Our Cozy Little Life

The past few weeks have felt more like the summers I had growing up. Slower. Simpler. Small joys. And I am not complaining – and Wyatt wasn’t either.

First though, I want to brag about my little Scouts for a minute. Last Saturday morning we assembled to pack lunches at the church to hand out to people who needed them, and the kids did such a great job. I was proud of my Scouts! Only half of our pack could make it, it is summertime after all, but the three of the kids who did worked so well together and packed 120 lunches! The kids who weren’t able to make it are going to fill some blessing boxes on their own, which is just as important.

Later that evening, we got together for ice cream with friends. Wyatt’s and mine! Just a summer night, scoops of ice cream, stories, and laughter, sitting outside at the tables behind the ice cream parlor.

When the weather cooperates, when it is not too swampy out or extreme heat, we have been enjoying the outdoors. You know, let me amend that. I decided it was a good idea to take Wyatt on a hike through the woods on a very muggy day. It was beautiful out, the water was sparkling, the birds were singing, Wyatt kept telling me how happy he was, and I was sweating profusely while pushing a child and a wheelchair through the woods. It was a good time although I looked like a wet tomato at the end. Wyatt was in charge of holding my phone and recording the birds on Merlin and we would stop occasionally just to record a spot that had lots of bird chatter. I plopped down under a tree at the end and told Wyatt we were going to enjoy the shade and breeze and take a minute. While we were enjoying this moment, a man walking by told me that we were sitting under his favorite tree, with a little smile on his face. I agreed, it was a really great tree, with giant roots all over the ground, wide and strong with lots of shade branches and leaves. And I loved that idea of a favorite tree! Do any of you have a favorite tree? I don’t know if I do, but I might need one.

While we were out sweating in the woods, Billy was at a friend’s house building Wyatt a Little Free Library! I use the term “little” loosely, as it is actually quite big. Like almost as tall as me. Taller than Wyatt for sure. It is awesome and Wyatt is extremely excited to get it set up. Billy is actually working on it right now, putting the final touches on it while I type this.

I have been spending mornings outside on our deck, drinking coffee, reading, working, while Wyatt plays or draws out there with me. I also usually wander about poking at all of our flowers, checking on the caterpillars (who are slowly disappearing, even before full size – I think the birds have spotted them too), and I found a chrysalis! Some silly caterpillar had formed its chrysalis on the grill, and since it was a black swallowtail chrysalis, I gently removed it and relocated it, and also the only remaining caterpillar, to a butterfly enclosure. I decided I would protect the last little baby ‘pillar from the birds.

We haven’t been outside all the time though. It’s been more hot than not. When my dad visited the other day we decided a shopping trip to Target was in order to stay cool yet get out of the house. I also wanted to see if there were any Camp Snoopy notebooks there, since Wyatt loves Camp Snoopy. I had seen a post online that there were, but we didn’t find them. However, we did find a bunch of other things! All three of us had a really good time honestly. We spent some time in the dollar spot, oooing at all the things there we could buy – tiny colorful plates with summer fruits on them, card keepers for flash cards and playing cards, a little metal lunch box with clasps that says “Happy Camper”, fun mugs. My dad and I each picked out a mug – mine is a pastel purpley color with clouds on it, and my dad chose a yellow one with a handle that looks like a banana. Wyatt wanted the Happy Camper tin so we picked that up too, and it now houses his markers. My dad and Wyatt each got some shorts and shirts, I grabbed a new nail polish color. We just wandered around looking at everything and picking stuff up. It was good time!

Also, at the urging of my friend Kelly, who I had drinks with the other night in her yard, I ordered a few new embroidery kits to do during Wyatt’s recovery. I am glad she convinced me, it will probably be the best distraction for me, and the most relaxing too. I have oodles of books to read but I will probably be doing more reading with Wyatt than I will for me. I tend to not be able to read as much when I am anxious, but I can embroider. I picked out a set of three, that are hygge themed and they are really cute!

Then yesterday we got together with my whole extended family for the fourth. It also marked the 100th Independence Day since my grandfather’s family, the Keedys, came to America! My cousin has a big party every year, and it is so nice to just hang out near the pool, chat with family, eat and drink, and listen to the bops in the background. He has a gorgeous house and yard, and the kids go wild in the pool, and so do the dads. It was a typical super muggy day in the midwest, so even if we weren’t swimming we were poolside, legs and feet dangling into the water, getting splashed by children, mostly Wyatt. I was so happy that I decided to take a second dress with me, since I ended up getting soaked at one point when I chased my littlest niece down to give her mom a break for a second. We were a happy, motley crew and I think I smiled and laughed all day. We came home and all crashed hard.

This is my favorite photo from this past week or so…

And with that, I will sign off for now. I hope that whatever you all do today that you do something that makes you smile!

12 thoughts on “Our Cozy Little Life

  1. marsha57's avatar marsha57

    Yes, I do have a smile on my face reading this. I had several favorite trees up north…the weeping willow, the Norway Spruce I grew from a seedling, the river birch that was covered with thick poison ivy vines. I loved them all. I’m glad you were able to escape the mugginess to your cousin’s pool! But, wow!! Your own little library…that is so cool! Billy is a wizard!!

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    1. Aww I am glad it made you smile! And Marsha, how cool that you have several favorite trees!! I love that!! And you grew one from a seed? That is amazing!

      Billy is pretty awesome sometimes. Lol. He is almost done! He has a few more boards and then he has to prime, then Wyatt and I are going to paint it! Hopefully we finish it up tomorrow. Billy was driven back inside by the heat!

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  2. lesscher's avatar lesscher

    I love the lazy days of summer. I’m sorry it’s so hot and muggy for you, though. I was just remarking/complaining the other day that I wished it were warmer here, but maybe I should be content with our 60 degrees and sunshine.

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  3. so much going on! That photo of Wyatt with his friends is the best! I just love it.I love that story about the man talking about his favorite tree too and all that hiking you did. I would have fainted. Literally. Ha!So many great photos in this post too.The time with your dad sounds like so much fun! This was a really uplifting and fun post! I’m glad I read it right before bed.

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  4. Joanne's avatar Joanne

    Even if you were a sweaty mess by the end that nature walk looks fabulous– as does the backyard pool party for the 4th of July!

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  6. How awesome to be able to trace back 100 years that your family has been here! It sounds like such a nice time too you guys have had when you could go outside. I don’t think I have a favorite tree. Not sure where I would even have one, since the ones in my backyard pretty much just annoy me, lol. I don’t know if I’m ready, but I hear the back to school stuff is starting to be put out at Target. I’m not ready till the end of July. Hope you have a good week!

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  7. I love this post! I love MY tree, I have an acer in our garden which I grew from a tiny seedling that was half-broken and half-price 18 or so years ago. I was devastated when we had to have it cut right back as it had GROWN but I’m able to keep it in a nice umbrella shape myself now. I also love an old oak in Moseley Bog (look it up, it’s an amazing place, I bet Wyatt would like to see about it).

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