Comfy Cozy Cinema: Fisherman’s Friends

Hello all! Lisa from Boondock Ramblings and I love to buddy watch movies together – even though I am in Michigan and she is in Pennsylvania! We don’t literally watch together in a watch party, although that might be fun one time! We wanted our fall list to feel fall cozy, move into some more chilling movies, than turn cozy again for November.

What a “note” to end on! I loved this movie the first time we watched it, and I loved it just as much this time around. I am not a boat person, despite being from the Great Lakes State, but I am drawn to stories of the sea and water nonetheless. My mother’s family were all shipbuilders, in Michigan and back in England, so maybe some of that is just in my blood. I also once had a palm reader in New Orleans tell me that I was once a ship captain who went down with his ship, so there is that fun little story as well. Anyway, I like a sea shanty and a good fisherman story, and Wyatt does as well. He watched this with us for the most part last night and really enjoyed all the singing parts.

Anyway, I am getting way off course here. Our movie feature this week was Fisherman’s Friends. Find Lisa’s post here!

This movie is based on a true story, about a group of fisherman from Cornwall who were signed by Universal Records for their folk singing abilities. Who would have thought that in this day and age that such a folksy, working class type group could achieve top ten status? But they did. I think it just shows how people do appreciate and crave community and joy and just real people doing real things. Not everything has to be manufactured and aesthetic. Although, this look is pretty aesthetic among some people. I mean who doesn’t love the idea of sitting by the sea in a thick fisherman’s sweater, enjoying some soup and a pint? My own husband asks the barber for “more sea captain, less lumberjack” when he goes to the barber for a beard trim, so apparently he is into that look himself!

Samuel Goldwyn Films summarizes this movie as:

A fast living, cynical London music executive (Daniel Mays) heads to a remote Cornish village on a stag weekend where he’s pranked by his boss (Noel Clarke) into trying to sign a group of shanty singing fishermen (led by James Purefoy). He becomes the ultimate “fish out of water” as he struggles to gain the respect or enthusiasm of the unlikely boy band and their families (including Tuppence Middleton) who value friendship and community over fame and fortune. As he’s drawn deeper into the traditional way of life he’s forced to reevaluate his own integrity and ultimately question what success really means.

I think a lot of the movie is yes, Danny’s transformation and growth, from a “Peter Pan” type of adult man child still trying to hold onto his youth, into one that is responsible and knows what real work looks like. Not that people who work in offices or as executives or whatever don’t do work, my own husband is an office worker and he works HARD, but for the purposes of this movie, work for Danny is all just fun and games, all about making money and making a profit and finding the next big group. When he meets the fisherman in Cornwall however, he sees what family is like, loyal men who risk their lives for their jobs and their families, a sense of community that pulls together and cares about one another. Life has its fun moments, but it is not just all a big lark.

Jim (played by James Purefoy) and his family are the central moving forces in this movie. Jim is the most salty of the crew, and he works with his father Jacob, and his mother works at the local pub, which is a beloved spot in their little port town. His daughter Alwyn (played by Tuppence Middleton, no relation to Kate because I looked it up) and her daughter Tamsin live with Jim and run a Bed and Breakfast.

The heart of this movie, borrowing from a line said by Alwyn about the town, are the people. The stories, the community, the friendships. The shared history. The singing of sea shanties is just one way that share joy and sorrow. Music conveys so much emotion for all occasions, doesn’t it? These songs also are part of their history, of all fisherman who have gone before them, some are silly, some are sad.

When I was a little girl, my parents played the Irish Rovers on our record player weekly, probably daily. My mom would pick me up and spin me around and around the floor as she danced, singing along with the songs of the Rovers. I knew the words to Drunken Sailor and The Unicorn and all of those good old songs by the time I was four, and my very earliest memories, those blurry ones that don’t seem real that happen before you are even 2 or 3, include some of these songs and moments. Songs transport you through time and space, and as Alwyn says in this movie, people want to hear Fisherman’s Friends sing their shanties not for the high notes, but to be transported to the high seas.

I can just imagine living somewhere where the waves break against the land, where the wind blows salt in your eyes and face, rocky beaches where you can have a fire and a cup of tea and maybe some stew made from what is gathered from the sea. That is where we are transported when we hear these songs; or maybe a pub, filled with laughter and camraderie.

There are so many scenes in the pub, singing and laughing and just so joyful. I already shared an early memory; here is one of my happiest. When Billy and I were younger and not yet parents, we took a trip to Shenandoah with my brother and sister-in-law, and would spend the nights in the pub at Big Meadows. And it was just like the scenes in the movie. A folk singer was on stage, leading the crowd in singing those songs we all know by heart. By the time we were ready to leave, the night was pitch black and being on the top of a mountain, we would walk out and the sky was filled with stars, and there was a slight fog creeping up, and it was just one of those perfect moments in time.

Anyway, this movie review turned into more of a post about me and my memories. I think though, that that is the type of movie this is. We think of our own friends, our own communities, and music and how it moves through us, taking us places. It moves us, and it reminds us.

This week I will leave you with a few songs. One by the actual Fisherman’s Friends, another I just love.

And stay tuned!!! Comfy Cozy Christmas is coming up on both of our blogs! We are going to post one giant linky for anyone who wants to post anything about the holidays – not just Christmas, we are inclusive of all, but we just are nerdy little alliteration lovers, so Comfy Cozy Christmas it is. It can be anything from baking to decorating to movies to just anything holiday related. So look for that coming soon! I have a special page just for this, just keep watching that space as we get closer to December! Lisa and I plan on buddy watching a movie or two, and then soloing it the rest of the month!

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These are a few of my favorite things..this year

Bryan over at Still an Unfinished Person has been sharing a few favorite posts this month as part of an annual blog event, and I have been enjoying reading about his look back. I have also been inspired to share a few favorites of my own! It’s been a year, that’s been pretty rough all over, but I think it did my soul and spirit good to think about those things that did make me smile this year. I usually always do a separate favorite reads of the year post, but I will do that closer to the New Year.

Good Moments that Happened:

Pre-pandemic, right before everything started going south, we went on a family trip to the west side of the state for Wyatt’s birthday. It feels like a lifetime ago! But we had a lot of fun on that trip, and I am glad we got to have it before we went into lockdown. And right after we celebrated Wyatt’s fifth birthday with almost all of our family and friends, literally a few days before Michigan blew up. I am so grateful for the time now, seeing those faces all in one place like that.

Yet after everything, we still managed to have some good times. Simple ones, like our lazy picnics in the park, socially distanced social hours in yards during the summer, and our own owl prowl. Our Wild Hunt was definitely a highlight for us, the Halloween Party my brother and sister-in-law managed to throw for our kids safely, our cider tasting bonfire. And of course our family field trip to the pumpkin patch, the apple picking day with my SIL and niece, as well as the trips Billy and I and Wyatt took to the chestnut farm and peach picking. These memories make this year seem not entirely without some good times.

Favorite movies that we watched:

We started a movie night on Friday nights around here, which was something new for us. We get our snacks (Haribo Cherries for me, Bridge Mix for Billy), and pick a movie to watch, usually with Wyatt sleeping right between us. I had some definite favorites! The Biggest Little Farm, This Beautiful Fantastic, Knives Out, Once Upon a Time in Hollywood, Fisherman’s Friends, and finally Blow the Man Down, which was recommended by Greg at Book Haven.

Favorite Homeschooling Units That We Have Studied:

I have really enjoyed this year of learning with Wyatt. I always wanted to homeschool, and while I didn’t want a pandemic to force me into it, we have been enjoying this time. We always do a supplemental study with our curriculum and I love choosing them, sometimes with him, sometimes on my own. Our favorites this year have been: Snails, Bees, Bears, Owls, and Pine Trees and Porcupines for living creatures; for places, France and the Great Smoky Mountains; and finally, the unit we are currently doing, the Winter Hygge bundle. (more on that tomorrow!)

And finally, our favorite purchases. Because if there is one thing I have done this year at home, it is shop a bit more than normal – all online with the exception of one…

Favorite Purchases:

Harry!! Of course, Harry. she is our favorite new addition to our home this year, hands down. Who knew I would love my little leopard gecko so much? So much, that I think I want to add another to our family. Maybe after Christmas, we will see.

I have to mention our blankets that we bought for picnics, we used them so much. This was the year of the picnic for sure. We would pack up some things, head to our shady tree spot in the park, and camp out for a bit with snacks and drawing materials. So relaxed and lazy. Wyatt is obsessed with picnics now – I am trying to work out a winter version. Speaking of drawing materials, I splurged on art supplies and am so glad that I did that as well.

What kinds of favorites do you have from this year?