Top Ten Tuesday – Michigan Authors

Top Ten Tuesday is hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

This week’s prompt: Authors (or books by authors) Who Live In My State/Country 

I chose to go with authors from my home state of Michigan, or who lived in Michigan for a part of their lives. I apologize in advance for the length of this post!

Angeline Boulley: Angeline Boulley, an enrolled member of the Sault Ste. Marie Tribe of Chippewa Indians, is a storyteller who writes about her Ojibwe community in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. She is a former Director of the Office of Indian Education at the U.S. Department of Education. Her debut novel Firekeeper’s Daughter was an instant #1New York Times bestseller and recipient of many internatioanl accolades including the ALA Printz and Morris Awards; the YA Goodreads Choice Award; the Walter Award for Outstanding Children’s Literature; and is Carnegie Mellon nominated. Angeline lives in southwest Michigan, but her home will always be on Sugar Island.” (from Macmillan Publishers)

I have loved both Fire Keepers Daughter and Warrior Girl Unearthed. I can’t wait to read her new one, Sisters in the Wind, that comes out in September. So far both books have been set in Michigan, in the area that Boulley is originally from.

Beth Nguyen: “Beth Nguyen is the author of four books, most recently the memoir Owner of a Lonely Heart, published by Scribner. Owner of a Lonely Heart was a New York Times Editors’ Choice pick and was named a best book of 2023 by NPR, Time, Oprah Daily, and BookPage. Nguyen’s three previous books, the memoir Stealing Buddha’s Dinner and the novels Short Girls and Pioneer Girl, were published by Viking Penguin. Her awards and honors include a Guggenheim Fellowship, an American Book Award, a PEN/Jerard Award, a Bread Loaf fellowship, and best book of the year honors from the Chicago Tribune and Library Journal. Her books have been included in community and university read programs around the country. Nguyen’s work has also appeared in numerous anthologies and publications including The New Yorker, The Paris Review, The New York Times, Literary Hub, Time Magazine, and The Best American Essays.

Nguyen was born in Saigon. When she was a baby, she and her family came to the United States as refugees and were resettled in Michigan, where Nguyen grew up.

She received an MFA in creative writing from the University of Michigan and is currently a professor in the creative writing program at the University of Wisconsin–Madison.” (From https://www.bethminhnguyen.com/bio)

I read Stealing Buddha’s Dinner for book club years and years ago it feels like, and I found it a very interesting read! It is a memoir and takes place in Grand Rapids, MI.

Jeffrey Eugenides: “Jeffrey Eugenides was born in Detroit and attended Brown and Stanford Universities. His first novel, The Virgin Suicides, was published by FSG to great acclaim in 1993, and he has received numerous awards for his work. In 2003, he received the Pulitzer Prize for his novel Middlesex (FSG, 2002), which was also a finalist for the National Book Critics Circle Award, the International IMPAC Dublin Literary Award, and France’s Prix Médicis. The Marriage Plot (FSG, 2011) was a finalist for the National Book Critics Circle Award, and won both the Prix Fitzgerald and the Madame Figaro Literary Prize. His collection of short stories, Fresh Complaint, is from FSG (2017). Eugenides is a professor of creative writing in the Lewis Center for the Arts at Princeton.” (From Macmillan Publishers)

I have read this book and watched this movie so many times, and it never fails to make me cry. What an absolutely heartbreaking story. I have not read any of his other work, although I feel like I should.

Christopher Paul Curtis: “Christopher Paul Curtis won the Newbery Medal and the Coretta Scott King Award for his bestselling second novel, Bud, Not Buddy. His first novel, The Watsons Go to Birmingham–1963, was also singled out for many awards, and has been a bestseller in hardcover and paperback. His most recent novels for Random House include The Mighty Miss Malone, Mr. Chickee’s Messy Mission, Mr. Chickee’s Funny Money, and Bucking the Sarge.
Christopher Paul Curtis grew up in Flint, Michigan. After high school he began working on the assembly line at the Fisher Body Plant No. 1 while attending the Flint branch of the University of Michigan. He is now a full-time writer, and lives with his family in Windsor, Ontario.” (From Random House)

I have this book on Wyatt’s list for next year!

Anissa Gray: “Anissa Gray was born and raised in western Michigan. She is the author of the critically acclaimed 2019 novel The Care and Feeding of Ravenously Hungry Girls. Gray is also a journalist whose work has been featured in The Washington PostCNNThe Cut and Shondaland. She lives in Atlanta, Georgia with her wife.” (From https://anissagray.com/about)

I have had this book on my TBR for a while now. I didn’t know she was a Michigan native!

Joyce Carol Oates: Oates moved to Detroit in 1962 with her husband, Raymond Smith. The two were English Professors at two universities in Detroit. Oates worked for U-D Mercy, while Smith worked for Wayne State. At this point in her life, she had not yet published a novel. Her time in Detroit is said to be very influential on her work, as she took in the city as it was then. She was here during the riots in 1967, a time that has not been forgotten for anyone who was around then. My mom remembers the curfews, Billy’s dad was living in the city as well and remembers the violence of that time. She eventually moved across the river to Windsor, where she wrote the book, Them. The Detroit Free Press says about this book, ‘In her first months in Canada, Oates finished her novel “them,” in which Detroit is a character, just like human characters, scuffling, hurting, prone to violence. “All of Detroit is melodrama, and most lives in Detroit fated to be melodramatic,” the narrator says.” (Detroit Free Press)

I have not yet read this book. I went through a time where I binged Joyce Carol Oates and I am pretty sure it plunged me into almost a depression of sorts. It was all just so heavy and violent and tragic and sad, and I have not gone back to that well. She is an amazing writer – I just don’t recommend binging her work all at once!

Chris Van Allsburg: From his bio on Penguin: “As long as I can remember, I’ve always loved to draw. But my interest in drawing wasn’t encouraged very much. Growing up in the 1950s, in Grand Rapids, Michigan, boys were supposed to be athletic. Certain peer pressures encouraged little fingers to learn how to hold footballs rather than crayons.

My early love for drawing developed into a love for telling stories through pictures. Stories begin as fragments of pictures in my mind. I create a story by posing questions to myself. I call it the “what if” and “what then” approach. For example, for my book Jumanji, I started out by thinking “What if two bored children discovered a board game? What if the board game came to life? What then?” The Polar Express began with the idea of a train standing alone in the woods. I asked myself, “What if a boy gets on that train? Where does he go?” After the boy got on, I tried different destinations out in my mind. “What about north? Who lives in the north?” Then ideas of Christmas, Santa Claus, and faith began to take shape.”

He has many books, but Jumanji is my favorite.

Elmore Leonard: “Author Elmore Leonard was born in New Orleans, Louisiana in 1925. His family moved frequently until 1934 when they settled in Detroit, Michigan, when his father got a job with General Motors. Leonard joined the navy after graduating high school in 1943, and served during World War II. After three years, he left the navy and enrolled at the University of Detroit, majoring in English and Philosophy. Leonard worked at the Campbell-Ewald advertising agency while still in college.

Around 1950, Leonard began writing and publishing short stories and western novels for magazines, with the first being The Bounty Hunters in 1953. Some of the other most notable works were Three-Ten to Yuma also published in 1953, as well as Hombre, in 1961. Leonard then moved into educational films and crime novels. His first big crime novel was The Big Bounce in 1969; He followed that novel with titles such as Fifty-Two Pickup in 1974, and Swag in 1976. His breakout novel however, was his crime thriller Glitz, in 1985, which followed a Miami detective being stalked by a criminal he had sent to prison. Leonard based most of his novels in Detroit and Florida, and was known for his working-class protagonists, damsels in distress, and particularly colorful and sleazy villains.

Leonard and his novels have been nominated for numerous awards, such the PEN Lifetime Achievement Award. One of his short stories, Fire in the Hole, became the basis for the television series Justified. Some of his other short stories and novels such as Rum Punch and Three-Ten to Yuma have been made into films. Rum Punch was adapted into the Quentin Tarantino’s Jackie Brown.

Other well-known works by Elmore Leonard include: City PrimevalStickFreaky Deaky, and Get Shorty. Elmore Leonard passed away on August 20, 2013, following a stroke.” (From the Detroit Historical Society website)

Leonard is an author I have never read, but my dad enjoys reading him so I wanted to include him for sure!

Jim Harrison: “Jim Harrison was born in Grayling, Michigan, to Winfield Sprague Harrison, a county agricultural agent, and Norma Olivia (Wahlgren) Harrison, both avid readers. He married Linda King in 1959 with whom he has two daughters.

His awards include National Academy of Arts grants (1967, 68, 69), a Guggenheim Fellowship (1969-70), the Spirit of the West Award from the Mountain & Plains Booksellers Association, and election to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences (2007).

Much of Harrison’s writing depicts sparsely populated regions of North America with many stories set in places such as Nebraska’s Sand Hills, Michigan’s Upper Peninsula, Montana’s mountains, and along the Arizona-Mexico border.” (Goodreads Summary)

He has been on my TBR for ages. Maybe this is the year to read him.

Ok this last one… I debated on and then decided to just do it.

Ernest Hemingway: “Ernest Hemingway’s connections to Michigan began when his parents first brought their six-week-old son there for three days in September 1899. His father, a young physician, practiced medicine in his hometown of Oak Park, Illinois, and his mother was an artistically inclined woman who enjoyed the cultural aspects of their Chicago suburb. The previous summer the Hemingways visited Walloon Lake (then named Bear Lake) and were so taken with the area that they purchased two hundred feet of waterfront property. The 1899 trip was to finalize plans for the building of their cottage, Windemere. They took pictures, selected the exact site on the property where it was to be located, and arranged for construction during their brief stay. The next summer would be the first full one there for the family, and Ernest would return to Michigan each year until he was married in 1921. Even today members of the Hemingway family either summer or live year-round in the area.”

Hemingway is not a favorite of mine, but I do think it is cool that he visited Northern Michigan for so many summers, just like I have. He has a few books set there, including The Big Two-Hearted River (and just an FYI, there is also a Michigan craft beer named Two-Hearted as well). I think it is neat that I have walked in and vacationed in some of the same places Hemingway did, and found peace in.

And my friends, that is my very long post of Michigan authors! I can’t wait to hop around visiting this week – because it will take me all week probably to visit everyone!

My Sunday-Monday Post

My Sunday Post is hosted by Kimba the Caffeinated Book Reviewer

Sunday Salon is hosted by Deb at Readerbuzz

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Hello everyone! Our week was pretty good. We had some ups and downs but overall, pretty good. Wyatt and I had a nice routine week, we had some fun moments, we refreshed some of our fish tanks, we saw some cousins – those were all good. I had some news about my mom that was not so great, and is causing me some anxiety, but I am hoping and praying for a solution.

What I am Reading:

I didn’t finish anything last week, but I did start reading two books. Then Friday the book I was waiting for came in, so I am going to start that one too. So I guess I am reading a few books this week.

I hope to finish A Prayer for the Crown Shy today at some point. I am also enjoying Budde’s book How We Learn to Be Brave.

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Top Ten Tuesday: Books Featuring the word “Night” in the Title

Springtime in Paris: The Intouchables

Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

What We Are Watching:

We have been pretty much collapsing into bed after full days over here, so not much television has been happening. We did watch The Brokenwood Mysteries, Beyond Paradise, and The Wheel of Time.

In addition we have been watching our Springtime in Paris movies! Last week was The Intouchables, which was such a feel good movie. If you need a pick me up, watch this one.

This week we will watch our final movie in our six week Springtime in Paris journey. I will be sad to say goodbye! It was such a fun little movie watching challenge. We are ending things with Charade with Audrey Hepburn and Cary Grant, and I am very excited to watch it.

Online Things Happening:

While we are wrapping up Springtime in Paris, Lisa from Boondock Ramblings and I are still hosting our Drop In Crafternoons once a month. Lisa and I have been hosting crafternoons for fellow bloggers on Zoom since January, and it has been so fun. It is nice to meet the person behind the blog, hear their voices, and share more stories – all while we work on whatever craft we choose! There is no right or wrong activity, you don’t even need to craft if you don’t want to. Just hang out, that is fine too!

I have also started adding downloadable, printable children’s birthday invitations to my Etsy store, Fox and Firth. I have been trying to create three a day and adding them, so keep checking back as the inventory is constantly growing!

And that is about it from me today! I hope that you are all are feeling happy and loved, and do something today that makes you smile!

Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Hello everyone!! I hope you are having a good week. We have had a mostly relaxing week, which has been refreshing after the two months of crazy we went through. Next week we have a bunch of appointments again, but this week was a nice reprieve.

A week ago Friday we had Wyatt’s preop appointment. This is the first time we have had a planned surgery with Wyatt and it feels so different. All of his previous surgeries have been emergency and I didn’t have time to think about them. They just sort of happened while I was in a state of shock. This one I have months to perseverate on it – however that also gives me time to prepare everything. I had a lot of questions, about bathing and recovery time and the length of the surgery (3 hours) and just all sorts of things. I think the surgeon was slightly amused at my notebook of questions and comments, and at one point I mentioned something about Wyatt, and my dramatic son who likes to troll me, was acting out what I asked about. The doctor had a chuckle and looked at me smiling and said “Your son is messing with you,” and I was like, yeah, I know he does that all the time. Because Wyatt does like to mess me with me, the turkey. When the doctor walked out at the end of the appointment he ruffled Wyatt’s hair and said “Don’t give your mom too much trouble.” It made me feel better in a way – he seems very stoic and quiet, the surgeon, but he picked up on Wyatt’s personality very quickly. It was reassuring, to have Wyatt be seen like that.

Afterwards we treated ourselves to a trip to a French-Asian bakery in Ann Arbor. If you are ever in the area, you must visit. It was the best pick-me-up to follow that appointment. We went to Tous les Jours, which is near Jackson Road, and Schuler’s Books, if you want to combine a visit to a fantastic bakery and a bookstore. Just saying. Anyway, my brother Devin, SIL Chrissy, and the girls (Mermaid and Hurricane) went out there few weeks ago and told us that we needed to go. When I saw that it was a hop skip and a jump from the hospital, I was like perfect.

There was so much to choose from! It is definitely a place where you want one of everything. When you walk in, it is a nice spacious room with tables on one side, and baked goods on the other. Some of it is self-serve, and some of the treats are in bakery cases at the front, things like the macarons and cakes. We started with the self-serve, obviously, and may have gone a little crazy. They just had so many options! Chestnut bread, strawberry croissants, ube cream donuts, taro cream bread, apple caramel pie, different warm croissants like ham and cheese or garlic and cheese – literally too many things to name. We chose to buy a variety and share them among the three of us, each of us picking out things out. Wyatt picked a chocolate cream filled donut, and accidentally touched a shrimp kimchi cake in the process so we got that too, I picked a caramel apple pie pastry, Billy wanted the ham and cheese croissant based on Devin’s recommendation. Then we also added a milk cream red bean bread, cranberry cream cheese bread (these are like little buns), a blueberry bun, and two macarons, a pistachio flavored one for Wyatt and lemon for Billy.

We all had our special pick in the car on the way home since we had gone to the office super early and needed to eat still. Billy and I loved ours; Wyatt did not like his at all. It was very fluffy airy chocolate and it exploded all over him when he bit into it and he hated that. The only thing he actually liked was his macaron. I think he was wary of the other pastries after his chocolate experience. We also tried the cranberry cream cheese bread thinking Wyatt might like that; he didn’t, but I think under different circumstances he would. Billy and I loved that too. Big surprise. Lol. Billy said though that the best thing was the shrimp kimchi cake that we bought because Wyatt accidentally touched it, so that turned out to be a good thing!

Then, on Sunday, we had my mom, Devin, Chrissy, and the girls over to celebrate my mother’s birthday. It was a nice time – my mom just gets such a kick out of the kids. It was good to see her smile and laugh. She has gotten very frail everyone, and I hate it. It’s hard to watch your parents age. Just why did it seem to happen so fast and all of a sudden? It was nice having her here though, and the kids had a lot of fun playing. Hurricane had me running all over the house. She will come up and very seriously take your hand and lead you off somewhere to play. For some reason she was intrigued by my bedroom that night. I guess there is a lot to see in there. It’s sort of messy.

And then, gloriously, Wyatt and I had a slow week. We will be running again next week, but this week was nice and slow, and we needed that.

Here are just some random pics from our week!

And that is it from me today! I hope that whatever you do today, you something that makes you smile!

Springtime in Paris: The Intouchables

Hello everyone!! Welcome to week five of our Paris film journey! Lisa from Boondock Ramblings and I wanted fun and whimsy and beauty this spring, and although an actual trip to Paris in the spring would be better, a film journey will have to do. We are having great fun, and hope you will journey along with us!

This week, we watched The Intouchables!

First, a quick summary of the movie from Rotten Tomatoes: “After he becomes a quadriplegic from a paragliding accident, an aristocrat hires a young man from the projects to be his caretaker, and an unlikely friendship forms.”

I was hesitant about watching this movie for many reasons. I was afraid of it being “disability inspiration porn”, for one. In case you have never heard this term, it was coined by an Australian disability activist, Stella Young, and is defined as “the objectifying of disabled people as models of inspiration for able-bodied people simply because they are disabled. Inspiration porn reminds able-bodied people that no matter how bad your life may be, you could have it worse, implying the negative connotation that disabled people struggle through life and suffer constantly. ” I am happy to report, this movie was not disability inspiration porn.

I was also hesitant about watching it because my own son is a wheelchair user, which comes with its own set of emotional hang-ups, and some of these were actually touched on in the movie, but in a very sensitive and accurate way. In fact, a large part of the movie revolved around some of them, particularly being viewed with pity. Which is sort of like inspiration porn I guess, but this was just more personal, and less grandiose. Just the everyday type things – like do doctors and nurses greet Wyatt, or just speak through me? Do people talk to him like a baby, or like he isn’t there? The answer to these questions, are yes, sometimes those things happen. And let me tell you, Wyatt gives spectacular side eye. He looks at me like, “Mom, what the heck?”

However, this movie transcended my expectations, and overcame my hesitations with its thoughtfulness and consideration.

Phillipe is rich. He is a rich quadriplegic, and he even acknowledges how that does make his life a bit easier. He goes through caregivers and assistants quickly. He is full care, but has perfect cognitive abilities. His brain, his mind, anything above the neck, was not damaged in his fall. He is a man of culture – music, art, he is surrounded by fine things, a beautiful home, servants. And juxtaposed against him we have Driss. A young man in the peak of his life, healthy, strong, in shape, yet living in a situation that is less than ideal. He is living in a crowded apartment with his family, with zero privacy, and all sorts of his own troubles, including a criminal record.

On the surface, these two men could not be more different. However, they both have a capacity to listen. To learn. To try different things, even if they seem weird or embarrassing. They learn from each other, and while it should feel like Phillipe has the upper hand as an employer, or that Driss should because he has the able body, there is no upper hand. Not really. Both men are in a position where they need the other. Driss needs what Phillipe can give him – a job, stability, a place to live and take a bath without a bathroom full of children and being crunched up in a tub. A purpose. And Phillipe needs Driss, for his very lack of pity. As Phillipe says, Driss hands him the phone when it rings, because he forgets. How refreshing that must have felt to him. Driss does things that probably were unthinkable to others – he helps Phillipe smoke weed, which helps to reduce the pain he still feels, even if it is phantom. It causes him to panic, to need air, to get out. And Driss provides that for him, in a way that is not belittling. He takes him for walks in Paris at night, something Phillipe comments on, that he has not seen Paris by night for ages.

Driss and Phillipe also share their likes and dislikes, like friends. Phillipe shares his love of art with Driss, Driss shares his love of Earth, Wind, and Fire. Yes, Earth, Wind, and Fire. It’s a give and take relationship. One that pushes and challenges equally.

And that is the key here for me. Equally. As equals. Friends. And that is why I loved this movie and it transcended my fears.

It also had some very just plain joyful scenes, including a fun dance scene, which I love in a movie. I love to dance, even though I am terrible. I would have been on that dance floor in a hot second!

I absolutely 100% loved this movie. So far, for me, the movies we have chosen have been so spectacular, and this was no exception. One reason I love pairing up with Lisa for our movie journeys is because we both have such different tastes, and this pushes us too, to watch things that we normally would never probably watch. And honestly, I almost always love what she chooses. And this one knocked it out of the park.

I should also mention, this movie is based on a true story! I am sure Lisa and Cat will share all the deets with you guys, they are so good at that.

Did you watch? What do you think of this movie? Feel free to comment and link up with us! You can find Lisa’s post here!

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And just like that, we have one movie left! We were supposed to have a Zoom group watch, but due to life situations for both of us right now, we had to cancel that this time around. I apologize for the late notice. However, if you watch Charade starring Audrey Hepburn, please feel free to post on May 8th with us! Or after, or whenever. We are flexible!!

Top Ten Tuesday: Books with “Night” in the Title

Top Ten Tuesday is hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

This week’s prompt: Books with _____ in the title.

I chose the word “night” for this challenge! And, I sort of played it loose – I included a title even if a word had night in it.

Endless Night by Agatha Christie was one of the first I read when I started reading her books. I still haven’t read them all, there are so many and I tend to hop skip around genres and authors when reading. This book just kept surprising me!

The next two are books I recently added to my TBR, despite their own vintage ages. Gaudy Night by Dorothy Sayers and Tender is the Night by F. Scott Fitzgerald. I can’t believe I haven’t read Tender is the Night honestly, I went through a whole phase where I was reading his work. I saw both of these on the Goodreads 100 years of beloved books list.

Karen White always writes a good book, in my opinion. The Night the Lights Went Out is one of my favorites.

Half Spent Was the Night by Ami McKay is the second in the Witches of New York series and is set during Yule. I read it in the weird limbo time between Christmas and New Year and it was the perfect read.

Middle of the Night by Riley Sager is still sitting on my TBR. I am not sure when I will read it, as it is about a ten year old boy going missing, and I have a ten year old boy. Not sure I can emotionally handle that!

Nevernight by Jay Kristoff was such a good read!! I read it after my husband told me I needed to read it, and was so drawn into this world. However, the end was not to my liking and so I never read on! **So I have learned that Jay Kristoff is a problematic author, something I was not aware of prior to posting. He has shown racism toward Black people, Jewish people, Asian people, and people with disabilities, and I wanted to add that up here. **

You’re Not Supposed to Die Tonight by Kaylynn Bayron (whom I love) is a YA horror and if you like that sort of thing, I definitely recommend it for “summerween” for some summer camp horror.

Daughter of Smoke and Bone is another series that my husband and I read together. I ;oved this little novellla, Night of Cake and Puppets. This story of Mik and Zuzana was so adorable and I just loved everything about it! I will say I was all in on this series for a while, and even made goulash and lavender honey bread because of it. I reviewed it over on my old blog here.

Lucy Foley’s The Midnight Feast was one of my favorite reads last year! I just loved the whole concept and idea of it, and the surprises involved!

And I feel like I flew through this post this time!

I am excited to see what everyone else picked as their word!

My Sunday-Monday Post

My Sunday Post is hosted by Kimba the Caffeinated Book Reviewer

Sunday Salon is hosted by Deb at Readerbuzz

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Hello everyone! Last week Wyatt and I took a break for spring and it was a very busy, very full, very fun week. I might still be recovering from all the activity! Today is my mom’s birthday party, and then I am not making anymore plans for this week. We need a break from our break, and by break I mean getting back to our routine!

Read Last Week:

I started two nonfiction books last week, and have been reading through them slowly. They are very different, and I am enjoying them both. One thing they have in common though, is that they both focus on how we view ourselves and our bodies and even how we keep house, and how we have been influenced to always regard ourselves as coming up short, how wrinkles or a few extra pounds or dishes in the sink can sometimes trigger negative thoughts about ourselves. I actually really didn’t know what either of them were about when I got them – I loved the cover of Women Living Deliciously so I picked it up, and then I’ve seen the book about keeping house around and thought I would read through it, since Wyatt’s surgery is coming up soon. I will be very busy for at least a month afterward caring for him and I thought this book might be a good read in preparation for that time.

Reading This Week:

This week I will still be reading my two nonfiction books, but adding in a fiction book too.

I am behind on this series. It seems like a good time to catch up!

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Springtime in Paris: Hugo

Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Watching:

We are watching a few different things. We recently finished up Our Flag Means Death, which we both enjoyed for its silliness, and we are also watching The Wheel of Time S3. We also started the new Brokenwood Mysteries. I wait so long for each season and I really love it.

Wyatt and I also are watching our YouTubers at night. We watch a video, read a book, then he goes to bed. Wyatt would love to have his own booktube channel, but that feels weird to me, for many reasons. However, I do wonder if it would help him to use his words more, because they are in there and we need to just encourage him to use them. Lisa at Boondock Ramblings mentioned that I could make a private channel or just share with specific people, so I am considering that. Maybe as his surprise after surgery, we can try one.

Anyway. Lately we have been watching a few different people, in addition to book people as he calls them.

In order, left to right: Real Vintage Doll House, Jay Lee Painting, and Plant Based Bride.

Real Vintage Doll House is a fun, realistic look at someone who enjoys vintage but also does not live it constantly. She has a job in the medical field, so her love of a vintage life is only part of her life, and I like that. She has a house that is circa 1940s and is so cute and apparently very small. She dresses vintage, keeps pigeons which I love, and has very interesting videos about British history mixed in.

Jay Lee Painting is just what you think – he shares different painting techniques and they are just calming and inspiring to watch.

Plant Based Bride is a booktuber. I love her videos, she has very in depth reviews, that are well thought out. I think she is interesting because she often does not like books that are getting a lot of love on YouTube or TikTok, and I like hearing another perspective.

And of course, we are watching our Springtime in Paris movies! We just watched Hugo, which I thought led to some great discussions and reviews. Next up we are watching The Intouchables!

And that is it from around here! I hope that whatever you do today, that you do something that makes you smile!

Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Hello everyone!! I am writing this on Thursday but am publishing it on Friday morning. We have an early morning visit to the doctor for his pre-op appointment so we will be gone in the morning. Then we are treating ourselves to a little shopping trip at the French-Japanese bakery near the hospital. I think we will all need a little pick me up after that appointment.

Wyatt and I had spring break this week. It was unintended but, I think it was needed. We have had a great week, and it all started really on Easter weekend, on Saturday when my cousin hosted a small get together for Wyatt, Mermaid Girl, Hurricane, and Brian’s (my cousin) girls, Chloe and Hannah. He had 32 eggs boiled and ready to go, with little set ups for dyeing. He had pizza ordered. He had cookies for the kids to eat. His mom, my Aunt Barb, was a wonderful hostess and she would be so proud of Brian for his get togethers that he puts together. We all want our kids to grow up together, like we did. I dyed Easter eggs when I was this age in this very same room, with Brian, so it was very nostalgic.

On Sunday, we did the Easter things! We had Mediterranean food at my MIL’s house, which was delicious, then later we went to my brother’s for Easter dinner. He had made a ham and we all brought the sides. I made a sugar snap pea and radish salad, Billy made sourdough, and I included a picture of Chrissy’s hot cross buns because they were fantastic. I shoved one in my purse to take home to have with coffee on Monday morning (and it was the best idea ever). I want to add, I do have two other nieces that I mention sometimes – I don’t show them due to their parents request, which is fine. I just always feel really bad leaving them out! They are very sweet girls as well. I love all of my little nieces! They are Billy’s brother’s girls.

On Tuesday, Wyatt and I went to the zoo with friends we made through this blog (yes!) and through Cub Scouts. We had such a good time. I loved Wyatt being able to do an activity with a new friend, although they didn’t actually interact much. They will though, in their own ways, eventually! It’s what I wanted for him, when I set out to find community for Wyatt last year, and it makes my heart so full.

We had the best weather too. It was sunny and 60 degrees, and the animals seemed to enjoy it as well, as they were all out and about. Even the wolves were out, sleeping in the sun. Shawnna and I talked about the poor polar bear. I am sure they do a good job with them, but, we couldn’t help but feel bad for it. It is not even close to being the amount of room they roam in the wild – which also led me to thinking about their loss of habitat due to global warming. I mean it was Earth Day after all. I cry every time I see things about polar bears, even though I would never ever want to meet one on a an ice flow.

Anyway, we had so much fun. I can’t wait for our next outing!! Shawnna and Z. are homeschoolers too, which is awesome – and both of our families like to get up and go early, not something that is easily found!

Wednesday, Wednesday, what did we do? Oh. It was not the most fun of days. I had a doctor’s appointment, just a regular check up for meds and stuff, and my doctor was very pleased with me! I have white coat hypertension (and regular hypertension!) and I had a normal blood pressure while I was there. It was amazing. That never happens. My previous doctor would yell at me though when I had a high reading and my current doctor is actually a caring and empathetic person who does not, which I think makes a difference. I can’t believe how much happier and healthier I am after switching to her. A good doctor makes all the difference. Then Wyatt had therapy that afternoon, as is his normal, and then we followed that up with a trip to the pet store. We had Wyatt’s favorite pet in the whole house, Moon, his red betta (for those of you know who know our fish journey, this is Moon #3) in my office over the winter and Wyatt was ready to move him back to the den. This was an involved process, that required us to shift a few other tanks around as well, so I had to pick up a few supplies. We also lingered, looking at the animals they had in there too, although I didn’t bring any new creatures home. This little ferret was very entertaining!

Thursday, Wyatt went to work with Billy in the morning for Take Your Child to Work Day, and I found myself wandering my house trying to figure out what to do. I didn’t want to do any work, because I had free time so I should be using it for me, I guess, but it all just felt weird. I ended up reading outside and it was really nice. Then I picked Wyatt up from “work” and we went shopping for some summer clothes and then for ice cream. It was a pretty awesome day.

I asked Wyatt what he was typing on the computer, and he told me he was looking up books. I can get behind that. He also told me his dad talks a lot at work. That is also believable. He loved going to work with his dad. He was so excited to go, and he was afraid that Billy was going to leave without him for a minute and panicked. Then he talked about going to work all day after I picked him up. I am so happy that they had that experience together. Wyatt was also excited that they made him a name badge.

And that my friends, is that. I hope that you are all feeling safe and loved and that today you do something that makes you smile.

Springtime in Paris: Hugo

Hello everyone!! Welcome to week four of our Paris film journey! Lisa from Boondock Ramblings and I wanted fun and whimsy and beauty this spring, and although an actual trip to Paris in the spring would be better, a film journey will have to do. We are having great fun, and hope you will journey along with us!

This week, we watched Hugo!

This one was my pick, and I picked it for Billy. This is one of his favorite movies, and I have to admit, I really like it too, but not as much as he does. He loves all the little tinkering, the clockworks, the workings of machinery, as well as how masterfully this movie is shot and acted.

The summary from Rotten Tomatoes: “Orphaned and alone except for an uncle, Hugo Cabret (Asa Butterfield) lives in the walls of a train station in 1930s Paris. Hugo’s job is to oil and maintain the station’s clocks, but to him, his more important task is to protect a broken automaton and notebook left to him by his late father (Jude Law). Accompanied by the goddaughter (Chloë Grace Moretz) of an embittered toy merchant (Ben Kingsley), Hugo embarks on a quest to solve the mystery of the automaton and find a place he can call home.”

From his home in the walls of the train station, Hugo can see life happening all around him. The woman with the little cute dachshund, who is fiercely protective of her mistress, and won’t let a certain interested gentleman speak with her, the toy seller with his wind up toys, the sweet natured florist, the people rushing rushing rushing for their trains, and the slightly villainous presence of the Station Inspector (Sacha Baron Cohen) and his Doberman, Maximillian. Hugo winds the clocks to keep the Station Inspector at bay, pretending he is his Uncle Claude, who took him in after his father died. Uncle Claude used to keep the clocks running but he disappeared one day to not return. Hugo does not want the Station Inspector to find him, because he will send him to the orphanage, and Hugo does not want to leave – he has his automaton to work on and protect.

The automaton was the last thing his dad had brought home from his job at the museum. The two were looking forward to bringing it back to life before his dad suddenly dies in a fire at the museum, and Hugo was whisked away to the walls of the train station. Hugo makes it his mission to continue the dream that he and his dad had.

Then one day, he meets Isabelle, played by Chloë Grace Moretz. They strike up a friendship, showing each other the wonders of their worlds. Isabelle introduces Hugo to the most delightful looking bookstore, and its kindhearted bookseller, played by Christopher Lee, and Hugo introduces her to movies, and eventually, to his home in the walls and his automaton.

Let’s stop and take a peek at this bookshop, because it is a place I would find magical as well.

Isabelle and Hugo’s stories begin to overlap and become intertwined, as they discover little things that just raise more questions, about the automaton and Hugo’s dad and Isabelle’s godfather, who is the train station toy merchant, Georges Méliès – who also has secrets.

Georges Méliès was a real person, and is at the heart of this movie. He was a filmmaker, and his story is rather interesting. Cat over at Cat’s Wire actually has a blog post about him and his history, if you want to pop over and read it! It will give a bit of background to this movie, and may fill in some blanks, because as I said, a large part of Hugo has to do with Méliès.

I thought this movie was beautifully shot, the cinematography was gorgeous, the story was heartfelt and sincere, and I loved how everything was interwoven and eventually, how it ended.

I thought the side characters and little mini-plots were well done as well. The Station Inspector has his own story, and where you want to dislike him, there is something about him that stops you. A vulnerability in his villain. Bit by bit we learn his story as well, and it brings his actions into perspective. I thought that Sacha Baron Cohen played this character so well, and while his actions seemed cruel, and some were, I don’t think that he necessarily is. I know that sounds super confusing. He and Hugo are very similar, in believing that everyone and everything has a place, an order. Hugo believes that like machines, there are no spare parts, therefore everyone must belong somewhere; and so does the Station Inspector. How this manifests in their actions though, differs and we watch the Station Inspector going from trapped and locked up, to becoming more.

Hugo says in this movie “Maybe that’s why a broken machine always makes me a little sad, because it isn’t able to do what it was meant to do… Maybe it’s the same with people. If you lose your purpose… it’s like you’re broken.”

Hugo is a fixer, a tinkerer. And in this movie, he demonstrates that he can fix more than just automatons and in doing so, finds his place and where he belongs.

This movie is magical. Ben Kingsley’s performance is amazing, as always, and in his end speech, in which he is addressing people involved in film, I feel like he means every single word.

If you haven’t seen this movie, give it a whirl. I think you might like it.

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Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Hello everyone! I am sitting here typing away, with my coffee on one side, and Wyatt on the other. He is flipping through a book, and watching Frog and Toad, which incidentally is the cutest little cartoon. He is also chattering away so please ignore any typos. Billy is in the kitchen preparing the sourdough so that he can make a few loaves for Easter. It’s a pretty good morning.

It was a very busy week this week – our appointment season is almost over though! There are times of the year when we have all of Wyatt’s specialist appointments in a row, like a month or so of them, and it is crazy. We had his epileptologist appointment this week, and it went really well. We had nothing but good things to report and his doctor was very pleased! His EEG in June looks like it will only be one night now instead of two, so that was welcome news.

Last Saturday we had a little guest at our house. We watched my littlest niece, who we call The Hurricane because she is a whirling dervish causing mayhem. We had such a great time with her! She kept us soooo busy but it was really cool to hang out with her. We have time with her older sister all the time so it was nice to hang with just E. She went from one thing to the next to the next and so on. She loved our fish so much, they were a big hit. I had to stop her a few times from trying to reach inside the aquariums to grab them though.

Sunday we had a birthday party for another of our nieces. It was so cute to see T. full of excitement at her party. She had all of her friends and family there, and she was happy that she had all of her aunts there at one time. It doesn’t usually happen for some reason and I loved that that made her happy. She had an axolotl themed party with very delicious cupcakes!

This week we also had some sunny warm days, finally!! We are trying to get outside as much as we can on these nice days between now and Wyatt’s surgery. Wyatt and I spent almost all afternoon Wednesday playing basketball outside. It meant lots of rounding up basketballs for me though, so I got quite a workout. I need one of these nieces to come over and fetch for us! We also had dinner out there as well. Wyatt loves picnics, so we had a picnic, then he and his dad played outside until bedtime. It was awesome. This might not sound like much, but before the ramp was built, Wyatt was not able to go outside and play. Wheelchairs are not great on grass, and just getting to the yard was very difficult for the two of us. I would have to carry him out the front door and around the house to the back, which doesn’t sound too hard, but imagine the person you are carrying is 70 pounds. I am not a big human either, so it was getting sort of rough and we just didn’t do it very often. Now though, we have our freedom back and it has been wonderful. Using the ramp all winter to leave the house whenever we wanted, now using the ramp and being able to utilize the deck space, has transformed both of our lives. We were able to get out some yesterday as well. Today is going to be really warm apparently, so we are going to go out on his bike too.

Speaking of his surgery, we are working on preparing for it the best we can. We have pivoted from walking as much in therapy to more strength training, both there and at home. We have added a few extra home exercises to build up his muscle strength, which will help him recover easier, and are just trying to get him to move any body part as much as possible between now and then. We scaled back on school for the moment, focusing just on the essentials (I mean, I think it is all essential but we are sticking a pin in a few things for now – like the Revolutionary War and artist studies).

I also started thinking about what we will need during recovery. What will we do to entertain this kid while he is in bed, or stuck in traction for weeks? What special clothes might we need? Bathing, how does that happen? So we are looking for these solutions right now. I have a whole list of books I made the other day for us to try during that time. I think we will reread some old favorites like Frog and Toad and Mr. Putter and Tabby, introduce some gentle reads for that first week home, like Paddington, and then as he feels a bit better, add in books like The Hardy Boys. Then we will see what else he would like to read.

We had had reservations for Providence in August, which are obviously now cancelled. So, I put together a list of some books for myself as well, that focus on the seaside and the coast. They are not all New England based, but some are. That is the great thing about books, we can travel anywhere with them. And Providence will still be there in the future. The whales will have to wait!

Wyatt and I also convinced Billy to use some of the leftover lumber from the ramp to build little free libraries for us! We want one that two houses – one that is the typical height, and one that is lower for children and wheelchair users. We are also going to have Billy install a camera so we can see into the backyard while we are in his room if we want – we have three cats that like to hang around and I know Wyatt will want to keep updated on them. We have the neighbor’s cat, Knox, who is super sweet and we can actually pet. Then there are two cats that we don’t if they are stray or not. One is a big tabby, and I have named him Angus-Fergus, and there is one that just showed up, a big rough looking guy who has been around. He is white with black splotches, and we named him Brando. I don’t know why they like our porches so much but they do. And that is ok.

And jeez, I feel like I am just rambling away today!! I should wrap this up! Lol.

I hope that whatever you all do today, whatever you do this weekend, that you feel safe and loved and do something that makes you smile.