Friday Morning/Afternoon/Evening Coffee Catch Up

Good morning! I am trying to drink my coffee at super fast speed this morning, as Wyatt has two appointments back to back. One for a wheelchair eval, since he is growing so fast, and the other because he either lost a tooth or broke part of it yesterday. So a trip to the dentist for him! I have to leave shortly but wanted to get this started.

We have a new pet! It is a tarantula, so if you don’t like spiders scroll super fast past its picture. We named her Dungeon Crawler Carl after the books, and because Carl will be living in Billy’s office in the basement after he makes room for her.

She was abandoned and then turned in to a pet store, where she was left in her really dirty enclosure, which was way too small for her. My friend saw her week after week in this condition and finally talked me into taking her if she paid for her. So, we now have Carl! She was in terrible condition when we got her, and I was worried she was going to die – she was in the death curl position, which indicates death is coming or severe dehydration. It appears Carl was dehydrated because she drank so much water after we moved her into her new, spacious home. I have to say, I never wanted a tarantula but Carl is endearing herself to me. She loves to watch Sid the fish, who is her neighbor, and sleep in her little burrow. We have had her a week and she looks so much better already!

We have been working hard at home and in school when we can around appointments this week. It was just one of those weeks. I will be grateful for when things settle down and we can just get to our work and routine. Wyatt kicked butt at therapy again this week, and stood assisted again but with less assistance, so he is getting stronger and stronger, week by week. We are pretty faithful with his exercises, and he is really good about doing them which makes it easier.

Billy has been busy too! He has been working super hard on Wyatt’s costume, and it is unbelievable. Like seriously. I have to brag on him a bit here. Wyatt is going as Hiccup from How to Train Your Dragon this year, and I was like that meme, following Billy around with my bag of ideas, and said to him, “You know what would be really cool? If it looked like Wyatt was riding on Toothless.” So, Billy made our dreams come true, turning Wyatt’s wheelchair into Toothless. Here is a preview. Has my house turned into a war zone, filled with craft supplies and art stuff? Yes, yes it has. But it is worth it. I can’t wait to see it all come together on Halloween. Like Billy literally made that Toothless mask, out of foam and paint. It is crazy to me. He is so talented.

Our Halloween decorations served a practical purpose the other night when we suddenly lost power! Sunday night, the entire north end of town lost electricity and it was right at dinnertime, and the sun was getting ready to set, and in fact already had begun the process. Billy ran up to McDonalds for Wyatt, and I ran outside and gathered all of our pumpkins from the trees that Billy had put solar lights in last weekend. They made perfect little lanterns for dinner and inside until the power came back on. It was hilarious to eat by pumpkin light and later read by the same light.

We are back from the dentist’s office and it’s all good. He has lost two teeth that they said were probably already loose as they could see the new teeth erupting already. So thank goodness that turned out well. We were having ice cream of all things, when it happened. Wyatt had chocolate peanut butter with frozen tiny Reese’s cups and they were apparently rock hard. I heard a crunch, saw blood, it was a mess. He was fine though, and was more upset that I wanted to look inside of his mouth than he was about the teeth. I am assuming the ice cream helped, perhaps made the area cold and slightly numb.

And that is it from me today! I hope that whatever you do this weekend, you do something that makes you smile!

And here are just some random photos from the past week!

Comfy Cozy Cinema: The Young in Heart

 Lisa from Boondock Ramblings and I are back to watching and sharing about comfy cozy (and as we move closer to Halloween, spookier) movies for the fall season. Feel free to join in with us!!

This week’s movie was The Young in Heart, starring Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. and Janet Gaynor.

This movie was such a cute little movie.

It starts off with the Carleton family – Sahib, Marmy, George-Anne, and Richard – working their charms on the unsuspecting rich vacationing in the Riviera. George-Anne and Richard are pretending to be people they are not, while hoping to score a rich partner. That is, until their plans are foiled by the police. They are ordered out of town, practically run out on a rail(way) as they take the first train out.

Once on the train, George-Anne tells her suitor, who I thought was much cuter than Douglas Fairbanks (sorry Lisa, it was the Scottish accent), that she is not good enough for him, and for him to just leave her alone. She meets the sweetest elderly woman, named Miss Fortune. Billy and I both were like, hmm, Miss Fortune, or … misfortune? Well played, movie.

However, this train has an accident and their train car derails! Wyatt was watching this movie with us and he yelled “Whoa!!” when that happened and it cracked me up. Then my favorite line of the movie came up. Duncan came over to see what George-Anne was doing with the unconscious Miss Fortune, who had been injured in the accident and the family rescued, and he notices George-Anne actually appears to be helping someone! George-Anne however tells him to go away, saying “I am up to no good, and you are interfering.” I just loved that line.

The Carleton family winds up living with Miss Fortune, in her big mansion and off of her recently acquired wealth. George-Anne smells potential however for a bigger grift – they should pretend to be upstanding citizens, so that Miss Fortune chooses one of them or all of them to inherit her fortune when she dies. She tells Sahib and Richard to get jobs, when they have never worked a day in their lives, and says that she and Marmy will become caregivers.

However, jokes on them, because it seems living with the kind and gentlehearted Miss Fortune has grown their hearts at least three sizes. After a particularly adorable scene between Miss Fortune and Richard, where she nurses him through a rough morning after a night of drinking, Richard makes it his mission to find a dog like the one that once so captured Miss Fortune’s heart. A white dog, with a black spot like an eyebrow. This was probably my favorite part of the movie, because so many puppies!!!

And I am going to wreck the end for you all – so skip this if you want – but the family turns their lives around and become the fine upstanding people they are pretending to be. I won’t wreck it too much for you, you will have to watch the movie to see the ending, which is super sweet and adorables.

I mentioned I loved that line that George-Anne says to Duncan, but he also has some of my favorite lines. Lines like these:

“You’re a bad-mannered, bad-tempered, outrageous female… ..but I have discovered I cannot live without you. It’s a shameful confession for a sane man to make.”

So I saw that Lisa already talked about the car, which was Billy’s favorite part of the movie. He did a deep dive during the movie to read about it, because it was a spectacular looking piece of machinery. It must have been quite something back then, because it still is beyond impressive today. The movie called it a Wombat, but you might know it more as the Phantom.

Overall, this movie was just a fun delight to watch. It had plenty of funny moments, and it was nice to just decompress too after a long day.

Make sure to read Lisa’s post here.

Our next movie is Coraline! I LOVE this movie, and it is beginning our little trend to spookier movies for Halloween. Little bit of Erin trivia – I once dressed as Coraline for Halloween, and this year, Mermaid Girl is going as Coraline!

Top Ten Tuesday: Books I Wish I Could Read Again for the First Time

Top Ten Tuesday is hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl

Today’s Prompt: Books I wish I could read again for the first time

Do you remember the books that made you love words and writing and books, landscapes and characters, books that stopped time as you read them? That formed your thoughts and helped you escape? I feel like those are the books I would like to read again, that had such a profound effect on my life as I grew up. To feel that magic all over again.

A Prayer for Owen Meany || The Prince of Tides || All Creatures Great and Small

These three books were given to me by my mom, my dad, and my uncle, and I think that helped make them special as well. My mom gave me the whole James Herriot collection when I was probably 10ish, and I adored them. I didn’t always understand them, but it didn’t matter. I understood what these stories represented – kindness, love, and caring for all of our creatures that we share this planet with.

The Prince of Tides was a book given to me by my dad. He loves Pat Conroy (and now me too!) and despite some tough subject matter I was wrapped up in this world. I remember I even stayed home “sick” from school one day so I could finish it. I went on to read the rest of his books, and each were as amazing but none could take the place of Prince of Tides.

A Prayer for Owen Meany was from my uncle. Another book that has stayed with me all through my life, that I think about all the time. I wish I could read it again just to see how masterfully Irving had the ending all planned, right from the very beginning.

The Lake of Dead Languages || King’s Oak || On the Banks of Plum Creek

The Lake of Dead Languages was Dark Academia before that was a thing. I remember reading it and thinking about how I wanted to throw myself into academia the way that these girls did – minus the big secret in this book of course. I love Carol Goodman still, she was my entrance into a world beyond my little town in Michigan, that was all about steel mills and auto factories.

King’s Oak took me down south again, this time introducing me to Tom Dabney, a character I would love to meet and hang out with. Like Luke in the Prince of Tides, he burned a bit too brightly for his world.

On the Banks of Plum Creek of course has to be on here. Who didn’t want to be Laura when they were younger? All those adventures and animals and running wild and living in a sod house! What! I thought that was the coolest thing ever.

Franny and Zooey || Remembering Blue || Charlotte’s Web || The Great Gatsby

Franny and Zooey was probably the first book by a classic author that I read and really loved. I know Salinger gets a bad rap but I always liked his work. Franny and Zooey is my favorite though.

Remembering Blue is just like a lovely romantic sad fairy tale. I attended a writing class, a small group of maybe 10 other people, with my dad at Connie May Fowler’s house in Florida (her husband made us dinner!) and it was so cool to talk with her about this book. I wish I wouldn’t have been so young honestly when I went; I feel like I could make more of the whole experience now as an adult. It was an awesome time though.

Charlotte’s Web. Yes, I know reading it all over again for the first time will be tragic but it still makes me cry anyway. Just the love that was in these pages between Charlotte and Wilbur. I read it with Wyatt a few years ago, and it struck me just how much Charlotte was like a mother to Wilbur, protecting him. And reading it with Wyatt for the first time was almost like reading it again myself for the first time, as I was reading it with a different perspective.

The Great Gatsby is another one of the first classics that I read and loved. I wanted to go back and live in the Roaring ’20s so badly, to be a flapper and dance all night in a fringed dress.

And that is it. These books worked magic on me that is not lost, but it would be amazing to feel that first wonder all over again.

My Sunday-Monday Post

My Sunday Post is hosted by Kimba the Caffeinated Book Reviewer

Sunday Salon is hosted by Deb at Readerbuzz

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Hello everyone! That last week was a whirlwind, but we are taking it easy this weekend, and it has been a nice restful few days.

Read Last Week:

I finished up The Late-Night Witches and I really enjoyed it. It sort of reminded me of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, but with a suburban mom of three as the chosen one. It cracked me up, and it was not too scary or gory either, in my opinion. Sort of Buffy-like even there, I guess! The main character Cassie is a witch from a family of witches for generations – although she didn’t know it until the big baddie vampire woke up from his quarter century of slumber. It was a fun read!

Reading This Week:

I am hoping to read these two this week. I am starting with Falling Like Leaves, which is a YA romance so it should be pretty light and breezy and full of fall ambience. Then I am moving on to Uncharmed, which just sounds so cute and pink!

I really need to do a tally of how many books I have read this year with cats on the cover.

Posted Last Week:

Mini Book Reviews: In the Company of Witches, Ghost Business, Play Nice

Comfy Cozy Cinema: The Five Year Engagement

Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Watching:

Billy and I have started rewatching Twin Peaks and it is so fun to watch again. It is so different to watch it as an adult, with an adult’s perspective. I still love the music, the styling, the setting, the whole aesthetic, and it’s craziness, and I love just how 90s it feels. But certain scenes are more powerful than they were when I was younger. We watched the episode with Laura’s funeral last night, and Bobby’s anger at the town, chastising them all, struck a note with me. I don’t think I picked up on just how perceptive and mature this was for his character at the time, since when I watched this show I was in high school, and just thought Bobby was very cute and rebellious. But he was so right in this scene.

We are also watching our Comfy Cozy Cinema movies, as well as mixing in other things as well here and there, mostly YouTubers.

Internet Shenanigans:

Lisa and I are co-hosting so many things together! We have our crafternoons, which are just fun get togethers where we hang out and chat and work on whatever projects we want with other bloggers on Zoom for an hour or so. We have one this afternoon actually, at 1!

Then we have our Comfy Cozy Cinema, where we watch movies and post our thoughts about them on Thursdays.

And finally, we have a monthly book link up, where you can post any book related posts throughout the month. Book shopping, book hauls, book whatevers – you can link up there!

If you wish to participate in any of these with us, feel free!! We would love to have you!

And that is it from me today! I hope that whatever you do, you do something that makes you smile!

Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Hello everyone! I hope you are all doing well! As for myself, I am tired y’all. After Wyatt’s bummer summer I was going all out for a fun fall. I might have gone too far because I am exhausted. I don’t say that much honestly – I am a push through, I can do it kind of a person. But even I recognize right now that I need a huge break, so I am taking the weekend slow and being lazy, starting today. I have been making mistakes here and there because I am just worn out, and I need to recharge! However, despite how tired I am, I am so happy that I have created these moments and memories for Wyatt, and that we are making really good progress in therapy.

I left off last time with Billy and my date night, which was a blast. Then Wyatt and I spent the week going to therapy and having school, and Wyatt worked so hard at therapy, as always. He is getting so strong! In fact, this week we had a big milestone. Wyatt stood assisted for the first time since his surgery!!! It was a huge moment for us. His therapist said that he has gained enough strength now that we can start doing more standing exercises with him. Our home program right now is very time consuming, but every second of it is worth it.

To celebrate, Wyatt and I had another mother-son book outing. I definitely am going to do this once a month with him. We had so much fun. First, we went to the library and picked up some books there, then we headed to the one of two bookstore stops. The first was Another Look Books, a used bookstore near us. I took some old books with for me trade in credit, and Wyatt picked a few books, and I chose a cozy mystery. And after paying, we still had $16 dollars left in store credit! (you can only use $10 in credit a visit)

Our next stop was Brooks Books, and they were all decked out for Halloween, as a haunted bookstore. They had fake books set in place that would ease themselves out of the shelves, candles hanging from the ceiling, all kinds of gadgets and decorations. Wyatt loved it! We picked out our books, then bought treats from the tiny little corner cafe they have. I had the Campfire Curse latte, and it was delicious!

This was just the tip of the iceberg for our weekend though!

On Saturday, Billy and I spent the day working on Halloween things – Billy working on Wyatt’s costume while I made spiders for our Blackbirds party, which we had last night. I only burned my fingers from the hot glue a million times, but it was worth it. The kids had so much fun playing with them. I am getting ahead of myself though! Later that night, we went to my brother’s house for a backyard screening of Disney’s Legend of Sleepy Hollow and the old Donald Duck cartoon with Witch Hazel or Broom Hilda or whatever her name is. It was an evening of chaos but family, and it was a great night. Even with my youngest niece tossing a fairy garden home into my lap that was filled with hundreds of ants, who took exception to being tossed. And then when we got home, the pumpkins we put up outside were all lit up! Billy had put solar lights in them before hanging them and they look super cool!

The next day was another very big day! We had a Blackbirds guided nature hike on Belle Isle in the morning, followed by the Zoo Boo at the Detroit Zoo in the evening.

The hike was so fun. It was a great easy way to get our kids out into nature, and the nature center on Belle Isle offers all of their programs like this free of charge to schools and groups. They have a mission of getting kids outside and learning and exploring, and they do such a great job with it. The kids had a blast walking around, looking for bugs and snakes and at the end they were able to be imaginative and make their own bugs out of arts and scraps and bits of nature. The only downside was that it was a million degrees out.

We had just enough time to get home, eat, rest up, change, and head back to Detroit. The Zoo Boo was so fun. Wyatt told us a million times how happy he was, and thankfully, it was cooler! Not cool enough for Wyatt to wear his costume though. We made do though, and he wore his shirt that says “Just a boy who loves snails”. So I guess he went as a boy who loves snails – so, himself.

Which takes us to this past Monday! I had an eye appointment, we had school, the week continued, then Wyatt, Mermaid Girl, and I went to a special “Magic Potions” class at the library which was super cute, and it was awesome to hang out with Wyatt and Mermaid Girl like that.

Which brings us to our Blackbirds Spooky Not Spooky party last night! Fellow moms Shawnna and Nicole and I planned out the party and got all the stuff together and it turned out fantastic if I do say so myself. All the kids had so much fun!!! I loved loved loved seeing all of their happy faces and hearing their laughter. I didn’t get many photos because I was crazy busy but it was an awesome night.

And now, we are back to the beginning. Just me sitting in bed, typing this, drinking coffee. Wyatt is next to me watching some tv. I think we both need a break this weekend!!

And that is it from me today! I hope that you all have a great day, and do something that makes you smile!

Comfy Cozy Cinema: The Five Year Engagement

 Lisa from Boondock Ramblings and I are back to watching and sharing about comfy cozy (and sometimes, chilling) movies for the fall season. Feel free to join in with us!!

This week’s movie was The Five Year Engagement, starring Emily Blunt and Jason Segal.

So this one was my pick. I apologize. Lol. I don’t watch a lot of comedies, but I remembered this one took place partially in Ann Arbor, Michigan and that the soundtrack was all Van Morrison songs, which are two things I liked. I also remembered that professor’s house which was really cool. There is a Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ann Arbor, and now that I am writing this, I wonder if they used it for the movie. I however did not remember the humor or language all that well.

The synopsis: When a series of setbacks interfere with their wedding planning — and their lives — a couple starts to question their commitment to each other.

I mean and that is really it in a nutshell. Jason Segal (Tom) is an up and coming chef in San Francisco, and his girlfriend turned fiancée Emily Blunt ) Violet is a psych grad waiting for a doctorate program. She is waiting for Berkley, but then gets an offer from the University of Michigan, and this uproots their whole lives, despite Tom’s assurances that moving would not be a big deal for him.

I think the point of this movie is that Michigan sucks the life from you, and destroys all hope. It’s these gray skies man, I tell you!

No I am kidding. Although the Michigan parts were not super flattering I still found them funny because they are exaggerated truths, a caricature of Michiganders. The hunting season being a big deal, knitting, making homemade beer and mead and foraging. The crazy facial hair.

I live about 45 minutes from Ann Arbor, and it is the city where Wyatt’s hospital system, Michigan Medical (U of M) is located. We spend a lot of time in Ann Arbor, and it is a pretty cool town. It is very diverse, and you can find million dollar homes interspersed with frat houses and sorority houses and student housing. It has a lot of great restaurants and parks, with theaters and bookstores and in general, it is just pretty neat. It was cool to see places we recognized in the background, and of course the restaurant where Tom ends up working, Zingerman’s Deli, is pretty famous for their sandwiches around here.

This movie is pretty simple, but it has a great ending. I also love a scene where Violet and Tom are arguing, and Tom says he needs to be alone, and when Violet gets out of bed to sleep on the couch he tells her not to leave because he wants to be alone with her there. It is so something I would say.

Overall this movie is about the journeys a relationship can take, from the very high highs to the not so greats, and back again. With maybe some drifterish, serial killer facial hair, knitted tuxedos, and old stale doughnuts.

And I was “wright!” It is the Frank Lloyd Wright House!! According to the blog upstaged by design, it is known as The Palmer House (and you can rent it if you have the cash) and was built in 1950. They have lots of other neat trivia about the design and architecture in this movie on their blog, so it is worth a read to pop over there too! You all know I am sucker for the setting and details like that.

Again, I apologize. This movie was weird. I didn’t remember it too well and I should have watched it again before picking it. Lol. It was much raunchier than I remember!

Next up is The Young in Heart, starring Frank Sinatra.

Don’t forget to pop over to Lisa’s blog as well!

Mini Book Reviews: In the Company of Witches, Ghost Business, and Play Nice

I am making my way through my fall TBR and I am loving it. Why do I just save these books for fall? I love them all so much. I should read them all year!

First up, In the Company of Witches by Auralee Wallace.

Ivywood Hollow has a reputation for its calm, restorative atmosphere. This time of year, one could reliably expect upon entering its doors to be greeted with a fire, gently cracking in the hearth, soothing classical music playing in the background and divine scents emanating from the kitchen.”

In the Company of Witches is a perfect read for fall. It is cozy and warm, with atmosphere and quirky characters, witches and ghosts, and that quaint small town feel. I really enjoyed this book about Brynn, her eccentric aunts, and her haiku writing uncle Gideon. Oh and I can’t forget Dog and Faustus. This book feels like the beginning of fall and would be absolutely wonderful paired with a cup of hot chocolate. Just make sure Izzy hasn’t charmed it before drinking it. And the ending was so sweet and made me a little bit teary – and the author herself commented on my Instagram post, saying that it made her a bit teary as well!

“Nora’s garden was a sanctuary. There was no better word to describe it. Even though she had tended to it daily, it had a wild feel, lush and overgrown. It was a the type of place where you wanted to dance in the moonlight, trailing your fingers over flowers, or laze away a hot summer’s day listening to the wind rustle in the trees.”

Next, Ghost Business by Jen DeLuca

“Setting the place on fire anytime was a bad idea, but during a hurricane? That seemed especially negligent.”

Ghost Business by Jen DeLuca was one of my most anticipated reads of the season and it did not disappoint!! This book was fun, funny, adorable, and at times, vulnerable. Sophie and Tristan both run rival ghost tours in the same small town in Florida; Sophie has the hometown advantage, having lived there her whole life and knowing all the stories, yet Tristan is a natural showman with flair. This is definitely going to be my Friday book buy!

This enemies to lovers story is so endearing and I just loved both characters, along with the rest of the characters from the town, including Cassie and Nick from Haunted Ever After. While it takes place in Florida and during some very hot months, the ghost vibes make it perfect for a fall read – especially for where I live, with its unseasonably hot weather right now.

I also sort of love that I finished this on October 1, a very significant date in the book.
This is all small town charm, enemies to lovers, and Tristan is a bit of a cinnamon roll, my favorite. As for spice, there was some, but not super open door explicit. So maybe like a rating of red pepper flakes on pizza?

Definitely read this. Maybe have some red wine on hand, and plan on ordering a pizza!

And last but not least, Play Nice by Rachel Harrison.

“Darling, what other people think of me is none of my business.”

This was my first time reading a book by Rachel Harrison and oh my gosh did I love this book. I could not stop reading it, much like Clio could not stop reading her book, in the book. 😂 Clio is a feisty fireball, all about appearance and being seen, her image, and snarky, quick witted repartee. She is also a bit of a brat. She knows it and owns it. That is until she is up against her past and things she can’t see – or maybe unsee.

I feel like that is a big theme in this book. Appearances, how we are seen, how we are perceived, what it means. I sort of loved how the author explored this idea through Clio’s job, through her mom’s book, through her sisters. It was really well done, especially as the main plot of this book was about a haunted house.

I loved every character in this book despite all of them being flawed, the story, and the look at how women are treated as well, when they may have issues. “The world will drive a woman insane, then point and laugh at them “

This book was funny, scary, and ultimately a five star read. 😈

I am linking up with the monthly book link up I co-host with Lisa at Boondock Ramblings, A Good Book and a Cup of Tea.

I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile!

Sunday/Monday Post!

My Sunday Post is hosted by Kimba the Caffeinated Book Reviewer

Sunday Salon is hosted by Deb at Readerbuzz

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date

Hello everyone!! We have been very busy socially this month so far! Lol. I think we are making up for our “lost summer” due to Wyatt’s surgery and recovery. We have been having a good time but this mom is getting tired! Lol. This weekend we visited a “haunted bookstore” for some shopping, spent Saturday creating Halloween decorations, then going to an outdoor movie at my brother’s, then yesterday our Blackbirds went on a nature walk and “insect encounter” on Belle Isle, then Wyatt, Billy, and I went to the Detroit Zoo Boo. Phew. I am so ready … for our busy week. Wyatt is having a great time though so it is worth it.

What I Read:

I read Play Nice by Rachel Harrison and Ghost Business by Jen DeLuca. I really loved both of them!! Play Nice was scarier, while Ghost Business was just like a cozy little romance. It is not set in the fall really, but had enough of a vibe that made it fun spooky. Plus it fit this unseasonably hot weather we are having here. One more day, and it seems like we will have better temps.

Reading This Week:

I recently read In the Company of Witches by Auralee Wallace and I loved it, so I am looking forward to Late Night Witches. And hopefully by the time I get to Falling Like Leaves, we will have some actual Michigan fall weather around here!

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The Gilmore Girls Episodes That I Love to Rewatch

Hello October!

Comfy Cozy Cinema: A Knight’s Tale

Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

What We Are Watching:

We are watching along with our Comfy Cozy Cinema, that I am co-hosting with Lisa from Boondock Ramblings. We just watched A Knight’s Tale, and this week we are watching The Five Year Engagement, which I picked for the humorous depiction of Michigan. It is more than just the little jokes about Michigan though, and I hope you all enjoy it if you watch along!

We are also watching the cartoon Haunted Hotel, and we restarted Twin Peaks. I LOVED Twin Peaks as a teen and wanted to be Audrey Horne. I still want to be Audrey Horne, maybe. Billy and I were watching and can’t get over how much we still love it, and we both agreed I have been chasing that aesthetic my whole life. It is so weird and creepy and sad but it is so good. Very Lynch.

And that is it from me this morning! I have an eye appointment soon and I should probably get ready! I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile.

Friday Morning Coffee Catch Up

Hello everyone! After a few hot weeks after a false fall, we had a cool night last night. There was an actual chill in the air, and it was glorious. We stayed outside until the fairy lights came on then headed inside where we made sure all the windows were open. This morning I was practically freezing making coffee in my kitchen! I of course loved it before retreating back to my bed with my hot cup of coffee. It is cooling on my nightstand as I type!

We have been having a good time around here – in school, and out of school. Last weekend we woke up and headed down to Toledo early on Saturday morning to meet my cousin and his family at the Muddy Maumee Book Festival. Well, we really met Mike’s wife Michelle, and their three boys, because Mike was working there. With Wyatt added, there was big boy energy happening! My cousin Mike is the Chief Engagement and Enterprise Officer (a title I just looked up because I knew he was some sort of administrator there but I didn’t know what) and I am so proud of him. Anyway, we will get back to that part in a minute. Let’s start with the book festival.

The festival was all independent authors from around the area – some even as far away as Grand Haven Michigan and southern Indiana! This was the first year that it was held at the Glass City Riverwalk in Toledo, which seemed like a perfect place to have it. They all had their books on display, and were happy to answer any questions the kids had. My cousin’s oldest boy is also a bookworm and asked the authors great questions about the books. Michelle and I were lucky to get out of there with only a few purchases each! Billy ordered a set of dragon books for Wyatt from Ryan Null, a clean fantasy author based out of Indiana, called The Flare Chronicles, and I picked up a book for myself from Michigan author Mark Love, who writes romance! I bought an early copy of a collection of short stories by various authors, including Love, called Inkspell’s Enchanted Holidays. After we shopped and chatted and I gathered bookmark business cards from every author, we had a nice lunch at the restaurant there, called The Garden by Poco Piatti. They had the best pizza, seriously.

After we ate, my cousin gave us a guided tour (using an 8 person golf cart which Wyatt thought was awesome) around Glass City. We hit all the major attractions of this 70 acre park. It has a 7 mile loop around the river with a 1,000 foot long trail (The Ribbon) for ice skating in the winter – and they even provide skating sleds for the disabled community, and cute little huts for fires and s’mores and whatever when you need a break, which you can reserve. We saw it all – the mural, the field of histories, which was my favorite. They are a field of glass orbs, and each one has a laser engraved image from a member of the Toledo community, that relates to their own personal history. Then each one has a code that can be looked up online to read more about the object. It is really well done and intricate, and ties it personally to the area. I absolutely loved it. History and art and community connection!! We saw the slag ladles, which is something Billy and I are familiar with living in an area with lots of steel mills, the kayaking cove and even some sites that are soon to come, such as a place to camp! It was really amazing, and for some reason I never put it together that it is called the Glass city because of all the glass manufacturing that happens/happened there, by companies like Libby and Corning.

We had a great time and headed happily home, full of books and history and moments with family.

Billy and I were having a big day Saturday, because we also went on our first date in like a year. I had bought tickets for an Edgar Allan Poe speakeasy all the way back in August and the day had come! Billy’s mom came over to watch Wyatt for us, and we made our way to another big city on the river, this one north – Detroit, of course.

So, this event was four readings from Poe, each one preceded by a drink pertaining to that reading. It was amazing. It was run by just six people, from start to finish, the drinks, the serving of the drinks, the readings, and it was all done so smoothly. When you get there, you are directed to a waiting room, that has drinks and just a few snacks, and tables. My cousin had been to this performance a few days before, and tipped me off that you can wait in line at about fifteen minutes to start, which we did. When they opened their doors five minutes later, we were among the first to find our seats – center stage, second row. Perfection. Then there is the intro, the first drink was served, and the first performance began. And that continued for the next 90 minutes. I did not drink all of my four drinks, I would have fallen over or died or something. So I drank about a quarter of each drink, so that I could taste it and enjoy it but still have the ability to watch the performance, try the other drinks, and not be a puddle on the floor when it ended. No need to get all messy. The performers did a phenomenal job setting the mood and atmosphere, and delivered a magical performance. I was spellbound! They did readings from The Pit and the Pendulum, The Fall of the House of Usher, Annabel Lee (I love it!) and Cask of Amontillado. It is hard to pick my favorite, so I won’t!

Sunday we spent just relaxing and resetting for the week, which I greatly needed. Then most of this week we spent schooling, therapy, and other just life things, except for Tuesday. Tuesday we met my brother and the Hurricane at the Henry Ford Museum. We had a great time, walking around, hanging out with the kids, putting Wyatt’s little flat George Washington places, until it happened. Wyatt threw up. He still occasionally has nausea from his meds and it got him on Tuesday. He threw up however, right in front of the lunch counter where I was paying, in a restaurant with a bunch of people eating. It was one of those horrid moments, where you feel terrible for your kid but also want the floor to swallow you up. My brother was there thankfully to lend a hand, cleaning Wyatt up for me so I could clean myself up, as I took the brunt of it and then I took my kiddo home. He napped for about 30 minutes and woke up perfectly fine. It was just not a great meds morning. We are having a redo next week, when we go to a different museum with Devin and Hurricane girl.

And Marsha, those pumpkins made me think of you!

And that is it for today! I hope that whatever you do today, you do something that makes you smile.

Comfy Cozy Cinema: A Knight’s Tale

 Lisa from Boondock Ramblings and I are back to watching and sharing about comfy cozy (and sometimes, chilling) movies for the fall season. Feel free to join in with us!!

This week’s feature is A Knight’s Tale!

When Lisa told me her list of movies and I read this one on it, I was so excited. I love this movie so much! Billy and I have watched it countless times over the years, it is just such a fun movie!

First though, let me just say had he lived, I think Heath Ledger would have done such big things. He was already on his way, and had been in so many movies with so many amazing performances. Rest in Peace Heath.

This movie as summarized by Rotten Tomatoes: “Peasant-born William Thatcher (Heath Ledger) begins a quest to change his stars, win the heart of an exceedingly fair maiden (Shanynn Sossamon) and rock his medieval world. With the help of friends (Mark Addy, Paul Bettany, Alan Tudyk), he faces the ultimate test of medieval gallantry — tournament jousting — and tries to discover if he has the mettle to become a legend.”

“He’s blonde! He’s pissed! He’ll see you in the lists – Liechtenstein!”

Heath Ledger plays William Thatcher, who upon the death of the knight he was page for, assumes the role of a knight himself, with the very fun moniker of Sir Ulrich von Liechtenstein – which is highly entertaining to hear Paul Bettany, in his role as Chaucer, say. I remember being all nerdily excited about the whole Chaucer and Knight’s Tale when this came out. Lol.

William slowly begins to be a force to be reckoned with, and he collects his own court of misfits along the way. Kate the blacksmith, who I love, Paul Bettany as Chaucer who really did add so much excitement and build up to the jousts and the movie itself, Mark Addy as Roland, a more down to earth, sensible character within the coterie, and Alan Tudyk as Wat, who is fabulously funny in everything he is in. They are like a little medieval found family, and I love it.

There is of course romance, with William courting Lady Jocelyn, played by Shannyn Sossaman. (whatever happened to her?)

However, the best part of this movie is the music. I loved this era of introducing modern music into different eras, like all of Baz Luhrman’s Romeo and Juliet and Moulin Rouge, and of course Knight’s Tale (not Luhrman, A Knight’s Tale was directed by Brian Helgeland). Them dancing to David Bowie was the best! It never fails to make me smile and bop along.

We of course have to have a villain, and Rufus Sewell as Count Adhemar was brilliant. You seriously hated him. Billy and I still like to deliver his line “You have been weighed, you have been measured, and you have been found wanting” about certain things (not each other obviously). Sewell was so scheming and scathing, and smug, and just….creepy. He was sooo good at playing the bad guy.

But the best part of this movie was William Thatcher visiting his father. It brought a tear to my eyes, honestly. And that is another thing Billy and I say to each other as well, when we need a little inspiring – we tell each other we need to change our stars, just like William.

And that is what this movie is about deep down isn’t it? Once you remove the dance numbers and music and silliness, it is about hope and believing in yourself and believing things can change. And if you need something that makes you smile, makes you laugh, and gives you hope right now, A Knight’s Tale is the perfect movie for all of those.

And that is it from me today! Stay tuned – next week we are watching and talking about The Five Year Engagement!

Pop on over to Lisa’s post too! You can find it here! Today is Little Miss’s birthday so it will probably be up a little later!