in the mob? Who knows? Lol. Well that might be a stretch but I do enjoy making up these narratives about ancestors right now.
Speaking of my dad, he recently had a birthday! Number 78. We went to his house for a very casual get together and had a great time. The kids had fun playing and visiting their grandparents. There were also three different birthday cakes for us to choose from, so lots of cake!
We kicked last weekend off by making lunches to be distributed to the public. I wanted Wyatt to start becoming involved in community service projects occasionally, and of course our church is a good place to start with him. He was a great helper and I was very proud of him, although I did not have him help make sandwiches. His grandmother did that. Wyatt, Billy, and I were an assembly line of filling the lunch bags instead, which was a much more suitable job for a ten year old.
When we got home, it was time for our Drop In Crafternoon that Lisa at Boondock Ramblings and I are hosting. We had a great time hanging out, chatting, and crafting with the fellow bloggers who have joined us. Since it is drop in, it is all very casual, just come for however long you can or pop in when you can. Send me an email at crackercrumblife@gmail.com if you are intestested!
On Sunday, we went to a nursery garden center that was new to us. Wyatt had gotten a small garden bed for Easter, one that is raised so that he can access it from his wheelchair, and he needed some plants to fill it! He made some good choices – dahlias, a delphinium, and a strawberry plant. It looks really nice! Billy and I had too much fun in the bonsai area and the terrarium areas, poking around. We ended up buying a tiny little silver needle tree (?). It says it gets like 6 feet tall, but we can’t find anything about it online, so I am thinking it has a different name than what it said on the tag. It was in the bonsai area so I am also guessing we can do that with it? Right now it just looks uniquely pretty. I also picked out a teeny tiny little tiger head planter and stuck a succulent in it. I love it.
Afterwards we stopped at Lowes for dirt, and ran into my brother and his family. They were also getting supplies, for Mermaid Girl’s fairy garden.
These guys came over on Monday to hang out, have some dinner, and enjoy the evening. It was a nice time. My mom came too, and was not happy I made her wear a big hat. But it was really sunny and I was worried she would burn. She did it, and I told her she looked like a Dame. She will also be unhappy if she knows I posted this photo of her on here, so don’t tell ok.
I hope you all have been having some good moments filled with smiles and laughter.
Hello everyone!! It has been a very very long week. I am so glad that today is Friday. Wyatt and I have no real plans except a little school. I try to keep Fridays open for field trips, library trips, reading, and art. Fridays are the best. Plus we have pizza every Friday as well so I don’t need to plan and make dinner!
So, this week was a bit crazy. Some of it fun, some of it was not as fun. Let’s start with a fun day, Tuesday.
Tuesday I woke up and the sun was shining and I wanted Wyatt and I to get outside somehow. My friend Sarah has the most magical yard, and I had the idea a few weeks ago of Wyatt using it as a small ecosystem study for the spring and fall. We will miss summer in person due to his surgery, but Sarah is going to send videos for him. Anyway, we had been trying to get the day together but it kept raining on us! Tuesday morning I texted and was like, it is sunny, are you busy? And she texted me back to come on over! (and also that us winter people are crazy because it was pretty darn cold!) So big thanks to her for having us cuckoo winter folk over on a chilly sunny morning when she is a high summer type person.
Can I just say, she was so accommodating to my boy. So concerned and thoughtful about his wheelchair and maneuvering her yard, and wanting to show him things. She even had a fire lit for us to sit around. It was a very lovely start to our day.
The fish were awake and swimming, and very greedy to be fed. She told us to come back and feed them some worms so we are looking forward to that. (well, not really me. Wyatt) We had coffee and we caught up with each other and we talked with Wyatt about all the signs of early spring. About the life we could see emerging, and about what was coming. There were signs of life everywhere. Flowers pushing through the cold ground, birds feeding at her numerous bird feeders, seeds germinating in the earth in her greenhouse, the fish in the pond, and knowing that soon there will frogs and toads lining the rocks that ring the pond. She told us stories of raccoons on roofs, swimming in the pond, the possums that come and hang out in her garage. It was a great time and I am so thankful she is sharing some of that magic with Wyatt.
Later that night, I met up with my friend’s at Kelly’s house. It was the first time the four of us had all been together at once since the holidays and it was so nice to hang out!! I also took Lisa’s book with me and we all fun trying to find different spots to take its picture around the house for my Instagram post.
If you follow me on Instagram, then you know that I went with the last photo for my post. Which one would you have chosen? I am curious!
Then we started our gauntlet of appointments. Wyatt had three appointments this week in two days. It was rough, especially on him. The first appointment was at 7:30 am on Wednesday, where we learned that Wyatt is not having just one hip done in July, but both. To say that I have been struggling with this since getting the news has been an understatement. I am terrified everyone. This is my baby. But his PMR doctor, who we have known since he was a baby, told us that if he is going to end up having the other one done eventually, it is better to do it at the same time rather than separately for a few different reasons. It doesn’t necessarily make it easier emotionally or physically for Wyatt though while he is going through it. We sat there listening while wind and rain were whipping against the windows, wishing she was telling us different news. It was like the weather was reacting to it as well. Angry and upset and full of grief that it has to happen.
We headed home where we had more coffee (me) and toast (Wyatt) then waited for his therapy appointment a few hours later. The weather was a bit nicer when we went there, and he had a good visit.
Our last appointment was yesterday morning, when Wyatt had to go to the orthotist to get fitted for his braces. His regular orthotist is semi-retired and is training a new person. However, this appointment was going to be tricky with Wyatt’s hip pain. George, his regular orthotist, and the trainee were concerned because Wyatt’s muscles were pretty tight and they had to maniuplate him into leg positions that were painful. George told me that if they couldn’t get a good cast in the office yesterday, they would have to do it as a home visit with sedatives. It was pretty tense, and I even had a job, to hold Wyatt’s thigh in a straight position up off the wheelchair, while pushing down on his knee at the same time with my other hand. I could tell he was uncomfortable and in some pain, but I distracted him with stories and trying to make him laugh, and he toughed it out. (If you have read Watership Down, I felt a little like Bluebell to Wyatt’s Capt. Holly) But my kid was a trooper. He got the job done and even was giggling at times. George came in after and told Wyatt how proud he was of him, that he couldn’t believe he had even heard Wyatt laughing when he had been afraid he was going to hear crying. I hate that Wyatt has to be tough, but he really is. When he was in the NICU, we had a sign made that said Team Tough Cookie and that is really Wyatt.
After that appointment, I could literally feel my whole body relax and I was exhausted from the crazy week of emotions and running. Wyatt was tired too, and after a quick stop at Barnes and Noble, where he got a book about otters and I got a set of two new blank books, we headed home where it looked like Wyatt was about to just pass out in the car. When we got home I popped him into my bed, where he conked out hard and I vegged out.
Then we had to get ready for Mermaid Girl! She came over last night for Mexican food and crafts, and we had such a good time with her. She is so full of energy and light, and bounces all over house, telling us story after story. We love having her here. I had also made chocolate chip cookies for dessert and they were delicious! My brother, SIL, and little Hurricane came over to pick her up and hung out for a while which was nice too. And they ate a bunch of cookies which is awesome because that recipe made like 500.
And that leads us to this morning. I am going to have another cup of coffee, hopefully have a pretty easy day.
Just me hanging in there!
I hope that whatever you guys do today, that you do something that makes you smile!
Hey everyone! It is cold and gray here today, with a chance of snow! What the heck! Wyatt and I are going to hole up inside today. We have a huge day of school, and then I think we will make muffins.
So, I have been very distracted the past few days and it has been hard for me to keep up on anything, other than fretting. Wyatt had an appointment with his orthopedic doctor last week, who follows his spine and hips, and we got some news we didn’t want. We learned that Wyatt’s right hip bone is 50% out of the socket, and that he needs surgery. The doctor actually told us that it was not 100% necessary right now, but that if we waited until it was 100% out, it would be far worse for Wyatt all around – more pain, a longer recovery, a more intense surgery. So of course we are going to do the surgery before all that happens. It just makes me want to vomit, I am not going to lie. I am going to be honest – I am so so tired of my son having to go through all of this. I feel like he just reaches a good stride with things, and then boom, something else happens. I hate this for him so much and I just want to take all this away from him. And I can’t. It is alternately all I can think about but I also can’t think about it. He is literally the toughest person I know, and he is so resilient and despite everything he has gone through in his little life so far he manages to be one of the happiest people I know as well. We haven’t gotten the date for the surgery yet, but it will more than likely be sometime in the summer or fall. If you are a praying person, please send up some prayers for my baby, and we also welcome all the good vibes for him too.
Ok. Phew. Now that I have gotten that off of my chest (but not out of my head or my heart) we have been doing some other things around here too. Yes, lots of appointments because they all seem to fall at the same time, but still having school and some good times too.
We had two family parties last weekend! My cousin hosted a St. Patrick’s Day party for the kids – Wyatt, his two girls, and my nieces. Devin and Chrissy couldn’t make it, since they were prepping for party number 2, a birthday party for my youngest niece, so we took Mermaid Girl with us when we went. The kids decorated shamrock cookies, and the we played a trivia game and the kids acted out charades while the adults guessed, which was hysterical. Wyatt participated too, with the help of his dad, and he absolutely loved it.
The next day was the Hurricane’s second birthday! It was a blast, and she was so funny! In typical two year old fashion, she didn’t want to stop playing with her toys when it was time to sing happy birthday and have cake, and she flung herself face down on the floor and just cried while we sang. She had already eaten the frosting off of four cupcakes so she didn’t care about the cupcakes too much by that point. I was happy that she seemed to really love the present that we got her, which was a set of little houses, maybe ten or twelve, all different colors, that were numbered, and each house came apart and a little plastic animal was inside. She was having such a good time just taking them all apart and putting the animals inside, etc. Success! The two ten year olds also seemed to like them. Lol.
I also had a few hours to myself over the past two weeks! Billy had paid for a massage for me at Christmas time, and I finally cashed it in! I had a lovely hour massage followed up by a twenty minute nap and it was glorious. Then yesterday I had a lovely hang out in our Crafternoon session with Lisa and Cat, where I colored using the markers Billy bought a while ago. We decided a few weeks ago to treat ourselves to a coloring book each, and these markers and we spent an afternoon coloring, Wyatt and Billy and I, and it was actually really relaxing.
Wyatt was also excited because for his birthday month, the local used bookstore gives you a free book, so we took a trip there with my cousin and his girls (his youngest is also a March birthday – we have four birthdays in March!) to shop. Wyatt spent some of his birthday money, and ended up with quite a stack of dragon and wolf books! He was super happy. Nonfiction books were buy one get one free, and they are already half off, so I bought one and got another free. Both were summer crafting books that I thought would be cool to do, either as a family or by myself. I also threw in a Rachel Carson book as well while I was at it. It was a good little trip out.
And that is about it!
Just throwing in some random photos from the roll!
So that last picture of Wyatt. Wyatt lately, like most kids, has been imitating and wanting to make YouTube videos (we don’t but I told him I would try to think of a way maybe if he really wants to). Wyatt however likes to imitate the booktubers we watch and I think it is so cute. I don’t dare say that to him though, he would die of ten year old embarrassment. He also writes down books, like I do when I watch them, and then he looks books up to read on the internet like I do. I have to say that I am flattered that this is what he is imitating, and also love that it is so book centered. That booktuber in the photo is his favorite, Liv of Liv’s Library. Wyatt and I watch her new video together every Sunday night before reading a book before bed.
And that is it from around here! I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile! I will be trying as well!
Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs.. 