Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Hello everyone! I am writing from my bed this morning, it is so cold and I am not ready to get moving quite yet. I do have a cup of coffee next to me though, thank goodness, that will help with both issues, although it is Friday and Wyatt and I have a lighter day on Fridays.

This past weekend was my birthday! I feel like I have been celebrating all month, with all of the surprises my family and friends have had for me. They have all been so thoughtful and made me feel very special for my 50th.

On Saturday, my dad and stepmom had a party for me out at their house, and it was so chill and relaxed and just what I needed. Good food, lots of cake, family, and laughter. I loved just hanging out with my family, chatting and eating and then I took the kids outside and they were all playing hide and seek, even Wyatt. It was a nice time.

Sunday morning Billy, Wyatt, and I had plans to go to Le Supreme in Detroit, which is a French brasserie. We love their brunch menu and we got all shined up to go (Marsha, I wore my fox dress outfit!) – however, my son decided to gift me a special surprise right as our food arrived, by throwing up right in my lap. I told him I have had better gifts before. We managed to keep things low profile and cleaned up and then packed Wyatt’s food up and went home. Billy and I both had egg based breakfasts and left them behind. The waiter was so nice, and gave me a raincheck for a free creme brulee when we go back. And we are having a redo, and this time I think Wyatt will stay home with a grandparent. Ah, life with a medically complex child. Lol. It is that pesky side effect of his medication – and we never know when it will occur since it is not everyday.

The day after my birthday would have been Billy’s older brother’s birthday, and we remember him every year on that date (well we remember him everyday, but especially the 17th). He passed at 26 from squamous cell cancer of the mouth, and we tell stories about him to Wyatt all the time. About George’s tarantulas, which is one reason I took Carl in, his love of old cars, his carpentry and automotive skills, which is where Billy learned a lot of what he knows, from his older brother. He would have been 53 this year, and probably still been giving Billy a hard time but then bailing him out as well. He was a good big brother. I remember one winter, Billy and I had been watching a movie and it was over about 1 am. Billy went out to his car, and the battery was dead, so he called George. George came over in the bitter cold, and together they jumped Billy’s car, while sitting in George’s. I would check on them occasionally out there, chatting while they waited, and I remember thinking how happy they both looked, despite it being freezing cold, pitch black, and jumping a car. Just two brothers doing brother things. He was one one of the good guys, and we miss him everyday.

On Wednesday my dad came by and kicked me out of the house, telling me to go do something for me. I decided to check out Brooks Books, a local bookstore. I knew they had decorated for Christmas, and I thought it would be nice to take Wyatt there next month for our book and cookie outing. However, it was very nice to go by myself for once. I had so much time to just look at everything, in quiet. I picked up a book while I was there, Cold Clay, the second book in the Shady Hollow series. It was a nice refresh midweek!

And, I also got my items from when I went to the tie dye place with my friends! I had made a pashmina scarf, a tote bag, and socks, which they donate to the unhoused. I really love how both my scarf and tote bag turned out! My scarf makes me think of malachite, and it is so pretty!

And I here I am, looking like an art teacher from a 1990s romcom!

And that is it from around here this week. I hope that whatever you do, you do something that makes you smile!

Springtime in Paris: Paris Blues

Hello everyone!! Welcome to week three of our Paris film journey! Lisa from Boondock Ramblings and I wanted fun and whimsy and beauty this spring, and although an actual trip to Paris in the spring would be better, a film journey will have to do. We are having great fun, and hope you will journey along with us!

However, this week’s movie is not exactly the most lighthearted of our picks, but it was a wonderful movie all the same. I really enjoyed the vibe, ya dig?

This movie stars some big names! Paul Newman, Joanne Woodward, Sidney Poitier, Diahann Carroll, Louis Armstrong! That last one was shocking to me! Louis Armstrong! How cool is that?

The Rotten Tomatoes synopsis of this movie states “Despite being far from home, American jazz musicians Ram Bowen (Paul Newman) and Eddie Cook (Sidney Poitier) are content living and working in Paris. Ram knows it’s the best place for him to develop his musical reputation, and Eddie is far away from the racism that once greeted him on a regular basis. But after meeting and falling in love with American tourists Lillian (Joanne Woodward) and Connie (Diahann Carroll), the pair must decide whether their artistic integrity is worth abandoning.”

The bohemian vibe in this movie was awesome. I think it perfectly encapsulates the jazz scene, the clubs full of people smoking and drinking, the casual relationships, the cocaine use (what!), the commitment to art, and of course, the discussion of racism. It felt very different from so many old movies I have watched, but I loved it.

Paul Newman (Ram) is a trombone player in a jazz band, and he is one of those married to the music this is my life kinda guys. We all knew those guys right? In my day they all played bass guitar, but hey, this was another time. He is living his bliss, playing music nightly with his band, picking up chicks, and definitely not getting wrapped up in long term serious relationships. Sidney Poitier (Eddie) is also living his dream, performing as a musician, and not one that is qualified as a Black Musician. In Paris, he is just a musician. Paris did not have the racism that was/is found in the United States, and this stretches as far back at least as far as the Civil War era, when Black people from the States could even move to Paris and receive an education, become doctors, provided they had the financial means or support to do so. And I am going off on a tangent here so I am going to rein this back in.

So these two hepcats were out here living their dream, and then in waltzes two American women who turn their heads and make them question what it is they really want. Diahann Carroll (Connie) and Joanne Woodward (Lillian) are in Paris for some good times on their two week trip.

At first, Ram hits on Connie, although later, Eddie and Connie fall in love while Lillian and Ram pair up and fall in love as well. I did read that this movie was intended to have Newman and Carroll in a relationship but that the director chickened out.

Ram and Lillian waste no time of her two week trip getting to know each other, with Ram and Lillian sharing a bed the next morning after meeting. Eddie and Connie seem to be always outside, soaking up the walks of Paris, and Eddie even mentions how they like to walk and Paris is a city to be walked. Or something like that.

I did have a giggle at one point, when Eddie and Connie are out. He buys her a huge bouquet of flowers that after what seems like fifty feet she says she can’t carry. Eddie takes them from her and gently lays them on a hill next to the sidewalk, and says they will leave them there with a note saying that lovers can take a flower. But then he and Connie just immediately leave, without writing that note! I chatted Lisa, what the heck! They didn’t leave that note! Eddie and Connie’s relationship seems deeper yet more innocent, with them outside all the time, in gardens and on the streets. I loved when Eddie told Connie that he loved her, it seemed so happy and joyful and yet also held I think a bit of surprise, but I mean Poitier was an amazing actor. I was much more interested in him and his story actually, than Ram and Lillian’s. Despite their love for another though, Eddie did not want to return to America with Connie. Why should he, when in Paris he can be himself, and America is segregated and violent at the time? I didn’t necessarily blame him, although Connie makes some compelling arguments.

While Eddie and Connie are having their affair on the streets of Paris, Ram and Lillian are doing their thing as well. And same, Lillian wants Ram to return to America as well. But he is too freewheeling to consider it, and he his has music to think of. Paris offers so much in building his musical education – can he give that up? And he would be a stepdad too, or at least Lillian has two children so there would be children involved if he went back, even for a trial year. So much to consider and weigh. Where does his heart really lie?

The jazz scenes in this movie were amazing. When I was a teen, this was totally the vibe I wanted to serve, all bohemian and ultra cool. My friends and I would go to this coffeehouse called the Mad Hatter and think we were cool and smoke cigarettes and drink coffee and listen to jazz, which at the time I actually really didn’t like. I didn’t start to like actual jazz until much later in my life. I would totally have been all up in that jazz club (cave? was it a cavern?) had I been in Paris at that time. So I really enjoyed those scenes, especially the scene where Ram and Louis Armstrong have this amazing jam session. Can you imagine jamming with Armstrong?

Ok, so I am going to talk about the end of the movie here so skip this if you don’t want spoilers.

After receiving some bad news about his compostions, Ram decides to leave Paris with Lillian. Eddie is going to go back to America with Connie, although he is not leaving immediately. He and Connie and Lillian are all at the station, waiting for Ram. When Ram arrives though, he has bad news. He is not going. He can’t go. He needs to stay, his music is too important. And Lillian leaves him with a few words, a going away present she says, even though it sounded more like a curse, delivered in the most beautiful broken hearted way. She says that he will never forget her, that no matter where he walks he will see her, and he will always know that no one will be as right for him as she was. Then she turns around and disappears into the train station, that looks so much like a Monet painting that I had to look it up, and Ram is standing there alone, and the soundtrack starts playing jazz music and that is that as he walks away. It was an intense emotional scene, in my opinion, and I thought it was so well done.

If you haven’t seen this, I highly recommend it. You don’t need to be a jazz fan or enthusiast to enjoy it – just a person who loves a good romance, set in one of the most romantic places on earth.

You can find Lisa’s review here!

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Wednesday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Hello everyone!! We have been going hard the last few weeks, and it has caught up with us. Wyatt has a cold – so we are hitting the brakes and slowing way down. We have been doing just small lessons in school this week, and having more free time to just relax and rest up.

I shared last time about Wyatt’s actual birthday, that we celebrated the three of us by bopping around Detroit and hitting a few really cool places. We didn’t do much again until Wednesday, when Mermaid Girl came over for dinner and a makers night. We had hamburgers and Doritos, a Mermaid Girl favorite, and then broke off into groups. I was showing Mermaid Girl how to embroider and chatting with her about different things, while the guys were on the floor making a cup holder for Wyatt’s wheelchair out of leather. This wasn’t a boys and girls thing; I just wanted some one on one time with my niece and it was good for Wyatt to have some one on one with just his dad as well. We worked on our projects for almost an hour, then I got out a chart I have been making for Mermaid Girl. She has been interested in our family tree, so I got it started and then she and I will continue to add to it in the coming weeks. We had a really good time, and loved having her here with us!

The week kept rolling along, way too fast for me. I did squeeze in a girls night though! Chrissy and I spent an a few hours at Kelly’s house, and it was some much needed time with my crew. Kelly has a menagerie of animals as well, cats and toads and frogs. I managed to catch a few in photos while I was there. Her toads are coming out of brumation from the winter and they are so huge!

I also scrambled about making sure I had everything I needed for the party Saturday, along with help from my dad, stepmom, and mother-in-law. Thank goodness for family! We had it at the nature center at a local metropark; now this particular nature center is one Billy and I have been going to for at least twenty years. We are friends with the interpreters and they have known Wyatt since he was born. We had his last big party there right before Covid, and this was sort of a nod to that one, five years later. We had around 40 people there, and it was so awesome to be surrounded with people we love and who love Wyatt, including the interpreters. We had pizza and cupcakes that turned everyone’s mouths blue from the frosting, a presentation by Roni for the kids on different animals in Michigan, and the kids just played and played in the kids area, people took walks nearby on the trails, and there was so much chatting and catching up. Some people hadn’t seen other people at the party since the last one five years ago, and the room just felt full of love and joy to me.

Sunday was bowling! He is hit or miss (lol) with attendance but it is a non-competitive type of thing and it is ok if they don’t go every Sunday. Which is good for us, because we missed on his birthday and we will miss next Sunday for the Hurricane’s birthday. Wyatt had a really good time this last Sunday, although, halfway through he asked if we could leave and go shopping. I swear, this kid! It’s only an hour of bowling so it’s not like it’s too long. Afterwards though, we realized we could go to Ikea for lunch since we were five minutes away – and Wyatt could get his shopping fix in. We had lunch (those meatballs are so good!) and then shopped the main shopping floor and skipped the whole showroom floor. We didn’t buy much, since we hadn’t planned on shopping. We got some chocolate, some small plastic organizing bins that I use for our homeschool and art supplies, a medium sized pot since we ruined one of ours boiling wood for our fish (don’t ask), chocolate of course, and a new bath mat for my mom’s bathroom. I also bought two new plants, since they were $2.99 and 20% off! One of them landed in Luna’s tank vivarium, and another is in our all purpose room.

And then, Wyatt woke up Monday all congested. And now he is in the congested and coughing stage. He is acting normally and eating and drinking so I am hoping this is just a short lived little cold thing. But we have been laying low, and I have been catching up on things here.

I’ve been reading a lot on the interwebs this past week, and I read that Scotland has designed a new tartan to honor the women killed under the Witchcraft Act between 1536 and 1763. Every single bit of this tartan has been thought about carefully and meaningfully, from the thread color to the thread count. I love that this is how Scotland chose to remember and memorialize these women, it is such a living remembrance, organic and fluid and easily accessible. This project was the idea of two women,  “Claire Mitchell and Zoe Venditozzi, who founded the Witches of Scotland campaign in 2020.” I just thought this was such an amazing memorial for these women, and wanted to share, especially during Women’s History Month.

And I think that is it from me for today! Whatever you do today, try to do something that makes you smile my friends!

Wednesday Morning Coffee Catch Up: Birthday Boy

Hello everyone! It is a sunshiney morning here today, although we do have some severe weather on the radar for tonight. We are also having Mermaid Girl over tonight! She is coming for dinner and then we are going to hang out – I am going to teach her embroidery. I think she is going to come over once a week for dinner, we have missed her! We will also work on our family tree some too, per her request. I am looking forward to it.

So the big thing around here lately has been Wyatt’s birthday! Double digits for this kid! It is so hard to believe sometimes – time has flown. I feel like it was yesterday he was born. I am planning to share our story about his birth this month. It just feels time, and maybe it will help someone who stumbles on my blog. March is also cerebral palsy awareness month, so it is all sort of fits.

Anyway, Wyatt turned ten Sunday! We had a celebration the three of us, and he is having a big party this weekend. We haven’t done a big party in years but we felt like we needed to this year, for many reasons. I am all nervous about it but it will be ok. However, Sunday was a blast! We had a slow morning, Wyatt opened a few little gifts (he is my kid – his favorite was the scented markers), and then around noonish we rolled out. We had a big day planned! We had originally planned to go to the zoo, but the temps stayed solidly in the teens, so we pivoted.

First stop, the Detroit Dye House! This is a tie dye place in Detroit, and my friend Kelly goes here all the time and has told me over and over to take Wyatt. Well, we did on Sunday. We did the drop in sessions, instead of a class, and it was so fun. The woman working was sweet and nice too – she explained what we needed to do, made sure the tub was low enough for Wyatt, and then it was time to begin!

That place was really cool. I want to go back and make something myself! They have a lot of different things to make, from tshirts to scarves to wraps to headbands. If you take a class, then you also make a pair of socks, that the Dye House provides, and then they donate the socks to the unhoused population in Detroit. They are having a peace sign design class in April that I want to go to. I want a headband and I don’t know what else.

Wyatt had a great time doing this, and so did Billy and I. He chose a spiral design because it reminded him of a snail. Of course.

After we finished here and had our saturated and wet shirt safely stowed in a special bag to take home with us, we headed to our next stop. We were all a little peckish so we stopped in at Mexicantown Bakery to choose a little something. Billy and I each got a ham and cheese empanada, Wyatt chose an M&M cookie, and then we picked up a few extras for the next day while we were at it. That big gigundo cookie tasted like a churro and was delicious! We ate it over the last few days.

We had reservations for an early dinner but we still had a few hours before it was time to go there, so we went to an old favorite – Belle Isle. And we hit all the attractions! They are all free to the public, so we just made our way around the island stopping at them all. It was a really fun way to spend those few hours!

We explored the Conservatory, which has recently reopened after being updated and restored, the Aquarium (the oldest one in the United States!). It was so refreshing to see all the green plants, and even the citrus trees with their oranges and lemons. It was jam packed in the conservatory since it recently reopened, and everyone is flocking there so we sort of were in the shuffle along and look mode with everyone there. but it was still nice. The aquarium was busy but not as full so that was a little better. They had a scavenger hunt for kids and at the end Wyatt got to pick a sticker. He chose an otter and then wanted me to wear it so I did.

After we visited these two, we went through the recently redone Nature Center. They have been doing a lot of work on the island and it shows. The nature center looks really cool! I actually didn’t get any pictures here, we were just busy looking around and playing with the exhibits.

By the time we left here, it was time to go to our reservation at JoJo’s Shake Bar, near Comerica. I was super excited about this place. It looked like it was going to be an awesome place for a kid, full of music and big giant shakes! I was so glad that we had made reservations, even at such an early time (4:00) because it was PACKED! Like literally parents and kids and strollers everywhere, out the door, inside… it was a bit overwhelming for me, who gets a bit of sensory overload! However, I knew that Wyatt was going to love it. And he did! Everything there was huge – the sandwiches, the shakes, the drinks – it was crazy. It is a bit pricey, but since everything was giant and we knew that we were all splitting a giant shake for dessert, Billy and I split a sandwich and Wyatt got a grilled cheese and fries. Billy and I split the Clevelander and it was freaking awesome! We also sort of shared an adult beverage. It was mostly mine though as he was driving. I saw it on the menu and I had to order it, out of nostalgia for the name. The Blueberry “Gin and Juice.” This place is crazy y’all. It is kid friendly but also, has drinks. It was also huge so I was nervous to drink it all, so I only drank about half, with Billy taking a few sips. It was delicious.

Then the grand finale! The shake, the whole reason I chose JoJo’s. Wyatt chose the Birthday shake, of course. This thing had a huge full size cookie, a giant cake ball, and cotton candy, in addition to cotton candy (he was not a fan). Even with the three of us sharing it (Billy again only having a bite or two) we couldn’t complete it, and we took the cookie and cake ball home, minus a few bites from Wyatt. It was fantastic though.

After this totally hedonistic type meal, we finally headed home. And we were all ready for it. We were exhausted by the time we rolled through the door! We all sort of found our little places in the den and decompressed. Wyatt was quietly drawing with his new markers, and Billy and I vegged on our phones. It was a very full, very fun day, in celebration of our little guy – who I guess is now a bit bigger guy.

And that is part one of Wyatt’s birthday story this week! Saturday is his party. Wish me luck!! Oh, I forgot to share a picture of his finished shirt! I think it looks really cool!

Whatever you do today, try to do something that makes you smile my friends!

Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Hello everyone! This morning is rainy but we had the most glorious sunrise, the most amazing shades of pink and orange. It was spectacular. So is my coffee, which is Seattle’s Best Henry’s Blend this morning. I think it is my current favorite.

I feel like today is a big exhale, like I have been holding my breath for weeks making it through all of the various plans and appointments we have had. Nothing that should have been stressful, just low key busy.

Where should I start? It’s been a minute since I wrote one of these. I will start with my own good news! I have had high blood pressure since I was 24; my dad and brother since they were 13. We just have some weird genetics. Anyway, ever since I spent a month in the hospital with pre-eclampsia when I was pregnant with Wyatt, I have been extremely anxious about having my bp taken, which when you already have a history of high blood pressure is not super helpful. It’s controlled at home, but usually in the office is ridiculous. I have to take a blood pressure log and everything with me to appointments. Well, this week my blood pressure in the office was 123/85! I think my anti-anxiety medication is working! My doctor was extremely happy as was I. My log from home reflected these have been my readings at home too, that or lower, but to have it in the office was another thing altogether. So that was my little success this week!

Ok, moving on to more fun things!

We had our scout meeting the other week and we had a blast. We are exchanging nature boxes with another pack in Oregon, who live in the desert area of Oregon, so it will be really cool to see what we receive. Our scouts spent the meeting making pages of leaves stuck with contact paper and labeled. They loved it, and they also loved the leaf rubbing station we had set up as well. It was some of the kids first time doing a leaf rubbing and they thought it was magical, which was cute. The parents enjoyed it too, actually, with one of the dads making quite a few himself. I was happy to see the plans all coming together and everyone having fun.

Wyatt and I also had a fun day out the other week! We went to see the Wild Kratt’s Live Action Show in Ann Arbor, and it was pretty neat. It was Wyatt’s first show like that and he loved the being able to yell and cheer and interact with the rest of the audience and Chris and Martin. My only complaint about the whole day was the theater’s interpretation of wheelchair seating. I bought wheelchair seats and it literally was a regular seat where the arm raised up, and then Wyatt’s wheelchair, his only way to move around, was moved into the hall. We were also the last seat in the last row of the theater but that wasn’t terrible on its own, I guess just the idea of that is how they prioritize disabilities. What if there had been an emergency situation? What if I had not been able to transfer him on my own? It just felt extremely low effort on the part of the theater for accommodations for the disabled community. However, all that aside, Wyatt did have a good time and I did as well. It was nice just to have that moment and first with him.

This week we also went to the orchard and pumpkin patch! I look forward to this trip all autumn! We picked our pumpkins out and drank some hard cider (well not Wyatt), bought some apples for baking a pie and some honey, and just in general had a great time. They didn’t have doughnuts the day we went but that is ok, I think this weekend we will take a little drive to the Halloween bakery, although I haven’t told Billy and Wyatt that yet, it will be a surprise. After our pumpkin hunting, we took a walk on Grosse Ile, foraging for things to put in the scout nature box.

This month has been so full. Full of fun and family moments, watching the football game with my dad and stepmom eating our bowls of fancy ramen, a nice long massage, reading with Wyatt, sitting out on the deck for the ramp in the sun with Billy and Wyatt and Devin and my nieces. Stitching in bed while watching tv at night, our comfy cozy cinema nights, just all those little things that make up most of our days. It is apt maybe that this month is so full feeling, in tune with the season of harvest. A long time ago, when people still lived mostly off the land, this time of year would be their richest in food, as they laid up their food for the winter. We are reading about this right now in Wyatt’s read for history, The Birchbark House. I do like that the mom thought about those times they would need a little something extra too though.

I too often need a little sweetness to remain strong in spirit.

And now, some extra photos from the camera!

Books and Tom Petty Songs

Tom Petty songs and characters from classic literature may not seem to go together… and maybe they don’t. Lol. But I was inspired to write this post the other day when Marsha from Marsha in the Middle visited my blog on Top Ten Tuesday expecting to see a post about Tom Petty (and it wasn’t). And I thought, hmm. Could I make a bookish Tom Petty post? Well, I was going to try! These may not be perfect but this was definitely a lot of fun. My cousin Brian and Billy both helped me with this, and they also thought it was fun! I hope that you do as well.

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First up, my favorite character from my favorite classic book. (Well, other than Anne Shirley and Anne of Green Gables..)

Jane Eyre and Learning to Fly

And now Anne….

Anne Shirley and Wildflowers

And of course we can’t forget the famous Jane Austen heroine, Elizabeth Bennett…

Elizabeth Bennett from Pride and Prejudice and I Won’t Back Down

Now, Billy thinks we need to add some male characters to this lineup. This next one is his suggestion and song choice! For this “album cover” I have used an image from an audiobook, since Billy is a huge audiobook listener.

John Willoughby from Sense and Sensibility and Free Falling

And now one we all know and love, Jo March.

Jo March from Little Women and American Girl

We need another guy up on stage – let’s call Atticus Finch on up! His character is such a favorite of mine that Atticus is actually Wyatt’s middle name! (one of them – he has two..)

Atticus Finch from To Kill a Mockingbird and The Last DJ

And, you know what, let’s add Mr. Darcy too but let’s give him his own album cover at least.

Mr. Darcy from Pride and Prejudice and You Don’t Know How It Feels

I would love to hear any suggestions or your comments or any character and song pairings that you can think of! And actually, I am going to make a public Spotify playlist and I will add all songs that are suggested here for a character to it! Don’t worry about a classic book character pairing – I will accept any and all character and song/artist suggestions! I am excited now to see what you all say!